Is it normal to not desire see a guy im dating & feel no butterflies?

[Sugar100]

It’s a guy I been seeing for 3wks or a month I don’t remember. We meet weekly 2-3xa wk. I stay to sales at his house , we cuddle hug while we sleep, wake up together and eat breakfast together. Date. We eat sitting close next to together. But I don’t feel joy or in love , I don’t feel smitten or butterflies to see him. I actually have no desire see him today or yesterday or tomorw. He wants to see me all the time and I’m like not interested. Why? I do like him but not a lot. I’ve never been able date a guy I love. I never had mutual love where two people love each other and want get married I never experienced that.

[Flower7]

It sounds like things moved too fast. You two are already sleeping together. There probably would be more “butterflies” involved if there had been more of a slow buildup.

[Sugar100]

I have fear of doing things too slow as the guy will just waste ur time n neevr marry u or be a serious boyfriend. I have and experience in doing things too slow. It’s better do things fast. I never experiences a serious relationship where u meet family n love together.

[Flower7]

Well maybe that means you’re doing something wrong.

[NathanDavis]

it is completely normal, yes

and I think that's the point of dating... to try and figure out if you two work, or not...

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's not the one move on and stop wasting your time