What can I do as I love abuse?

[Jsirngnf]

I tell girls leave guys who are abusive and I say I shouldn’t date them either

then I go get excited down there because a man being domineering and a jerk is pretty much the only thing that gets me moist.

it’s the stupidest thing ever and I cannot understand what to do. Should I try to embrace being a sub all the time and long to be mentally abused by guys I date?

I can’t keep doing this wushu washy bullcrap!

[ohsheeT]

Abuse and domineering control are two different things. I like to role play. You can be in a good relationship With a guy. And if he knows what you like he can take you there and since he knows what you want what you like you can not only take you there , but he will take you over the edge with control force man handle intense hot passion

Do you role play

At least if you role play it out you might be able to figure it out

[sinestro23]

u can join dating communities for almost any niche, there are plenty of bdsm ones

[Jsirngnf]

Oh.. i dont feel drawn to bdsm communities. I like to to be natural.

[Anonymous]

You know men can be dominant without being an asshole right?

[Jsirngnf]

Idk… I haven’t really seen those guys around much.

[Opinion Owner]

They are out there , you just gotta know where to look

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[slatyb]

You can get what you want without actually being abused. Have you tried telling your partners what works for you?

[Ask105]

Thats cool and all until you have a stalker that trys to kill you so be careful

[SotiCoto]

Get a drug dealer boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

Who says you need to do anything?😆

[jahaims]

Heal your trauma