I don't understand what's preventing him from making a statement or asking me if I want to be his girlfriend? He's said that he's looking for a long-term relationship, and I'm not in a hurry to be in a relationship just to be in one. I don't mind if we spend more time to get to know each other even more, but I would be ready to be in a relationship whenever he is.
I just don't understand what he's waiting for. I'm worried if he's a player who's going to hurt my heart?
I do appreciate that he didn't say that he's ready to be in a relationship in the heat of the moment, just for the sake of having sex with me, but he keeps holding my hand to touch his hard-on and even takes it out to rub on me. I've asked him a few times what he's waiting for and if he's ready to commit because I won't have sex with him until we're in a relationship. I also told him that I'm not in a hurry, it's just that he seems to want to have sex with me. I didn't get response from him besides continued kisses.
What does it sound like he's doing? Maybe he's seeing other women too that's why he can't commit in a relationship? Maybe he's been doing the same and making out with them? Or is it just simply a good guy who needs more time to think about a relationship at this point?
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