So he's my age only and it was a marriage arranged by his parents. He got married but its barely been a year or so since his marriage and he already has a wandering eye. I see him checking out women all the time and there's this one particular girl at our office he's very interested in.
He changes his whole schedule (which is very busy) to see her and spends extra time with her just chatting with her asking her loads of personal questions. He's also always laughing and smiling with her and I've never see him like this with anyone else. He's usually very reserved. I also catch him staring at her when she's not looking. He hasn't told her about his marriage also.
Now I don't know if I should bring up all this with him. He might get offended as to why I'm interfering in his personal life so much. But I can't help and feel bad seeing him behave this way when he's got a wife at home. A close friend of his (who's a guy) had asked him if he's happy with his marriage he just made a face, shrugged and didn't respond.
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Ok well for one thing it was an arranged marriage so chances are he wasn’t really into her. So I don’t fault him for having a wandering eye. Even so, a lot of men have wondering eyes it just happens. Now if you’re staring then that’s different you know exactly what you’re doing. A wandering eye could be a quick glance w out noticing. Two damn if he’s young like you kid has t even had a chance to get out to experience life, to see what else life has to offer. I don’t see how hard it would be to u set stand how he’s feeling if it wasn’t his decision to pick his wife. I mean he could have objected to the wedding so that’s partially his fault.
Yeah true I agree with whatever you said but like I said staring and ogling is something else but what he's doing with this one particular girl is what concerns me
He's digging up a hole for himself and it's going to damage his marriage even further
Why does it concern you? You have feelings for him? Again it was an arrange marriage. His feelings were never w his fiancé to begin w.
Umm... cause we are friends?
not every relationship between a guy and girl has to be a romantic one
Ok even if you are friends he’s a grown man. He can makes his own decisions. If he chooses to flirt w a girl that’s his choice. Again it was an arranged marriage so he probably didn’t even like her. All you can do is be a friend. Tell him if he needs to talk you’ll be there. Other than that leave it alone.
He is a play boy, he loves hitting up on girls, flirting and more. So he is the worst person to be married too. The eye balling other girls its normal everyone does it even right after the wedding so nothing wrong with that, just dont make him ve around girls and he will calm down.