3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No I've all ready been through all that stuff Every different type of scenario and it took me long enough to learn but stay away from drama is put in our lives to hold us back to keep reliving things over and until we learn from it. So I stay away from all that.
And it's not about the ex it would be about her and I... if the e. x is and ex. There's no reason for the ex to be in our lives02 Reply- 10 mo
Lol, yes, I know. I've been there, and it was messed up in so many ways. But I could tell you the one way it was so messed up.. and in that moment I said fuck this there is no one on this planet worth every thing i went through and what I almost did but I can tell you this and it's the truth your going to feel the way you want. to feel and one. day when your ready. You won't feel that way anymore
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11 moI have dated a woman that had an ex-bf who spiraled after they broke up. I was 23, she was 31/32, and her ex was around her age too (can't remember exactly if he's older or younger by a year). We would be on a date and he'd be there or we'd meet up at a different city and he'd be there. So I had her log out of her connected devices and change out her passwords. And it turned out he was watching us through his Macbook that was synced. On a random afternoon, after uni, he and a couple of his buddies jumped me. He had a bat and was ready to bash me with it. Needless to say, they were unsuccessful in their attempt.
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Oh god, where do you live? 🤔
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@Maybe_Maybe_not this is common everywhere lol
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Well, my experience disagrees with yours 😏
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@Maybe_Maybe_not Ahaaa lol
11 moNo, I wouldn’t because I don’t want to deal with unnecessary drama or emotional baggage that isn’t mine to carry. If someone’s ex is still overly involved, causing chaos, or showing obsessive behavior, it usually means there are unresolved issues.
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Exactly!
3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Probably not. Everyone has baggage, but when I start dating a guy I don’t need his ex to be a hostile monkey on my back.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. The girls’ I end up with are usually the crazy ex partner not the guy lol
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11 moSo long as it's only their ex who was crazy... not a problem.
01 Reply 16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on the entire circumstances
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m 11 moBut what's craziness here? Is it criminality, mental illness, someone angry, someone disrespectful, you see my point.
I've had at least two gfs who had a manipulative and abusive ex, it certainly made them overly (and sometimes inappropriately) wary of me. So the consequences for her were also the consequences for me, indirectly. Though it would be an awful move from me to discriminate based on previous stories in the timeline12 Reply- 11 mo
Ah, that case I didn't face lol. Gfs had cut all ties with the guys in question, they were not even living in the same city anymore.
If I was to face this case, well, it's tricky, are we supposing that this guy is currently obsessed with me while I'm in the process of courtship? If yes, I wouldn't know how to clearly proceed. I think it would depend on how I evaluate the intensity of his obsessions and most importantly his impredictability. If I don't have a clear view about the danger he poses... I'd probably abort my courtship
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11 moBeen there , I foolishly allowed myself to think this was all him … then found after 6 months that the madness had either spread or pre-existed for both. Sometimes it takes a crazy to date a crazy. She is now a distant mammary however … mad as a box of frogs that one.. remembering still makes me shudder
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10 moI have never experienced any problems with my partners' exes...
but much would depend on what crazy means... if it means aggressive, than I would probably reconsider it
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it's summer ☀️ the sun is calling :D
11 moUm, I had one of those. Well we never dated. but we did hook up. He's in jall now. So my husband isn't to worried. Thankfully he was never violent just obsessed. He's in jail for Felony DUI.
11 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes as long as the person I’m dating doesn’t allow the ex to continue being a part of his life. It’s a problem if he refuses to block her or still communicates with her or anything like that.
01 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. You'd have to take pause for thought. There is something crazy about someone who got off with a crazy.
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11 moAnd it’s not therefore that their ex act crazy so why should I punish them or something they can’t control
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Anonymous(18-24)11 moCurrently going through this… His ex is still obsessed and she’s been such a bother in our 4 yr long relationship. It’s mentally and emotionally exhausting, I’m about to give up on this tbh
12 Reply571 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope. I don’t want the crazy ex to start bothering me.
11 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sure, I'm not gonna hold her accountable for what her ex does. Will be annoying though.
01 Reply18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Sure, their past is none of my business.
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10 moThere's a good chance this person is manipulative af
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Especially if they don't let you meet the ex. They know they slipping
896 opinions shared on Dating topic. As long as the ex is established to have been crazy prior to their relationship, yes
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11 moI would, but she became his prisoner, turns down everyone including me and him!
00 Reply Why not, People do change and subsequently we may like that person or the other person may like us even more than the first time round.
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11 moSure just dont come at me with that crazy shit cause if he does im gonna be the crazy right out of him
21 Reply 999 opinions shared on Dating topic. That is too circumstantial to answer concretely one way or the other.
01 Reply681 opinions shared on Dating topic. If they keep talking about the partner and saying they miss that crazy partner then no.
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Anonymous(25-29)11 moI’d be careful, people’s choices say a lot about who they really are.
01 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'll turn a crazy motherfucker's head into a piñata
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11 moThere crazy ex is not my business they are my business so yh I can
01 Reply5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Maybe - depends on how crazy, and how dangerous.
01 ReplyAbsolutely I would. As long as it truly is an ex and not current
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Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moWell it is a 🚩 because she did choose him. I would definitely vet her a lot more.
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He became crazy after she left him lol
Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moGuilty mine were really cray cray were talking like britney spears level cray cray and possibly higher
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11 moOnly if I really liked them
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You’re probably right
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m 11 modepends... but most likely, no
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I've been jumped on before... by some stupid boyfriend, lmao
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no, he was the boyfriend... and crazy stupid
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that's what she said... lmao
8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, i am not afraid of some nutjob.
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okay. I used to date a woman who was a little older than me. She was recently divorced and her ex husband was a problem. she cooked me dinner one night and I guess he came by and saw my car in the driveway. He came by and started banging on the door. She told me we should ignore it and he would go away. The banging got louder and i told her that i would go out and straighten him out. She insisted that we ignore it. After a while he finally left but I would have gone out and talked some sense into him.
831 opinions shared on Dating topic. If she made them crazy then not for long
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11 moOnly if I really really love the guy
00 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. that wouldn’t have anything to do with me
19 ReplyNo sorry I don't want to date you
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11 moi wouldn't date anyone with an ex
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i do. id hate to end up like u.
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ok bye
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that makes no sense
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do i really need to teach u ab sex ed?
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right.. perv
Anonymous(36-45)11 moMaybe, if she's my type of girl.
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What is your type of girl lol
Opinion Owner11 moI like dominant, self-confident, assertive, sporty type of girls ;)
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Ahaaaa
Opinion Owner11 moAha, exactly :D
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11 moprobably
11 Reply 371 opinions shared on Dating topic. No. Don't need the bs.
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11 moProbably not.
01 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. That's basically every one
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11 moI wouldn't.
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11 moMaybe?
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