Guys, "I saw you flirting with other girls" how would you respond to this if a woman said that to you?

[fonduegirl]

like, let's say in this hypothetical situation, you like a girl. you want to date her. you have flirted with her a couple of times. do you think its weird that she wants loyalty from you considering you aren't even her boyfriend yet?

[HawkPerception]

"I'm sorry if it comes across like that, but I can't flirt for my life. Even if I was interested in them (which I'm not), I wouldn't be able to flirt with them. All my attention is on you right now. You're the only one I'm interested in at the moment."

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think a girl that does show good character and that they value the time I spend with them, if a guy doesn't see that or see it that way then maybe they aren't valuing that person's time as much as the other values it, even tho there's no actual expectations to any loyalty from either one, the most someone should do is at least see it for what it is.

[LuXtreme]

Really? Talking and hugging is flirting?
*breaks up with the dumbo*

[fonduegirl]

It depends.

But I wouldn't hold it against a guy if he's not dating me

[LuXtreme]

Good, good to hear.

Wait... are you trying to imply something, maybe about dating?

[fonduegirl]

No.

As the question details say, I don't think it's right to demand loyalty from somebody who's not in a relationship with you yet.

But obviously, some people would have different perspective on this. I just wanted to hear that

[LuXtreme]

Damn. Dropped me harder than a bass beat, baby!

[LuXtreme]

But i agree. I wouldnf cheat on my girlfriend anyways!

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha

[fonduegirl]

And I said "it depends" in the sense, if my boyfriend is okay with a male friend hugging me, I'm comfortable with a female friend hugging him too.

It goes both ways

[fonduegirl]

That's good! x

[LuXtreme]

Same goes for me... except, i dont have a girlfriend lol

[fonduegirl]

Boundary should always go both ways

[LuXtreme]

Right on!

[AlexBlack007]

Well... I respect it. Loyalty is something I value a lot. But if we're at that point where she's being possessive, I'd have to ask her to commit. And naturally I expect the loyalty in return too.

[Zack-Bann]

“Don’t worry I’ll be happy to share her with you if you want.. although I’d hate for her to see how you and I look at each other”


The right mix of: flirting, joking, trolling, and gaslighting.
Works like a charm

[Kaneki05]

That's typical a sign to run, but I like the danger so...

[zagor]

Maybe she just thinks he's dogging everything with a vag and just isn't having success so he thought she'd be easy.

[Malemajor]

I wouldn't be bothered much. m It's a common trait for girls to say that, eventhough they are doing the same !

[Cormac995]

No not really that seems normal to me. It's disingenuous.

[shortster]

I don't know how to flirt. So I would have to ask what I was doing to flirt?

[eagle1951]

i had no idea i was doing it