Should I marry a younger guy in his 20s at age 30?

[Anonymous]

I have younger men pursuing me. and compare to men my age, men my age have more experience than them, like they have dated more, no longer are virgin or divorced etc. I don't know their dating history but I think they have less experience. and I am a virgin so I kinda want someone who a virgin also

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9 mo

I have a hard time finding a husband because I don't put myself out there. I would prefer someone my age but now I think I should just pick one of them instead of doing online dating because I have never done online dating before

[ohsheeT]

What one do you like more what one turns you on more. Well maybe that's what you should do is find someone online and explore and experience both there are a couple apps that I have. That have role play on them. I tell people it your scared of something come there and role play it out. A few times you will get your answer. But if you do that you should do it with someone younger. And older. That way you can see and feel the vibe of both. Make sure othervwise you will get someone like me that's older. But has been younger dating older women and will make it just as hot as the older but i suggest trying that. Because in most cases it's going to be better than real life

[Asb_Samson]

At 30, you’re at that perfect stage, fresh, curious, and the fact that you’re still untouched makes the thought of being the first to explore you insanely tempting. Younger guys in their 20s might throw wild energy at you, but passion without control can fade too quickly. Men your age may have baggage, but sure, they know a few moves. Then there are men like me 44 years young, confident, sexy, and full of stamina. I have got the experience to take my time, tease you until you’re trembling, and then make you lose yourself completely. The question is… do you want raw, do you want practiced, or do you want the kind of fire that burns slow and deep until you can’t take it anymore.

[Vevv123]

Given that you’re a virgin, if they’re a virgin as well then I don’t think age matters, however if they’re younger and they’re not a virgin, then I would be more skeptical of them because aside from them not being a virgin you are risking being in a relationship with someone who might not potentially take relationships seriously or is not mature enough.

[Abbycado]

Do you really need life decision advice from strangers? 🙄

[Asker]

yes I am desperate

[Nerdvana]

@Abbycado With all due respect, some of the best advice I have gotten, was from a stranger. Most of the people I have spoken with on GaG, have been good decent people. Especially the women on GaG have been very nice and helpful to me.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should focus on their qualities as a potential long term companion and possible father of your children instead of worrying about their age.

[OlderAndWiser]

RESPONSE TO UPDATE: Have you ever kissed a guy? How old were you when you had your first kiss?

[Anonymous]

A lot of times men going after older women is a fetish. So you need to really make sure they’re serious. A man in his 20s has a lot of growing to do. When I was 24 I was messing around w a lady who was 46, but there was no intentions of being in a real relationship. It was just for fun. The other thing is being a virgin at 30 for a female tends to raise red flags for a lot of men. Like why? What’s wrong w you? Especially if you’re cute, even worse.

[Berethor]

Yea younger guys are more likely to be a virgin, and look for a fellow virgin is not a bad idea.

[Rides_Big_Guys]

I recommend telling your doctor you’re desperate - better also get a puppy!

[Twalli]

Make sure he knows that at your age reproducing is unlikely and if it happens has an increased risk of children with disablities.

[Asker]

at my age? you are 34, you should know that women can reproduce in their 30s. i only want 2 kids, i am not trying to have 10 kids

[Twalli]

I know. My mom had me at 33 and my sister at 35, but there's a higher risk in your 30s.