I am skinny but I like curvy girls. Help?

[Anonymous]

I am a skinny guy and all the girls who have ever been interested in me are either skinny or fit, athletic and tall. Lots of them are considered very hot but for some reason I have always been attracted to soft curvy/ chubby girls who don't work out. I just can't imagine being with a bony or muscular girl. But bigger girls don't like me! I am attractive and smart, I have a deep voice but my skinniness ruins it all. They sometimes call me weak though I am not.
I try to become bigger but it's very hard with my genetics. Do I have to settle for hot skinny girls or there is any chance for me to get a curvy girl?

You are skinny so you are destined to be with a skinny / fit girl.

You need to work out more.

You can still get a curvy girl even if you are skinny. (how?)

[That1tallguy]

It's funny that you say that because im skinny but most of the girls that hit on me are fat I'm like a magnet or fat chicks. I don't know what it is but the point is bigger girls usually don't mind being with some one skinny. Does curvy girls that turned you down probably wasn't because of your looks but your personality. Move on to the next curvy girl

[Ahsain]

Your skinny and you're attracted to larger girls. Logic would suggest that there are also larger girls that are into skinny guys

[Asker]

I can't find them.

[Ahsain]

A lot of guys can't find a girl in general. Have patience.

[That1tallguy]

This is true

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of curvy girls go for a bigger man, because they're afraid they'll feel like they're too much to handle or as if they're not feminine and they are the ones who have to be careful not to break you.

[JulieXO]

I don't see why being skinny would limit your chances at getting a curvy girl. I'm sure there is thick girls who are into thin guys, you just haven't found her yet :)

[Asker]

Why would she like me if there are bigger guys?

[JulieXO]

Because not all girls want a big guy, and because looks are not all girls care about.

[Asker]

But I thought girls want a bigger guy to feel feminine.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Lol you are wrong 😂😂

[JulieXO]

@IvoirianGirl20 Why do you think? I personally prefer thin guys to overly buff ones.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Eww. I prefer guys who have natural muscles. I dated a skinny guy last year & I left disgusted

[IvoirianGirl20]

And for me, I'm a curvy girl. It just DOESN'T FIT in my eyes skinny boy + curvy girl = 😱

[JulieXO]

@IvoirianGirl20 That doesn't mean all girls are like that though.

[Asker]

@JulieXO Are you thin yourself? I feel like a magnet to thin girls but a repellent to curvy ones.

[JulieXO]

@Asker I've lost a lot of weight recently, but I've always liked lean guys, even when I was chubby

[IvoirianGirl20]

Lol maybe only 12%

[Asker]

It would be OK for you even if he was lighter than you?

[JulieXO]

@Asker That would make e quite insecure, actually

[Asker]

Do you really understand what skinny is? Skinny = below average BMI, not average.

[JulieXO]

@Asker Below average can still be a healthy weigh. I wouldn't wanna date someone who looks like he can't support his own weight, what I was saying is that I don't mind guys on the thinner side.

[Asker]

I am on the thinner side but still healthy and I think I am lighter than some girls I like. So you basically proved bigger girls won't date me because they would feel insecure near me.

[JulieXO]

That's only in my case, I have struggled with eating disorders and self-worth for a while. This doesn't mean all girls are like that.

[IvoirianGirl20]

I said MAYBE only a very very small percentage

[Asker]

I think most of them are. Oh OK, I'll go with skinny girls then.

[nolookingbackx]

I am curvy and I could be with a skinny guy. It doesn't matter. I am sure there are more girls like me.

[Asker]

What would you define as skinny?

[nolookingbackx]

Very thin/without muscles. I like guys who work out but it is not a deal breaker. I fell in love with a really skinny guy in the past. It doesn't matter to me.

[Asker]

Wow, that's really uplifting. If a girl as beautiful as you could be attracted to skinny guys then I am not doomed. :)

[nolookingbackx]

Thank you :) I am sure you will find a curvy girl and she loves you!

[G-Daz]

Shouldn't be an issue. Why not work out? wouldn't hurt, for me I don't think I would like the girl weighing more than me.. She'd have to be pretty fat to get to that point though

[Katerina_Belle]

Ofc you can, where there is a will there is a way!

[Anonymous]

You need to work out more.

[Dantheman101]

That's fine

[Asker]

I don't think it's fine to not be liked by those who you like.