Yes, if her and I have amazing chemistry and connection and passion for each other , then fucking her on the first date can easily happen, I experienced that over a handful of times with girls’ I met that I hit it off with immediately if not the first day usually the second seals the deal lol. Having that instant passion and connection with someone is amazing
The second Update is also terribly wrong. Men CAN get raped, especially by other men and statutorily by older women preying on young boys. In the recent news there was a third grade teacher who had sex with some kid student.
But men have been having statutorily illegal sex with women for millennia because they could and could get away with it. Same is true of male rape of males, statutory or not.
But, AS TO THE QUESTION. On a first date you know nothing about the person. You don't know their HIV status, don't know their STD status, and even with protection, an accident could happen that could lead to you getting an infection.
Sex on a first date smells of sex-dating. You have to know that there are people online to get hookups and you'll never hear from or see them again.
So first-date sex is particularly unwise. I'd avoid it like the plague.
Been there , done it, worn the t-shirt !
Id say it depends currently im in a relationship with a guy that invited me for a weekend over as a first date we stayed up late talking and then around 2am when I got tired he offered to take the sofa and we ended up hooking up but its ended up great here we are 7 months later.
Most of guys aren't like that but put on a performance so id say be careful but most of all remember to have fun.
Also may not be a popular opinion and definitely not for some people but sex is meant to be fun and enjoyed it does great things for body and mind but be safe, always wrap up and have a great time !
Speaking from experience
"worn the t-shirt !"
Great punchline! 🤣
There are times when you click with somebody and it's deeper than you just clicking with them. It's your energies, both click together. And there are moments in time where it's unstoppable. I mean, you both know what's gonna happen and you both accept it and you both Go for it and those makes the best relationships
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Yes of course. But I haven't as of yet. Despite what many girls think about having sex on the first date (thinking that a guy will think they're easy if they put out on the first date), I personally feel like I'd feel much more connected. The fact that they felt they got comfortable enough where they could be so intimate with me early on would make me feel close to them.
If course there are many guys that DO believe a woman is easy if put out on the first date, and it can definitely indicate that, but the type of women I associate with are not the type to sleep around, this why I would only feel closer to them.
The key to this ever happening is having a lot of compatibility. Conversation flows, I find out we have similar views, interests, sense of humor, we want the same things in life, we find out we want the same things sexually, etc. It would just have to naturally flow into it.
Never again.
You can’t tell anything meaningful from one date. Everyone is on their best behavior or outright hiding something. It takes time and a variety of exposures to actually learn how nuckin’ futz they really are.
True Dat! Wake up the next morning with your pet rabbit boiling on the stove, LOL.
@SayGex ,
Is that all you people have? My age? Age is just t number boy.
Yeah, if the chemistry was there
Absolutely not! Nothing worse than saying you're easy. Plus most guys just want sex and are not really interested in a long-term relationship. So, nip it in the bud. Tell them you had a good time and would like to see them again, but you are calling it a night. If you never hear from them again, then they were not really into you but wanting to get there. 😅
I mean... It's not ideal, really not, but my desire has its reasons, sometimes these are good reasons. I'm not eager to test this assumption though, I prefer the comfort of taking things veeeery slowly.
Ah, but as one comment pointed out: In practice, I often have sex on the first date, the plot twist is that this first date takes a loooong time to happen 😂
Every long term relationship I ever had was consummated on the first date
(Except for one)
I find sex and the rest of it to be separate but connected things
You need good sex to have a good relationship
But having sex early or late changes absolutely nothing
If anything the sooner you find out what it’ll be like the better
No I wouldn't, it's too fast and no fun, I prefer long flirty situation
The deal is in the detail, connection, vibe and mutual understanding. There are people who feel like a stranger even though you have known them since years and there are people who can get along with you so well naturally in an instant that you feel all in with them.
For sure, I'd consider it.
maybe if they were my ex and i was drunk lol i really doubt it tho
i need that trust built up with someone, so it'd never happen with any stranger
YES. The guy who I’m currently interested in is my type and yes, I would love to sleep with him at least once.
