Would you date someone who has a crazy ex-partner?

[LiaRaven]

[ohsheeT]

No I've all ready been through all that stuff Every different type of scenario and it took me long enough to learn but stay away from drama is put in our lives to hold us back to keep reliving things over and until we learn from it. So I stay away from all that.

And it's not about the ex it would be about her and I... if the e. x is and ex. There's no reason for the ex to be in our lives

[LiaRaven]

No DRAMA lol

[ohsheeT]

Lol, yes, I know. I've been there, and it was messed up in so many ways. But I could tell you the one way it was so messed up.. and in that moment I said fuck this there is no one on this planet worth every thing i went through and what I almost did but I can tell you this and it's the truth your going to feel the way you want. to feel and one. day when your ready. You won't feel that way anymore

[conanbdetective]

I have dated a woman that had an ex-bf who spiraled after they broke up. I was 23, she was 31/32, and her ex was around her age too (can't remember exactly if he's older or younger by a year). We would be on a date and he'd be there or we'd meet up at a different city and he'd be there. So I had her log out of her connected devices and change out her passwords. And it turned out he was watching us through his Macbook that was synced. On a random afternoon, after uni, he and a couple of his buddies jumped me. He had a bat and was ready to bash me with it. Needless to say, they were unsuccessful in their attempt.

[Flower7]

This sounds like such a bad experience.

[LiaRaven]

That’s a crazy ex for sure

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh god, where do you live? 🤔

[LiaRaven]

@Maybe_Maybe_not this is common everywhere lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, my experience disagrees with yours 😏

[LiaRaven]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Ahaaa lol

[hannamontana]

No, I wouldn’t because I don’t want to deal with unnecessary drama or emotional baggage that isn’t mine to carry. If someone’s ex is still overly involved, causing chaos, or showing obsessive behavior, it usually means there are unresolved issues.

[LiaRaven]

Yeah, who needs drama in his life

[hannamontana]

Exactly!

[DishLady]

Probably not. Everyone has baggage, but when I start dating a guy I don’t need his ex to be a hostile monkey on my back.

[LiaRaven]

Agreee

[Finchie40]

The girls’ I end up with are usually the crazy ex partner not the guy lol

[LiaRaven]

That’s could happen lol

[Finchie40]

It happened a few times lol

[AviatorTom]

So long as it's only their ex who was crazy... not a problem.

[LiaRaven]

Alrighty

[Avicenna]

Depends on the entire circumstances

[Avicenna]

But definitely not if she’s still in contact with the crazy ex or her family

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

But what's craziness here? Is it criminality, mental illness, someone angry, someone disrespectful, you see my point.

I've had at least two gfs who had a manipulative and abusive ex, it certainly made them overly (and sometimes inappropriately) wary of me. So the consequences for her were also the consequences for me, indirectly. Though it would be an awful move from me to discriminate based on previous stories in the timeline

[LiaRaven]

If he becomes obsessed with you?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Ah, that case I didn't face lol. Gfs had cut all ties with the guys in question, they were not even living in the same city anymore.

If I was to face this case, well, it's tricky, are we supposing that this guy is currently obsessed with me while I'm in the process of courtship? If yes, I wouldn't know how to clearly proceed. I think it would depend on how I evaluate the intensity of his obsessions and most importantly his impredictability. If I don't have a clear view about the danger he poses... I'd probably abort my courtship

[Purpleronnie]

Been there , I foolishly allowed myself to think this was all him … then found after 6 months that the madness had either spread or pre-existed for both. Sometimes it takes a crazy to date a crazy. She is now a distant mammary however … mad as a box of frogs that one.. remembering still makes me shudder

[DangerouslyCute]

I have never experienced any problems with my partners' exes...

but much would depend on what crazy means... if it means aggressive, than I would probably reconsider it

[LiaRaven]

You keep vanishing lol

[DangerouslyCute]

it's summer ☀️ the sun is calling :D

[emeraldsaphire]

Um, I had one of those. Well we never dated. but we did hook up. He's in jall now. So my husband isn't to worried. Thankfully he was never violent just obsessed. He's in jail for Felony DUI.

