(I’m a femme by the way). When I look at a girl idc about her chest I honestly prefer smaller but I feel like other girls might not like me bc I’m too flat
11 moAbsolutely. Let’s get one thing straight: C-cup is not “flat”—and many, many women (and people of all genders) are genuinely attracted to smaller chests. In fact, plenty prefer them.
Here’s the real talk:
Confidence > Cup Size: How you carry yourself matters way more than your bra size. Owning who you are is magnetic.
Type is Subjective: Just like you prefer smaller chests, so do lots of others. There’s no universal “ideal.”
You’re Not a Chest, You’re a Person: Anyone reducing you to your cup size isn’t worth your time.If you’re struggling to “pull girls,” it’s likely not your chest—it might be your vibe, approach, or just not meeting the right people yet. Lean into your style, charm, and personality. The right person will be into you, all of you.
You’re not “too” anything. You’re enough exactly as you are. 💖
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Asker11 moThanks!
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I know I'm the wrong gender, but I love girls with smaller boobs so I'm sure there are girls who feel the same.
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Asker11 moThxxx
Asker11 moOkayy
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Haha your funny I reall dont think it has anything to do with that. I think you just haven't ran in to the right person yet
And girls would know but for me my experience has been girl with a little snmaller breast. Seem to have way more sensation and when you can make a girl go crazy it like with elect shock shocks all over her body is a total turn on for me
Yes I know I have been told girlsv with big breast have sensation to. But not like what I have experienced01 Reply- 11 mo
And like I said, . Ibe patient. Do you play sports if so have you ever heard the term. When someone dies good, I was in the zone. .
Ok, so I dont know you have never seen you... and all the words. I have read of your paints, a picture of you. Im a very picky guy. I would date you. But in a way, your holding yourself back
I will bet you a dollar or a dime a penny. Anything you want to bet. But I can tell you something to do.
And I would bet with in 30 days if you do it someone will find you
11 moThere are girls jnto girls and girls who aren’t as well.
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Asker11 moIk but usually the girls I like r into girls
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Well guess you wouldn’t be into girls who aren’t
Asker11 moYess
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Lmao
Anonymous(18-24)11 moGirl what? C isn't flat. Anything above A isn't flat. And if you don't care about breast size, then there are certainly many many many other women who don't care about breast size as well, you are not the only girl in the world to have that opinion. I like a pair of big titties, but what's really going to attract me to anyone in particular is their personality, so small titties would never be the sole reason why I wouldn't date someone. And anyway, C size breasts are just... not small. They're not even small. They're medium-large. D is considered large, so how would the size directly below D be considered small? Size is a scale, not a binary...
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Asker11 moI get what ur saying. Even if someone would date me I’d like to know that they like me. I feel like most girls prefer bigger chests so even if I’m with someone they won’t really admire my chest the way I’d want them to
Opinion Owner11 moI mean some people find large breasts 'messy' and prefer small breasts. I just don't think it'll actually be a big deal.
Asker11 moBut I want someone who is with me to have a preference for my size
Opinion Owner11 moThat's my point though. Some people prefer a size like yours. Preferences come in all shapes and sizes.
But I also think a partner who adores you is endlessly more important than a partner who thinks your exact breast size is the best breast size in the world. That's such a miniscule aspect of a loving relationship. Someone who loves you will treat your entire body like it's beautiful and they adore it. Nobody's body is perfect. Someone who loves you will love you regardless, and will love your body and treat it right regardless. You can absolutely find someone who has a preference for your breast size. I just think you're putting much to much weight on that as a priority when it really means very little in love.
