Are a large % of non-white women in relationships with white men due to white worship?

[Anonymous]

A discussion recently occurred on r/Asianmasculinity, where an Asian male was talking about the complete double standards that Asian women have for Asian men and white men.

A snippet from OP discussion called "Different Dating Requirements for Asian vs. White Men"

"I’ve noticed that Asian women (ex. my female friends) hold Asian men to much higher standards—expecting them to have a car, a house, or a high income—while not requiring the same from white men. In addition, these women expect Asian men to pay for dates and experiences, but are fine to split with white men."

Many users were in the comment in agreement and even cited a Yale study that supported it

Yale sociologist Grace Kao: “In fact, we find that despite the higher education and income of Asian American men, there is evidence that they are systematically excluded from having romantic relationships during adolescence and young adulthood”

Some even explained why so many non-white women see white men as gods and chase after them in the west.

"Social status: white men in white circles gain immediate acceptance due to familiarity bias.

Pretty privilege: White men in Asian circles gain immediate acceptance due to pretty privilege (it is internalized that euro features are more handsome)

So in the eyes of a white worshipper, the white man already brings those values to the table by virtue of being white."

". Being with a white partner gives prestige that being with an Asian cannot. So Asian guys are required to compensate with material success.

Just stay away from these types of women and find someone who’s actually ride or die. I’m not saying don’t strive for success of course. But give it to someone who isn’t fucked in the head by internalized racism."

Yes

No

[Zack-Bann]

Sounds like the bitter ramblings of someone unwilling to own up to his lack of boundaries


You don’t wanna be taken for a ride? Don’t be


That’s what western culture is about anyway: personal boundaries and freedom of choice.


Stereotypes exist for s reason. They apply too often.
If you wanna break out of one you need to show that you are not a carbon copy of every other man who shares your ethnicity


Statistics be damned

[Asker]

so you ignore stats and made a post based on feelings

[Zack-Bann]

Stats. Don’t mean shit

And our generation puts way too much stock in them

Live life man.
Don’t worry about the counter of what happened to others

[Asker]

In other words, remain ignorant and don't address things that bring up uncomfortable discussions. Seems like white men just want things to remain as is, since they benefit most from this arrangement.

[Likes2drive]

There’s so many different Asian cultures, Chinese tend to stay with their own while filipino women really like white men more, some races of Asian women just stick to their own because of tradition and religious beliefs so it’s really depending on that particular person in that race and also maybe the difference in the races is what maybe get them attracted to White man

[Anonymous]

I’ll assume we’re talking about a white country, vecause there aren’t a lot of Asian women in Asian countries who are in relationships with white men. So, if the majority of the male population is white, while only a small minority is Asian, then it’s not strange that a lot of Asian women in that country end up with white men.

[Asker]

and how come we don't see this pattern with Asian men when they live in the same country?

[loveyouoak]

Yes. I think most women worship white men because of Western admiration.

[Berethor]

I guess, white is the best looking race on earth and Asians are intelligent enough to see that.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty

[BonzoInBitburg]

According to my Asian wife, her friends and the Asian women I know, they say Asian men cheat more and white men are more faithful and are also more willing to date single mothers.

[Anonymous]

I know plenty of Asian guys who have girlfriends

[Ariesman81]

It's cause we got that husband dick.

[BarryLiverstone]

You meant to ask about European men