Why don’t most women pay any attention to men that truly loves them or has liked them in love with them for YEARS or try to impress them?

[Anonymous]

They always chase assholes or men that won’t give them the time of day. Nothing wrong with meeting guys, but come on! Wake up and see what’s in front of you. If your guy friend texts you a lot, actually pays attention to you, treats you like a queen, respects you, stares at you, ALWAYS sits next to you, asks you our numerous times, gets jealous when you talk to other guys or date them or tries to impress you, HE LIKES YOU! He wants to be your boyfriend! OPEN YOUR EYES! Your guy friend may be the one for you all this time but you’re NOT PAYING ATTENTION! Wake up and see him. Stop paying attention or men that ignores you or won’t even care to notice you.

[Summeroflove]

Not all women do that and the women who do typically get passed over by the type of men who have self respect and value who aren’t out living that lifestyle. Men who are good men need to stop wasting their time on loser women and find someone whose willing to put the same effort into a relationship as they are.

Those women are typically not much better then the men they’re after hence why they’re after those type of men. Those type of women aren’t worth my time at all. I’m not wasting my love on someone whose a shitbag. Guess what? Women who are genuinely good women with integrity and respect for themselves as well as have a good heart don’t either.

So. They can have all the assholes and shitbag men they want. I feel bad for a woman who is with a man that seemed genuinely great and she just didn’t know his true colors. I don’t feel bad for a woman who intentionally picks these men. I respect the fact she isn’t wasting a good man’s time.

The sad reality is that… Once these women get passed around by these type of men. She wants to settle down with the type of men she’s rejected. Which either results in her just using and wasting years of a man’s life away because she wants to picked fence, she wants babies, and everything else. Or she ends up bitter hating men. Because those men found decent women to marry and left them behind while they were getting used up jumping partner to partner.

Some people don’t have self respect. Whether it’s the MEN chasing these women or the WOMEN chasing those men. Those people need to find their self respect before they loose it forever.

[ohsheeT]

We all have fantasy's even secret fantasy's

Guys want that one type of women that will send him to the moon.. and its the same with women they don't want the nice caring guy
They want to guy who's going to tell them who to be in moments of time they want that rough guy who will man handle them the gut who is different. He's a man's man.. ans that's all good because most nice quiet guys are that guy but women don't know that

And its the same as women for mean

We all have every thing we want right in front of us. But we want the person we can have. And really don't want. But we don't know that. For a few months in to it and everyone learns the hard way..

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

If that guy friend really wants to date me then he isn't a friend anyway. He's just the next guy in waiting and, if anything, is more deceptive than those we do show interest in me by your standards.

[DishLady]

Because many times women like a guy for years and the guy doesn't reciprocate. So... they get desensitized and therefore do the same thing.

[Cormac995]

Men don't have woman friends because the moment your friends with a dude he wants or at least is considering what it would be like to fuck or date you. If you have a friend that's a guy as a woman I've got news for you the friendship, is one sided what they really want is to get together with you. Unless the dude is gay men and woman can't be friends cause sex always gets in the way.

This is why men get hostile around other girls guy friends we know exactly what they're trying to do because we know how other men think. If you think your non gay guy friend is just a friend you're fooling youself.

[Anonymous]

Because despite the fact that he's attracted to her, it ain't about him to her. And the same thing in reverse can be said about men as well.

Personally I find the whole thing comical. Because I've had a lot of women from my past that have approached me interested now that had little to no interest before. And my response is always the same. I let them twist for a bit then I tell them I appreciate the flattery. But you weren't interested before, and the reality is your simply not interested now. The only thing that is different is your opportunities have run dry. But I wish you luck with your future endeavors.👍

You might think I'm doing this to be mean. But rather I'm seeing if she means what she says. I'm single and I'm happy. I have no reason to change that. I didn't need anyone to change my mind in the past I would have dated her in a heartbeat. But with time comes inflation. The price of dating me has went up. She's going to have to earn it now.

[Anonymous]

It is not on the girl to like him back. However if she constantly gives strong signals back, the blame might fall to her.

[Sam1133]

Lol this guy's are boring asf this guy's always stay in friend zone 😂

[Asker]

Which guy? Lol

[Sam1133]

I love you

[Anonymous]

Lame fake pink account dude. Sorry you're single.

[In_Trance]

You're a guy