460 opinions shared on Dating topic. This question perfectly describes my issues with modern dating. I don’t know if your wording was intended to pint it out but there’s all these stupid rules and requirements especially on the side of men it feels like you can’t do more then you can do and the things you can do are highly dependent on on how and individual feels you come off.
If men were already at a disadvantage just due to gender norms woman have further made it there mission to paint men in the most negative light despite a lot of them making objective poor dating choices.
And before I get the comments cause I know I will. NO I DON’T MEAN ALL WOMAN. but also mean in general across the bored there’s just a lot of stupid rules for what counts and doesn’t count as love how long you have to be dating before it’s considered love people you should and shouldn’t date , red flags green flags a and white flags that everyone ignores.
Meanwhile other courses keep it simple I’m not saying we should fill adopt other counties dating models but we could learn a thing a two. Just cause I love and express love quicker doesn’t mean it s bad or I’m love bombing you that’s just how i personally love it’s like no one’s allowed to have some individuality and courting is dead I got into a heated argument with a female friend yesterday about the subject apparently if someone doesn’t automatically like you in some way shape or form off rip then putting in some effort to make them see your worth is a bad thing.10 Reply
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- 13 d
Communication is the key. We cannot be even remotely successful by assuming anything about anyone or forcing them to make assumptions about us. Be honest and open, early and often, and demand the same in return.
Unfortunately, i think that’s a pipe dream.11 Reply
MEN- BE RICH $$$ BE A PROVIDER- COURT AND ASK OUT WOMEN- HAVE A HOUSE, CAR, JOB BE 5'10- NO KIDS
WOMEN- BE SKINNY!! BE HOT- DUMB DOWN YOUR INTELLIGENCE TO NOT TRIGGER THE MAN. NO KIDS-
******Just Kidding- :) -- Honestly people have these Shallow Superficial Requirements. People tend to care only about the Cover and not the persons personality. Everyone wants to admire the "Flower" but not the "ROOTS" that hold together said flower.
I'd say Ditch the APPS and meet Folks IRL?
45 Reply- 12 d
I was so happy that I checked all the boxes of the things that you mentioned, only for it to be followed by "Just Kidding" :(
- 12 d
@katebfun You're kind of on point w/ your instincts. I would say women don't need to dumb down their intelligence, they simply need to understand it's not a metric that men look for in women.
- 12 d
@YourFutureEx Good for you! 😅🤣 the lost is slightly true.
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@Vegasrunner good, I value my intelligence!
- 11 d
@katebfun OK, however that's not a metric that men seek.
15.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Do you think there are requirements now?
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- 15 d
Find who genuinely likes you for you and let everyone else play games and end up alone or in a miserable relationship forever.
30 Reply - 11 d
Have a pulse
have some confidence and passion to succeed
Don't talk about politics, but make sure you are compatible enough.
If you are Indian guy, date an Indian woman... cause you ain't allowed to date anyone else. Am I wrong?
I don't know anything has changed...
10 Reply - 11 d
The list of nays:
#1 No white women.
#2 No personality disorder especially a Cluster B one (narcissistic, histrionic, borderline, anti-social).
#3 No dead weight.
#4 No wh*res.
#5 No manipulation.
#6 No bad hygiene.
#7 No ungratefulness.
The list of musts:
#1 Chemistry.
#2 Loyalty.
#3 Affection.
00 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. The requirements haven’t changed since humans discovered agriculture.
They don’t get yearly updates
The medium for meeting people might change but the concept itself remains the same10 ReplyI mean, what qualifies as "new"? Like, try to be a good, kind, responsible person, dress well and live healthy. But I don't think that's news.
20 ReplyWhy would there be any? People have dated for millennia and had no trouble. The only difference between us and them is we have electrified devices that can connect us with anyone anywhere in the world. Aside from that, absolutely nothing has changed our tactics.
10 Reply- 14 d
In practice I haven't seen any new requirement since my beginnings in 1996.
I and her still have the same requirements, someone's able to be caring.10 Reply - 13 d
Depends if you've been removed to El Salvador or not. Long distance relationships tend to spiral...
29 Reply- 13 d
Not so true. The they are being mass shipped which means they get sold off to whichever receiving country. Sold off. I mean America is paying the countries $25,000 a head. Where are they getting the money? From your neighbor who just lost their elderly meals on wheels, medical and ssi this morning in a monstrous res wave vote. Weak people who have to go back home to their states now. Mwahahaha.
- 13 d
*red (sticky snack fingers)
- 10 d
@exitseven Something the tax payers are having to fork back over for all of those legal fees and court loses trump is taking.
- 10 d
@exitseven America has a constitution.
- 14 d
The latest requirement for dating from what I understand is by at least the second date you must show your official credit report/with your FICA score.
30 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. A heart of stone apparently…
30 Reply- 12 d
Communicate, don't play manipulation games, treat eachother as people, don't be an asshole, and don't expect men to be the one to have the finances to cover you and himself.
10 Reply Everybody's gone a little bonkers with grind culture
10 Reply665 opinions shared on Dating topic. Requirements?
The current dating scene is a anarchy.
20 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)12 d
For men, they are Wealth, Height, and Model good looks. However, enough WEALTH may cancel out Height and good looks for many women, although if you qualify this way fidelity from the woman is even more unlikely - thus the "Sugar Daddy".
Women who say differently are lying. Men who say differently are engaging in wishful thinking, OR they possess all of the needed characteristics.00 Reply 7.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. You need to get a complete physical and get licensed.
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Being alive, and not being American.
20 Reply- 14 d
If your an American man date a foreigner. If your an American woman? You'll burn coal and pay the toll. Nobody wants you
00 Reply 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Didn't know there were requirements.
10 Reply- Anonymous(25-29)13 d
No idea
I quit during MeToo and am happier watching the chaos than getting involved00 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)14 d
I don't know, I never had a date.
20 Reply - 9 d
Are there new ones?
00 Reply 315 opinions shared on Dating topic. Honestly always
10 Reply- Anonymous(25-29)14 d
Just money
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