I would like to think not no. I did that once and it was awful I don't want a repeat of that.
my fiancé now i did, though it took a year to get to the first date 🤷♀️
You know, probably not. If they weren’t my type I probably would but it they absolutely were then I wouldn’t want my first date to be all about sex. Getting to know one another would be more important to me.
More like they would with me if extremely my type, she'd be taking charge of course.
No matter what, I would always save it till marriage.
Yeah. I do have sex on first dates. I feel that’s pretty common now. I don’t need to be attracted to someone to sleep with them. As
Long as you are wet or can get wet. Common over! lol
No I don't think it's right and they may think your easy.
No, at least 2nd date.
But first date, I wanna commit for life.
It might sound too misogynist but I think if I am into someone it will happen soon.
Just felt like that
The current dating pool consists of one night stands only and only with the good looking ones. In that people get offended with anything.
Thanks ma'am
I never have sex on the first date. I’ve had many first dates but I’ve never had sex with them. In fact, I’m still a virgin. I’m not having sex until the wedding night.
No. Thats slutty. If you can't make a real connection over several months your "connection" isn't going to last a life time
Ofcourse! Attraction, Chemistry, Desire? Hell yeah! Ofcourse... Slam that 🍑...😅🤭😂
Would I? No because I take things slow. As for women controlling sex, it’s so true. Guys always want it, you ladies are able to take the pick out of a candy store
Absolutely not. What about you?
I mean why not?
If all the chemistry is there then why not indulge.
If we realy click well yes
Of take advantage but mostly everybody else likes to chit chat or they seem mean or they would date rape you nothings even right
Let's be honest, she just needs to be a 6 and we can go there.
u Sure, I have done so before.
I doubt it.
no. sex is for serious relationships.
Even though she's not my type, yes
Since u’re looking at it from a female viewpoint, u might perceive sleeping with everyone as low self-worth. Let me explain it this way: sexuality is something under women’s control.
If I like her appearance and the woman gives consent, I don’t consider her character for having sex. Also, as long as it’s not excessive, a certain number of sexual encounters can have a positive effect on a man. I’ll also say that in the past, I sometimes rejected grils who didn’t match my character or mindset, and I regretted it.
A man shouldn’t be hypergamous otherwise, if he doesn’t have certain experiences, he’ll look back with regret.
The woman is the one who offers sexuality whether she gives it or not is her decision.
Consent is not mutual it’s the generally woman’s decision. If a woman says yes, most men will take advantage of it. I’m not saying there aren’t men who refuse, but the overwhelming majority will accept.
"males can never get raped"
Yeah
I've never seen a man being raped
Not anymore. I used to
Not since I turned 21.
Yes absolutely.
And by the way isn't it really true that men can't get raped by women?
Depends in the conversations
I would try most certainly.
When I was dating, a few times I did.
Yes, of course.
It's her choice, I like dominant girls.
Why not. Today's generation, dating means sex.
That'd be up to them.
I'm a man. Guess?
Probably not, but hormones muddy the brain
As per your update, the right match would make it hard to say no for sure
Don’t think I have. I’m speaking on my own checklist and I would be damn tempted if a girl met all the requirements.
Sure, why not?
It’s good to know what you want lol. That’s a complicated request though.
Understand that. It’s ok to have desires. Goals if you will
If I found a girl who was into everything I was it would definitely be concerning… cause I know I’m a bit nuts
And then I’d be only nuts… 😳
It’s ok we like ourselves lmao
Best to be friends with the voices in your head…. lol jk
No, I'm emotionally healthy
Nope, never
I have even when they weren’t my type
If she wants to, yes.
Yes, I would have sex with her
Nope
It's entirely up to her
Yeah
Not likely.
oh yeah
Possibly
Hell yeah!
Probably
Nope
Women do control sex, except in cases of rape. Men can be raped by women, but it's exceedingly rare.
He's obviously wrong.
never
Why not?
Whatever happens
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