I feel like I need to change my body for my new friends?

[Anonymous]

ok so im in highschool and a have a totally doffrent group of friends now, and something almost all these girls have in common is they are really curvy! and im not talking fat. they literally have major curves in all the right places. big hips big butt and big boobs!! yet they have a really tiny waist. four of the girls are like this and then one of them is skinny like me exsept she's tall and skinny and is hyspanic and could prob be a model. they are all also really exotic looking and i can't help but be soo jealous. because i kind of think im boring looking compared to them. also i am very skinny but i have a big butt but i actually have to work for it by doing squats but i mean you need at least one skinny girl in the group right? i weigh 113-119 (119 if I've been eating alot! but it usually goes back down to 113) and im 5'4 and im only an a cup, but im so jealous because they all have big boobs and im with them all the time so im always gonna be compared to them when im out in public or at parties. do you think i should gain some weight?

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oh and my friends dont bring me down lol i left that part out they actually say they are jealous of me

[madeagos]

No! Don't feel like you should change your body just because your friends look a certain way. If you are healthy and comfortable with the way your body is now then why change it? Plus, if you start gaining weight (aside from the possible health issues) there's no guarantee it will go straight to your hips or boobs. You could end up with a gut or thunder thighs in your attempt to fit in. If you ever want to change your body- do it for you and only you, not for anyone else. And make sure it is done healthily and properly. Your new gals will love you just the way you are if they are truly good friends, And if not- forget them! At the end of the day what's important is they way YOU feel about you! :)

[AnayaWilliams]

Seriously, quit comparing yourself to other people honestly you re not helping yourself you just beating yourself up from the inside. If you need to change any part of you for your friends then maybe they aren't actually "real" friends. Friends are supposed to bring you up when you are down, make you smile and laugh like there is no tomorrow. If I were you I would quit hanging out with them and find some new friends. Comparing yourself won't make things better. Learn how to be yourself, and work on your self-esteem and your confidence because I see that it is low.

[zorro8888]

You shouldn't change for your friends, if they really your friends they would not expect tat from you

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[badger25]

Do Not change your body. You sound gorgeous. Kinda wish I was still in high school so I could go out with you

[Anonymous]

They are probably jealous of you for being skinnier! You can't change your natural body shape, at least not by much. You could get a more padded bra maybe but you by no means need to, you sound like you are in proportion! Everyone wants what they can't have, people will be attracted to girls in your group for different reasons :)

[xHoneyxBeex]

No. I think you should work on your self-esteem and learn to be happy with what you have. If everyone looked the same, the world would be a boring place. Be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others.

[QueenOfStuff]

If you have to change to be there friend... Get new friends

[TotallyAlmost]

Be yourself, girl. And be confident with what you got. Nothing more attractive than that.