He is keeps something from her and I dont understand why?

[Louisiana1989]

My daughter has been dating this guy for almost 3 years not and its always been a pretty stressful relationship for her well us because she tells me everything. His mom is a control freak and when I say control freak I mean he is 20 years old and his mom won't let my daughter go sleep at his house that he is staying at while he is playing baseball. Or if he has a game then my daughter can go but she has to sleep at a hotel. The mother will also do stuff to piss my daughter off and then try and say that my daughter has an attitude and she doesn't know why. And then tell my daughter she can't go to her house while the son is down for break because my daughter didn't say thank you for something. Like what the hell. Now this last thing just happened like two days ago and today my daughter and her boyfriend were going bowling with some friends and the mom calls him saying that he can't take his truck that they bought for him to go do stuff with my daughter and that he needed to get back home. Again he is 20 years old and now they telling him that they dont want them together. Now he tells her he doesn't care what they say that he wants to be with her but he says that he can't stand up for her because then they won't pay for his school mind you he doesn't even want to be in school so he is waisting thousands of dollars. And he is failing. Now I understand that they pay for all of his stuff. But he is legally an adult and also a person that deserves to be treated like a person. And his mom is over stepping her boundaries in so many ways. Now with that said my daughters aunt and grandmother messaged his mom and said some stuff to her. I understand why they did it. But I also feel like if everyone would just mind their own business and let them live their life then none of this would be going on. But its the way the boyfriend is acting that is making me think he has more to do with what's going on then he is letting on. Stay tone for part 2

[ohsheeT]

Ok time out time out time out

First things first. You need to listen to your daughter.
And that's it. Your you're supposed to be neutral. You can tell your daughter this and that. And then your opinion of his mother.

Which is not a good opinion. You don't talk bad about the guy's mom in front of your daughter. And then she picks up on that says my mom says it so I can say it


Have you ever looked at it like this

This is her son she is trying to teach him to be a good man. Do the right things in life. And sounds like she was doing a good job until you started interfering. Throwing your two cents around and it's none of your business


Ok so she what's her kid to go to school and be somebody
She wants your kids to grow up in play sports. Maybe professional sports , so it needs to stay focused

Maybe she wants her kid to grow up.
And?
Not have child like she did at an early age

Maybe she wants her kids to grow up and have a life to live instead of accidentally getting your daughter pregnant.

Have you ever thought about any of this stuff.

No you haven't because otherwise you would be on her side.

No you haven't otherwise you would be teaching your daughter the same thing

There's a time to be a friend with your daughter and there's a time to be a mother to and for your daughter.

Can you not teach me very well when you're talking about the guy's mother right in front of her. You're teaching her. It's okay to talk shit about people just because you like your idea

Maybe she has more morals and values than you grew up with.

Look, I'm not trying to be a Dick here. I'm just telling you how ithis why don't you take a couple steps back and really look at it

And forget about him for a minute. Look what you're doing to your daughter. You might not think anything because you like drama in your life. Drama f**** up people's lives

Respecting maybe her future husband's mother would be a good place to start

I will tell you this. You're talking so much crap about his mothere that i'm sure it's coming out of her mouth now to him

And he has a life to live. He doesn't want to hear this shit from your daughter. From his mother. And especially from you

I don't mean to sound like a Dick, . I'm just telling you my point of view. If my girlfriend was doing the same thing and her mother was doing the same thing as you and my mother was doing the same thing as his mother. I would tell you all to go fuck off.

You kind of sound like your daughter's age. By the things that you said like you have no respect and you always see things your way

Like I said, forget about the guy. How about your poor daughter? You guys you could break up tomorrow and look at everything that you've taughter. Im just saying. I would not and did not raise my kids like that noor would I ever.

I would be totally embarrassed of myself if I did that it's okay if she has a problem once to talk to you about it. And there's just some things you gotta bite your tongue on and say, what? Why don't you look at it? Her point of viewYou can't throw your 2 cents in there and say, oh, this is wrong. I want you to go sleep with him. There's nothing wrong with that. Bull sheet. There isn't come on

[Louisiana1989]

Old man you got me fucked up. Im the only one that has not said anything to anyone so you need to go back and read the shit again. I'm the only one that is looking at it from every fucking side. And I won't my daughter to also have a better life. And whatnot and I have taken every precaution to make sure that she does not get pregnant. Anytime soon, so you can get the fuck with that shit bro. I also don't talk about anybody to anyone. But his mom can call my daughter a bitch, and everything else nah, I don't think so, you got me fucked up, and you need to get the fuck out of here. Because you're wasting people's time. Trying to be all negative and shit like that. y'all fucked up. I hate this fucking shit. I'm never posted anything again. All I did was want to vent , and here I am getting fucking talk down to like I'm a horrible person.

[Louisiana1989]

Also, you are being a geek, a very fucking disgusting Dick. That doesn't know any fucking thing and you act like you can come on here and fucking preach to people like, yeah, dude, get a life.

[Louisiana1989]

Dick

[ohsheeT]

See, and thank you, you just proved my point

[Louisiana1989]

What point you told me to stay out of it but that the boyfriend mother only wants what's best for her son. So she can be in it even thought its none of her business because its not her relationship. What because she pays for his college and the truck she bought him that gives her the right. No it fucking dont because guess what I pay for my daughter's college and I bought her a car and I dont hold any of it over her head that is her car and she can't pay for her school its my job to pay for it. And not once have I ever refused to pay for it just because she doesn't do what I say. So your point is wrong.

[Louisiana1989]

You people are completely missing understanding what i was saying. I was trying to say that if people would mind there own business these kids wouldn't have to go through the shit they going through. And by people I mean her dads side of the family and the boyfriend side. But you people are truly mind blowing its no wonder why the world is the way it is.

[ohsheeT]

Ok, so you say if everyone stops and stays out of their business, they would have to do it on their own... so. tomorrow. The mother stops trying to teach her son to be a good man. And your daughters fathers family stops protecting your daughter and says it's o k to go over to sleep with the guy. So now they get to make up their own mind to do what they want to do. And a month down the road. Your daughter comes to you and tells you she is pregnant. ...

And then she tells you he doesn't want her to keep the baby.

Then what?

[Anonymous]

So, you've found the mom is the one person in that family you cannot control and that pisses you both off, got it.😆

[Louisiana1989]

Apparently I did not word sent the shit right or something. I have no fucking idea, but you people, you really are not understanding what I'm saying. I am the only one that is saying that everyone else needs to stay the fuck out of their relationship and let them live their lives. I'm the only fucking one. Everyone else is talking shit to them and whatever, and what else get the fuck out of here

[MasterKS]

let her live her life.

[Louisiana1989]

I am letting her live her life. I am the only one that is doing that. Everyone else wants to put their 2 cents in. Oh my God, I'm never posting anything again. Because either I did not say something right or you motherfuckers, are not reading the shit right? Fuck all of y'all.

[MasterKS]

@Louisiana1989 you are typical father fucker attitude. LMAO!