How does my personality sound to women?

[Anonymous]

I’m a single guy, and I’m gonna go back to dating soon after a year of working on myself. But I’m just wondering if I’m even likable? Let me know what you think? So I spend a lot on everything except for food, utilities, and rent (I grew up poor, so I’m fortunate enough to get what I want). I just feel happier buying new furniture, or things to make my place nicer. I’m trendy, yet I put my own twist to everything. I like modern anything. Including modding out my cars and buying new clothes/shoes (I like designer clothes a lot). I have a spending habit, unfortunately. I get a haircut every two weeks because I like having my hair neat. I spend a lot on colognes too. I’ve been working super hard for the things I have, and some people think I’m rich, but it’s just because I always work and budget to afford a lot of things. But I don’t drink or go out with friends because I rather use my time and money elsewhere. I’m honestly, antisocial and introverted. I choose not to hangout with anyone unless it’s a girl because I think of friends as replaceable since I’ve been to college and working different jobs (just having the experience of always meeting new people). I stay out of social media too because I don’t care to impress anyone, or hold onto the past. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of people like me and I’m down to earth. People always ask me to hang out, I just choose not too. I like new experiences. I like traveling a lot too. It takes me a while to open up to girls because I like to see who they are first before deciding if it’s worth my time or not. I mostly look for personality and some looks to go with it. Bottom line is that she has to be nice, or I’m leaving. I can’t stand women with attitudes because it’s just immature to me that a grown ass woman would behave more like a child than an adult.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I can understand where you're coming from. I think you're going to be searching for a long time. People are going to misunderstand someone like you a lot. It makes it harder to begin being intimate with a woman just because of how they look at men

[Asker]

You’re spot on. People misunderstand me all the time. But I don’t care to change for anyone. I’m myself and people don’t like that. If it takes me a long time, so be it. I rather be with someone who gets me. But thanks for your input!

[Anonymous]

People like you are unreliable and you're one of those guys who just disappear when they're in a relationship. because you lack confidence in yourself. In short, we girls call you losers.

[flirtatiousgirl]

👍👍

[Asker]

Well, to be honest. I have broke up with every girl I’ve been in a relationship with because I’m not into it anymore, or they do something that is just wrong. But I don’t lack confidence in myself. I know who I am.

[Opinion Owner]

So do you tell the girl you want to break up or do you become a ghost? Secondly, why are you breaking up with the girls on the other side?

[Asker]

Yeah, I tell them why I’m breaking up and everything. And I break up with them because I realize that it’s better to end things than to temporarily fix what’s broken. Those girls and I were just not meant to be, so I save them and myself heartaches. But don’t get me wrong, the ones that aren’t in relationships still like me. So it’s not like I’m an “a-hole” to them.

[flirtatiousgirl]

I know more or less men and I want to answer you. These types of men cannot boldly say they want to leave you act cowardly. The reason he wrote this must be because he shared a secret remorse for a girl he had ghosted recently. He disappeared abruptly, saying that there was probably something wrong with the girl. And such people are definitely the ones who started a relationship online because they were rejected by a girl. And she thought like this oh my god a girl who is a far away girl accepts me. but why did she reject me (real of real) So do you tell the girl you want to break up or do you become a ghost? Secondly, why are you breaking up with the girls on the other side? that's why he says he trusts himself, but in fact, asocial men are people with low self-confidence and their intelligence level is quite low. because they are in the losers club. They leave the girls like a ghost because they have problems with their personalities. At least two weeks later, a year later, they write to the girl he left, but that girl is not where they left him. such men die alone. even if they get married they are betrayed by their wife but even their souls don't understand

[Asker]

@flirtatiousgirl I don’t know why you don’t believe I’m confident in myself? And you’re quite rude. Saying I’m dumb. I literally been to college, and my last grades were all “A”s. Honestly, you need to reevaluate how you know people. Haven’t been taught on “not to judge a book by it’s cover?”

[flirtatiousgirl]

What did you study and which university did you attend?

[Opinion Owner]

@flirtatiousgirl yes, men can't say let's break up. they prefer to be ghosts

[flirtatiousgirl]

you are a strange person.

[Asker]

You ain’t wrong, lol.