Asker11 moI’ll. I just have this thing where I wanna feel super sexy to someone. I’m a virgin and it rlly gets to me
Opinion Owner11 moI promise you, you can find someone who finds you super sexy. Even someone who technically prefers a smaller or larger chest could still find you super sexy, because a lot of the times, preferences are not actually that binary as they appear (of course people with the strongest opinions squawk the loudest, making it seem like people only care about huge boobs. In reality, the people who don't care that much just don't shout it from the roof tops the same way people who feel strongly about it do). A big part of being sexy is confidence. Treat your body as if it is sexy. Act like you're sexy. Move and speak as if you're not ashamed of treating yourself as 'sexier than you really are', because a lot of the time, that's actually the part that's the most sexy. A great body helps, but I'm sure we've all seen plenty of girls who don't seem to have a bangin' body and they still have an active sex life. It's that confidence to act sexy that's sexy. A timid person can be desired too, but if your goal is to be as sexy as possible for someone... it's the attitude that really does it. Being great in bed and lusted after is a lot more about how you act than how you look.
11 moUmm, didn't you just post about this... If so you may have body dysmorphia. My bestie has it too. Stop seeking reassurance, it won't help you. Besides this site is full of assholes.
Talk to a therapist about it. Lets say you get implants and you get a D cup. You will just find a new obsession. The problem isn't your breasts, it's your self image
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Asker11 moI do have body dysmorphia and I’m constantly seeking validation:(. I wanna get implants to go up at least two sizes. I’ve been planning since I was 11
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11 moC is no where near flat.. what the fuck you talking about? Anyways.. it would more likely be because you are too reserved, act like a bitch or are ugly.. Boobs are not that important for majority of people.
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Asker11 moEveryone calls me pretty and I think objectively I’m at least decent looking and I, a very kind person so I don't know. It’s easy to pull guys but not girls
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11 moThe girls that I know care more about being feminine than breast size.
Being funny is basically an automatic win.
I would say that most girls are too afraid to ask if another girl isn't straight so you have a smaller pool to work with. Dating apps might be a good start to filter out any men.00 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. You prefer smaller chests on girls, even if you weren't always physically a girl, you are one now. So, there are definitely girls who like it. Much like guys who like girls who are different sized in ass, boobs, etc. There are girls who like the same viraety.
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Asker11 moI was always a girl loll. I’m biologically female and identify with that sex. I've always been very feminine and still am
Asker11 moOkay
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u 11 moIm only an A cup and I was able to find girls to date. Chest size isn't really going to matter much. It's more about personality and finding women who are actually into other women. Also expand your search and that might help as well.
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Asker11 moOkayyy. My chest is just my biggest insecurity so I always assume that’s the flaw that prevents others from liking me
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I am getting a breast augmentation this year because I, too, have insecurities about it, but it's never inhibited my ability to talk or date girls. You'll be fine.
Asker11 moAww ok
18.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Honestly no. I tend to be physically attracted to women with bodies similar to mine.. However, I can still be attracted in other ways.
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Asker11 moAre you fat?
13.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. That's not the reason. Does it keep you from showing interest? Maybe you aren't pulling women because you are self-concious about your breast size and aren't engaging when some does show interest.
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Asker11 moI do put myself out there
Asker11 moI’ve befriended lesbians but I get friend zoned
11 moIt's not your tits. C isn't considered small. I mean... not unless you're a big ole fat chick that is.
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Asker11 moThen what am I doing wrong, everyone says I have a very pretty face and I’m a very kind person. The rest of my body is in pretty good shape too. I dress nicely and am pretty smart but not a nerd. I’ve gotten guys to like me so why can’t I get girls :(
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Well first of all... women are simply harder to get. It's why people that can get lots of guys are seen as just being a sloot and people that can get lots of girls actually are achieving a pretty difficult task. So there's that.
Also how are you trying to meet them? If you're not doing it face to face, you can't apply the firm pressure it takes to get it to go anywhere as easily. If online, women are notorious for showing a lack of interest, and making the other carry all the conversations or just going silent for no reason.
