Guys be honest, what do you really think of women that hook up immediately?

[megzs16]

If you were to meet a girl on Tinder and she comes over the first night and is intimate with you, what are your thoughts? Is she just a one night stand? Or could you see yourself dating her?

[ohsheeT]

To be honest I'm sure down deep no guy likes that. But there are times when your out on your first date. And the energy and chemistry is so unique, so beautiful. So in tune, you can't keep your hands off each other, and you don't want to\nThose I like. Because you become the moment and you both know it was meant to be. That when you really get to know someone fast and so many things about them and it just keeps growing from there.


But the girls that just have sex on the first date because they guy wants to or they feel they need to have sex to keep the guy . In time those kinda sizzle out and it doesn't last

[Zack-Bann]

Every time that happened we ended up seeing each other for a while


I’ve never once judged a woman for doing what we both knew felt absolutely right


I once hosted a tourist who was leaving the next day.
We didn’t sleep a wink.
And when she left she told me that I gave her in that one night the best and healthiest relationship she’s ever been involved in.
the feeling was mutual.


We didn’t need 5 dates to please some arbitrary standard. We just got lucky, and we knew it

[HawkPerception]

For me, I've never thought the idea of physical intimacy early on in a relationship ruins my view of a girl. If anything, I feel closer with her. It takes a lot to be physically intimate with someone (at least for me and the kinds of girls I'm attracted to). It shows she trusts me and feels comfortable enough to be vulnerable with me. That is extremely flattering and quite endearing.

[OneViewpoint]

Honestly? I'd think she's human. She gets horny too. Maybe she gets lonely. And I don't know what's going on in her life. But she chose me. Dating her would depend on how well we connected. I wouldn't automatically toss her number in the trash can. But neither would I necessarily expect her to want to date me. It's one of those case by case situations you have to evaluate in the moment.

[Zylos]

The way I would explain it is that I can lust after a woman without having feelings for her. So which group she falls into there matters - not whether she puts out on the first date.

But maybe you can slightly raise your perceived "value" by waiting.

However, I think it's less important, unless you're looking to date misogynistic douchebags stuck in the 1950s.

[Cormac995]

I think that they're tramps that have been run through and used up in most cases. I haven't met a single woman who said they were DTF that wasn't a genuine slut with a body count at least in the double digits.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Looking at it with my usual terms, it's very likely we'll have at least a 3 months chat on Tinder before meeting, so hook up immediately... What immediacy lol?

[RHK36]

She's mostly likely just casual. If she slept so easily with me then she's probably done that who knows how many. There's no way you could find a serious relationship with a person like that unless they fake it.

[sinestro23]

it'd be a hook-up relationship only... i do nottt want anything serious with someone like that

[HighValue]

People that have EVER done hook ups/casual sex are low quality immoral people. I'd have no interest in her.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not my cup of tea, it shows they are easy and can somewhat make you wonder if further down the line she can easily make the decision to cheat

[bowenw]

I wouldn't think negatively of her and would want to date her presuming things went very well on the first meeting.

[Still-alive]

If i was into her for more then just sex i would hope this wasn't just a one time thing. so i guess that would be going through my mind afterward.

[SotiCoto]

[nawtee_me]

To be completely honest, I don’t think anything about it at all. Doesn’t bother me one way or the other….

[jahaims]

They are immature and lack honest introspection so they cope by seeking validation in unhealthy ways

[Arcadian222]

Nothing's wrong here as long as there is some emotional connection too.

[BLP11520]

Very low opinion of them, the men are jerks. 🧐

[Anonymous]

No self respect. How am I supposed to respect a woman that doesn't even respect herself.

[WonderingManII]

I would be scared of her.

[dudeinohio]

I could develop a relationship with her

[hello4433]

If she's coming over just for sex I don't care

[Sam1133]

She is just a hoe
And I like hoe's

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well that all depends

[Ariesman81]

Depends how she behaves