Can someone explain my situation?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy in April who found me through TikTok, he texted me and we went on a date he looks like a Doberman if that makes sense tall, tanned, handsome and buzz cut with a muscle body.

He was a gentleman on our date, payed the date and even let me be his DJ in tje car because apparently we had the same music taste (doubt it it was mirroring)

Anyway we had a kiss and intimacy on first date because i felt safe and good with him we had a second date all good later i saw a girl he followed watched my stories i told him about that he said she is his neighbour which ahe was but she blocked me for three days after that and unblcoked me after three days too...

He told me he was leaving for Crete so we stopped talking u removed him from my following

Although, in June i saw him in my highlights and we started talking again went on a date again and stopped talking because he wouldn't handle the distance and me neither and now in August i saw him with another girl (by the way he claimed he was leaving for Serres) he didn't...

And he kept staring and glancing my way even tried to say hi with his head. But i ignored that

She noticed his constant staring but somehow didn't leave and they even kissed and then he removed his sunglasses and i noticed him staring EVEN more anyway he is a liar and I don't understand why he kept staring anyone explaine.

[ohsheeT]

Well I dont know why but the moment I started yo read your question My vibe was telling me he's a player and read further and the vibe got stronger and stronger. .. he thinks he's gods gift. at first when he seen you he freaked within. And then he he thought about it and decided to control it by taking off his glasses saying ok im busted. But I still have power over you and when I call you will go out with me.. so you can make it your sutuation. Or you can walk. And drink him down to his IQ. Which is 0. But if you go out with him then he wins you lose. Because the same thing will happen again

[SueShe]

Obviously, this guy is a player and he is betting on his apparent good looks to get into girls' pants. You fell for his charm and he got with you what he wanted and now, he is off to see another victim of his scheme and tactics.

This type of person should have been an immediate red flag to you but you were not careful enough and felt that fornicating on the first date was the thing to do.

He is testing you and seeing how you react to his actions with another girl. Apparently, he wants to make sure that you witness his behavior and how he fooled you. He is going to do the same with all the girls that were not clever enough to realize that all he wanted is to copulate with those girls and nothing more.

[Asker]

You are right. Well at least my replacement isn't on my level looks wise so idc plus i did not even look at him much and looked happy because i was talking with my friends so idc he just saw what he lost and saw me completely unbothered

[Miristheiss]

Regardless. Sex on a 1st date? That is not what long term potential girls do.

You were a hook up for him.

Do not worry about what is going on with him.

You are a promiscuous woman. We will probably see a Tik Tok video of you crying about men suck. No good woman screws on date 1.

Player men do that and player men mive from woman to woman to woman.

[Summeroflove]

Seems like another dud. Time to move on…

[glennos89]

He probably is still attracted to you but apparently not enough for him to put the effort into making it work. He might also be a fuckboy who likes to flirt with woman just to be able to have sex with them

[Asker]

Nah he just knows i want something serious and he is career oriented but somehow goes out with someone else now while completely disrespecting her by staring all the time

[Asker]

by the way he was afraid i will ghost him before we stopped talking lol and will disappear

[glennos89]

Okay I understand and you're right about him being disrespectfull by staring at you while being with this other girl. But you might have been better looking then the other girl haha.

But if he is scared being ghosted... how is he ever going to be able to get a longterm relationship with you then? Its a risk you should be willing to take if you want a proper relationship right?

[Asker]

I might have been yes haha
Well, it's his loss anyway he even checked my stories some days ago after i unfollowed him again. It's fine he can go do whatever he wants I am sure someday someone better comes along

[glennos89]

You are probably right and if not there you can always end up taking a cat instead 😋

[Bigjohn6969]

Okay babe your just gonna have to come right out and ask and make him tell the truth and listen closely he goes to lunge he's not good for you and he's a cheater and once a cheater always one. Seen my brother destroy women's hearts and it be left up to me to comfort them and tell them they could do better. Get out

[JesseP1nk]

Thank god you did not start a family with him and you found out quite early what he is. Because those kind of persons do not change.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Staring cause he got caught I guess, not much to read on that, clearly an awkward moment for him

[jazzy34]

Sounds like a typical liar and player.