On early stages of dating some women treat guys as if they are their boyfriends e. g. changing plans just to spend time with him; being too available; cooking; acts of service. How do you guys feel about it? Does it come off as trying too hard or do you actually appreciate it?
Oh I absolutely would appreciate that. It shows she’s showing a lot of effort and cares about me. There’s nothing wrong with that.
If I’m not into someone then we can just stop seeing one another. That is super super nice.
It isn’t trying too hard just as long as he appreciates it and returns the favors
Most Helpful Opinions
If I like the girl, then I'll love it. I think unfortunately most women act this way when they sort of already know that the man isn't really all that into them. This is where self respect comes into play.
What Guys Said
Depends.
If I already like a girl, making these efforts would make me love her.
If I haven’t liked her romantically, doing so will probably turn me off.
Just me though.
As long as she is not being pushy, I would find that attractive.
If she's doing all that very early, it'll be too fast and I'll let her know. If she continues, I'll stop seeing her. I don't like impatient women
Makes me feel I probably dating wrong person who rushes into things an then has problems knowing real love or caring
I don't think that is unusual and when I was actively dating, I reciprocated the attention!
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