[LiaRaven]

That’s better

[Flower7]

Yes as long as the person I’m dating doesn’t allow the ex to continue being a part of his life. It’s a problem if he refuses to block her or still communicates with her or anything like that.

[LiaRaven]

A good point of view

[RavVid]

You'd have to take pause for thought. There is something crazy about someone who got off with a crazy.

[LiaRaven]

Not necessarily, they are an ex

[Texasgal95]

And it’s not therefore that their ex act crazy so why should I punish them or something they can’t control

[LiaRaven]

You are not punishing them, but the crazy ex might get obsessed with you lol

[Anonymous]

Currently going through this… His ex is still obsessed and she’s been such a bother in our 4 yr long relationship. It’s mentally and emotionally exhausting, I’m about to give up on this tbh

[Flower7]

Why is she not blocked? Or is she showing up in person?

[LiaRaven]

Leave him, why are you still there lol

[jazzy34]

Nope. I don’t want the crazy ex to start bothering me.

[LiaRaven]

Definitely

[sawno]

Sure, I'm not gonna hold her accountable for what her ex does. Will be annoying though.

[LiaRaven]

It is annoying

[Nikki1989]

Sure, their past is none of my business.

[LiaRaven]

What if the ex is so crazy that he get obsessed with you

[fonduegirl]

There's a good chance this person is manipulative af

[LiaRaven]

Definitely lol

[fonduegirl]

Especially if they don't let you meet the ex. They know they slipping

[LiaRaven]

That’s true 👍🏻

[DJB72]

As long as the ex is established to have been crazy prior to their relationship, yes

[LiaRaven]

Gotcha

[DJB72]

Be fair, if she's got a history of making the guys she sees bonkers (and not in the fun way) she'd need to be an 11 to risk it... 😂

[strateguy632]

I would, but she became his prisoner, turns down everyone including me and him!

[Prin97]

Why not, People do change and subsequently we may like that person or the other person may like us even more than the first time round.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sure just dont come at me with that crazy shit cause if he does im gonna be the crazy right out of him

[LiaRaven]

How lmao

[Grond21]

That is too circumstantial to answer concretely one way or the other.

[LiaRaven]

Of course

[tzdc21]

If they keep talking about the partner and saying they miss that crazy partner then no.

[Anonymous]

I’d be careful, people’s choices say a lot about who they really are.

[LiaRaven]

I don’t agree with that

[Staximus]

I'll turn a crazy motherfucker's head into a piñata

[LiaRaven]

Lmfaooo 😂

[Emmytexrex]

There crazy ex is not my business they are my business so yh I can

[LiaRaven]

Hmmm, not sure lol

[msc545]

Maybe - depends on how crazy, and how dangerous.

[LiaRaven]

Haha

[rebelkid]

Absolutely I would. As long as it truly is an ex and not current

[Flower7]

Exactly.

[LiaRaven]

@Flower7 why are you replying to everyone lol

[Flower7]

@liaraven Well I kinda thought your question was interesting but since you seem to have a problem with it, don’t worry about seeing me on anymore of your posts.

[LiaRaven]

@Flower7 you are too sensitive, I was just curious, I don’t mind that and I am glad that you were interested in my post 🫶🏻

[Anonymous]

Well it is a 🚩 because she did choose him. I would definitely vet her a lot more.

[LiaRaven]

He became crazy after she left him lol

[Anonymous]

Guilty mine were really cray cray were talking like britney spears level cray cray and possibly higher

[LiaRaven]

What’s wrong with you lol

[WhitneySnow]

Only if I really liked them

[LiaRaven]

It won’t work in my opinion

[WhitneySnow]

You’re probably right

[LiaRaven]

Of course

[NathanDavis]

depends... but most likely, no

[LiaRaven]

Same here

[NathanDavis]

I've been jumped on before... by some stupid boyfriend, lmao

[LiaRaven]

Do you mean your girlfriend ex boyfriend lol?