It's not too hard once you learn what you're doing. My lesbian friend is notorious for stealing my girls right out from under my nose. She's like a 5'5", C-cup... maybe B-cup and kinda thicc little Filipina girl. She's just highly aggressive with it and gets really touchy feely and lays the game down hella thick. If I leave a girl around her for too long... she'll turn another supposed "straight" girl gay pretty fast. And unlike my wife, she has no intentions of sharing her with me. She's really pissed me off with that shit sometimes. She's nothing special... acne and stuff, but she just has game. Kinda like the butches have except she's pretty fem. She gets on it like a hard up dude that doesn't want to take no for an answer. More aggressive about it than me for sure.
So it's doable, but how you're getting at these girls matters a lot. It's never going to be as easy as how you can get guys and just like guys, you're going to deal with a lot more bullshit because lets just be real... nothing like watching two chicks try to shit test each other. It's a different game completely and I think you just got to learn that game.
Asker11 moI think I’m just awkward around girls
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I believe you, I was once awkward, and now I'm purposely awkward just to fuck with their mind... eccentric, would be a better word for how I am now. My wife though is truly awkward at other getting other women... she has the bad habit of not letting them talk and just really listening to them like a streamer does when watching clips off of X/Twitter. Basically she'd never get pussy if I didn't pull it.
So you're probably awkward and that's the real issue in my opinion. I wouldn't blame the size of your tits though. I mean I watch chick with A cups get scooped up all the time and they're shy as shit. If you're looking to be a target of these chicks like that... you should focus on being extremely fem and put yourself out there like that. Same tactics that attract men, except you might have to go deep with it... or try harder at it... be more extreme with it. Show interest enough that they chase after that.
Asker11 moYeaaa. I am extremely fem but it only gets guys attention which I’m not as interested in lowkey
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Have you tried doing some hangouts with lesbians? You'll learn the ropes pretty quick if you kick it with them. I'm talking real girl loving girls and not those pretend bi chicks that just want to pull another chick to satisfy their man enough to keep her around. Find one of those and go out for drinks... shit, tell her it's under the pretense of needing lesbo help in how to find girls. Chances are they might say fuck that, and sit on your face themselves. Those chicks are pussy vultures. You just need one friend and they'll buck break you in one way or the other... get your foot in the door with other chicks or take advantage of you themselves if you know what I mean. You might be able to find some online. Try Locanto, Doublelist, et cetera and just beware of the dudes that pretend to be chicks or the chicks with dudes already... unless you don't mind a dick in the picture. In fact that might be the quickest way to get to pussy heaven... accept it's gonna have a penis that at least "wants to watch" in the room. I personally think that's a bit retarded, but I'm not gonna judge.
C isn't small at all! I am a 34C/D depending on the bra.
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Asker11 moI’m only 32C :(
Asker11 moI guess. But in comparison to my hips it is bc i have a bigger lower body
32A here. There are men and woman who prefer all different sizes, figures, hair color, everything.
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Asker11 moI can never get girls to like me only guys but I feel like that’s bc guys don’t have as high standards:(
11 moC isn't small enough to make you indesirable. It's medium size. If you can't pull it's something else
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Asker11 moWhat is it then. Everyone says I’m really pretty and I can tell I’m definitely not ugly. Im very kind and am intelligent
Anonymous(36-45)11 moSo you must be fat. C cups only look small on fat girls. What you need to do is lose weight.
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Asker11 moBut then I might lose my boobs too. I’m barely overweight and most people say I don’t look fat at all, I just have a curvy lower body. My waist stomach and arms are still very slim.
Anonymous(18-24)11 moA c cup is not small. I’m a b cup and that’s average.
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Asker11 moOkayy. Maybe bc I have a bigger lower body it’s small on me. I’m 5’7 and my hips are about 42.5 inches and my chest is only 36
Anonymous(36-45)11 moI don't care about the boob size, I'm a leg-man.
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Asker11 moLoll
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11 moC cups are beautiful in my opinion.
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Asker11 moThxxx :)
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You're welcome.
I always thought C cup was big?
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Asker11 moSome people say it is but others say it’s small so idek
Asker11 moMaybe like 36C but I’m only 32C
I love girls with small boobs
10 ReplyC cup is definitely not small
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