Would you date a guy that never asks to be his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never had a guy ask me to be his girlfriend.

Guys just act like a boyfriend and date u but never ask to be his girlfriend. I have bad experience with 2 guys and when I ask what are we they say friends with benefits.

now I’m dating a guy but we don’t hav sex but still he acts like a boyfriend wants see me weekly 2-4x a wk but he never asks to be his girlfriend. I asked once what is difference of a friends with benefits and a boyfriend and he refuse reply me and laugh it off and I say I don’t do friends with benefits.

still I feel sad cuz it’ll be endless dates and still I never get asked to be his girlfriend. And I have to tell people he’s my friend even my mom already herself calls him my friend. As there’s no confirmation.

only 2 guys at my job have asked if I have a boyfriend then ask for my number and this has made me feel nice as its progress saying if I have a boyfriend. Might mean they might be my boyfriend and ask finally?

I met a girl once 28 she also never had a boyfriend she said guys pretend act like a boyfriend but never ask to be her boyfriend.

😓 why guys refuse ask? I’m not pretty enough so guys r seeking better girl? I’m not good enough?

[DishLady]

Doesn't dating come before the actual declaration of boyfriend/girlfriend? That's how it's always worked in my generation...

[Asker]

How long u need date? In my experience it goes on for years dating and guy never ask to be his girlfriend and then says he’s single and treats u whole time like a friends with benefits. That’s y I can’t wait months years. If I’m not a girlfriend then bye I don’t do situationships

[DishLady]

No no that’s crazy. If you’re dating a few months you’re basically an item. (We used to say “an item”.) I don't know if that’s some new sort of thing bc the generation is skittish about “defining” anything from gender to peanut butter…. Smh

[Asker]

No. That’s not true. If I ask a guy they say friends with benefits 🙁

[Asker]

So I need dump this guy as he refuse call me his girlfriend and need dump him before it’s too late and he wants sex.

[Asker]

Won’t let him use me as a situationship or friends with benefits smh

[DishLady]

friends with benefits means you’re not DATING, you’re just hooking up.

[Asker]

We don’t have sex. But still he refuse clarify in his girlfriend and it’s one month dating he wants keep me as a friend forever?

[DishLady]

Whatever this is is not dating….

[Asker]

What is dating then?

[slatyb]

I've never asked that question. I find it silly. When two people are seeing each other frequently and exclusively and regularly appearing in public as a couple, then they are presumably boyfriend and girlfriend. If you aren't sure, then you aren't.

[Asker]

We meet weekly 2-3x a wk. but I need a guy to ask me cuz the past guy said he is single and use me as friends with benefits. U need ask or the guy will say u r friends with benefits

[HawkPerception]

I have always asked my partners to be my girlfriend officially. Every one of them. It's the right thing to do, otherwise you keep them wondering what they are to you.

[PeachyPie93]

Only give them a month if they can't commit by then move on so you don't fall in love and never give the coochie to anyone you aren't actually boyfriend and girlfriend with. You have to be stern with these POS these days..

[Asker]

Yes I’m gunna dump him it’s one month he refuse say I’m his girlfriend so wtf am I?

[Kaneki05]

The best women don't wait to be asked they tease you into admitting you like them then they get with you or don't showing their answer in response.

[Asker]

Any guy can say they like u , but that don’t confirm
He’s your boyfriend

[Kaneki05]

The point being he don't, she does. There is no point in rejection if she shows what she wants.

[Asker]

He don’t what?

[Kaneki05]

Don't need to ask.

[Anonymous]

It's unlikely I ask a woman to be my girlfriend. It's been my experience that if she really wants to date me, she'll ask.

You know the old saying, "if she really wanted to, she would".

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s not seeing you as attractive enough to lose you to other guys. That’s why he hasn’t asked to be your boyfriend.

[Asker]

So I’m ugly then.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not sure you are. He may think that he can find someone better looking. Still could mean you are ok

[BarryLiverstone]

Because if he was your boyfriend, wouldn’t that mean he can’t see other girls?

[Asker]

But even ugy girls get bfs

[BarryLiverstone]

Some do. I wouldn’t know how you look as you are anon. But if he wants you to be his, he would ask

[Asker]

All I’ve gotten so far is do u have a boyfriend then ask for my number. I don't know if that’s good or not

[BarryLiverstone]

Follow me and I’ll try to help you. Sounds like you want to be in a relationship and have been asked out

[Asker]

Just recnrtly I’ve gotten by 2 guys do u have a. boyfriend , and I never been asked that before. One is a guy I don’t like the other is a guy I like. Does asking if I have a. boyfriend mean he wants be my boyfriend? And will ask soon if we talk more and he likes me?

[BarryLiverstone]

No, asking if you are single or have a boyfriend doesn’t mean he wants the title. He would need to date you and get to know you before that decision

[Asker]

Yes after they asked that they r trying get to know me. So I assume they do want be my boyfriend if the dates and talking keeps going well?

[SotiCoto]

I wouldn't date a guy.
And how the hell is any guy going to be anyone's girlfriend? That doesn't make sense.

[Vegasrunner]

Guys should never ask a girl to be their girlfriend. That's not how it works

[Gaylordslav]

you're not relationship worthy

[Asker]

Why not?

[Gaylordslav]

I wouldn't know I dont know you. These guys never felt like you should have the title of girlfriend

[Gaylordslav]

guys want sex, women want commitment. A guy can't have sex unless he's a guy she would want children or relationship with.

[jahaims]

You get used because you let people