[NathanDavis]

no, he was the boyfriend... and crazy stupid

[LiaRaven]

Santiagooooooo lol

[NathanDavis]

that's what she said... lmao

[LiaRaven]

Lmao

[exitseven]

Yes, i am not afraid of some nutjob.

[LiaRaven]

You sure lol

[exitseven]

Yes , I am sure

[LiaRaven]

You sure sure

[exitseven]

okay. I used to date a woman who was a little older than me. She was recently divorced and her ex husband was a problem. she cooked me dinner one night and I guess he came by and saw my car in the driveway. He came by and started banging on the door. She told me we should ignore it and he would go away. The banging got louder and i told her that i would go out and straighten him out. She insisted that we ignore it. After a while he finally left but I would have gone out and talked some sense into him.

[Shiprex]

If she made them crazy then not for long

[LiaRaven]

What do you mean lol

[Shiprex]

Their ex became crazy because of the girl. Like she made him lose his mind as a psychopath or narcissist tends to create that in kind people.

[LiaRaven]

Maybe so

[Rashmixoxo]

Only if I really really love the guy

[Iron_Man]

that wouldn’t have anything to do with me

[LiaRaven]

It would be

[Iron_Man]

why would it be he is the ex He’s not gonna be coming around me

[LiaRaven]

He might get obsessed with you lol

[Iron_Man]

With me”” then we’ll have to put the glove 🥊 on won’t we? lol 😂

[LiaRaven]

I would leave him and his crazy ex lol

[LiaRaven]

I wouldn’t ruin my nails lol

[Iron_Man]

ok haha

[LiaRaven]

Hehe

[Iron_Man]

nice upbeat
Conversation 😊

[Sam1133]

No sorry I don't want to date you

[LiaRaven]

You are hilarious lmao 😂
Sweet 💗

[Sam1133]

Just because you find me hot sexy sweet hilarious its not gonna melt my heart for you...😠😠

[LiaRaven]

Lmfaooo

[Sam1133]

Oh god she started crying..

I hold your head n Wipe out your tears by my thumb...

Stare into my eyes n listen...
"I know you're not my type,
I know i deserve better but i don't like girls cry for me...

So all i can do is i can be just friend with you...

Hug u cutie 🥰..

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i wouldn't date anyone with an ex

[Sam1133]

You're still minor...
You should focus more on studies n career not on exs n boyfriends..
Understand? 😠

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i do. id hate to end up like u.

[Sam1133]

You can't be like me I'm only one in the world...
Your teachers n professors doing study on my lifestyle so they can teach you how to live a life...💀

[LiaRaven]

@Sam1133 don’t bother her lol

[Sam1133]

Ohk i listen you i will stop 😊

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

ok bye

[Sam1133]

Gp away little girl my future ex @LiaRaven get disturbed from your comment..💀

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

that makes no sense

[Sam1133]

Your existence too 💀

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

do i really need to teach u ab sex ed?

[Sam1133]

Go n do studies stop disturbing my future ex 😒

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

right.. perv

[Anonymous]

Maybe, if she's my type of girl.

[LiaRaven]

What is your type of girl lol

[Opinion Owner]

I like dominant, self-confident, assertive, sporty type of girls ;)

[LiaRaven]

Ahaaaa

[Opinion Owner]

Aha, exactly :D

[MemeSupreme]

probably

[LiaRaven]

Really? Lol

[Jeff51]

No. Don't need the bs.

[thegreenyogi]

Probably not.

[LiaRaven]

Me too

[Jmmmfi4]

That's basically every one

[loveyouoak]

I wouldn't.

[LiaRaven]

Better not

[nl171]

I have

[Wise4myage]

Maybe?