Do you fall hard fast or does it take you a long time to fall for someone?

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Pearl222 · Accepted Answer

I’ve never fallen for someone very fast, it’s usually more of a slow burn as I get to know more about them over time.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Hard and fast when I just know!!

ohsheeT · Answer

I know way in advance that I like the person but if I feel it coming from her, and I feel the say way I will push it a little some times Because that always bring out the best in both people.

Coden7 · Answer

It depends really. Being pretty is one thing, but if her personality is on full display and we link up quickly in conversation, then yeah I’ll fall quickly. If one of those are missing, I’ll slow burn until things either work themselves out or I lose all interest

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Both... depends. I've noticed if I fall fast af, it ends fast af.

Which makes sense... if I'm falling fast, it's because it's just so perfect, which is perfect for me to find out it's not as it seems.

Shiprex · Answer

It's not been often enough to get an idea because I've often fallen into things that lasted. SO did it happen quick? I don't know what is quick, days weeks months it's not been often enough to tell.

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 I at times confuse infatuation with love. My current 'love interest is married and out of reach, but I still believe that I love her. I like her immediately!

Malemajor · Answer

Used to fall fast. Now I'm a slow burner. I guess most men are like that. Experience gives wisdom to not make impulse decisions.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

A bit of both... If I see that a woman shows a decent interest in me I tend to start envisioning my life with her... But my emotions doesn't lock in for a bit...

BadApple69 · Answer

I used to fall hard and fast…. Now, I doubt I’ll ever really fall for someone. I have seen too much the evil in people.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Have never fallen fast in my life this far , still not sure about my lady after 13 yeas jk 😜.. but seriously , nah it take a while , I’m guarded

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have only fallen hard and fast twice. One of them I married, and the other one is my girlfriend. I was lucky there.

lorenzomichael · Answer

I don’t fall hard for women. Listen realistically if we’re talking about how much time it’ll take for me to fall deeply in love again. It’ll probably be sometime after the next full eclipse of the sun give or take a couple of days.

queenofcardio · Answer

Takes time.. I can be skeptical at first if I feel he's not being honest

TrimmedTip · Answer

Depends on the vibe. Sometimes it’s instant, sometimes it’s a slow build.

valentina4eva · Answer

i usually fall fasttt!!🏃🏻‍♀️💨 it’s a problem lol, i have to be careful😅😅

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

It takes a long time, even if I'm head over heels I will hold myself back until I'm sure. I won't be blinded.

Anonymous · Answer

I have only fallen for one girl very hard. I initially found her very attractive, but my desire seemed to exponentially grow the more I saw her.

Ironco · Answer

It takes me awhile, I actually like the "getting to know you" part, see if we are compatible. The more you know and find out, the love part will take care of itself. Or not...

lilBigPotato · Answer

Takes time to fall for someone but if I do I fall hard

bowenw · Answer

Usually quick, like after seeing someone on the bus for 5 minutes.

warlock83 · Answer

Yes, I have, and it always ended badly. I had to tell myself it was a problem and just stopped altogether. I want to date, but I do not feel ready at the moment. I am also afraid to get into a relationship again as I have major trust issues.

ilistengood · Answer

It can go either way , 2 of the best relationships I've had started out with a mutual dislike.

HeartShapedHaze · Answer

Fast because I think I am going to be alone for the rest of my life lol. Not too fast though I keep my wits about what I am getting into lol

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

It takes me a long while to buildup kinship and trust

Babygirl_S · Answer

I take my time to be really deeply in love but get attracted easily.

Tracy2025 · Answer

It takes me a long time to fall for someone. The older I get, the more this happens.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have done it both ways, I guess for me it depends on the other person and our compatibility.

John0986 · Answer

Omg I fall way too fast. I just long for a connection and love and I fool myself sometimes

Sal_Monella · Answer

There has been infatuation and there has been arriving at a decision.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I have trust issues so it takes me a while I never ever fall fast in fact I've only been in love once

saradancinglol · Answer

I crush on more than one guy, but I don't want to fall in love right now.

cora1 · Answer

Takes me awhile, a long while.

Tigress1039 · Answer

Depends I guess its both

WhitneySnow · Answer

Takes me a while

exitseven · Answer

I get it right between the eyes.

es20490446e · Answer

The fast way, if I like her.

genericname85 · Answer

slow but hard.

WonderingManII · Answer

long time to fall for someone

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I would say more often then not, fast

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

It takes a long time

Anonymous · Answer

For me, it's usually love at first sight.

Amy10223 · Answer

I fall fast.

LiftingFencer · Answer

As I got older it takes much longer

Brittanyrunner06 · Answer

Fast, usually.

talka20 · Answer

Fast i think

Dongie · Answer

About 1.5 seconds.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

It really varies.

dudeinohio · Answer

Hard and fast

Abdulw · Answer

Depends

spartan55 · Answer

Oh my... again?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

9.8 m/s^2

eagle1951 · Answer

fast and hard

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