Am I the jerk in this situation?

[Anonymous]

(Context: I knew this woman who was older than me I used to hang out with back in the day over a decade ago. I was into her back then but she never gave me the time of day and threw herself at jerks and pretty boys -- I do fine with women, I'm not an incel or a loser but I attract most women with my personality and status like being a guitarist)

After a 6 years relationship ended I hopped back into dating. I ran across this woman I used to know and messaged her just to reconnect, not even to date. We talked on the phone and she wanted to get together. We did and the whole time I was being my fun self and she was crying about her failed marriage and how she needs a man. I didn't even want her but she threw herself at me and we slept together. It became a friends with benefits or "situationship? for about a month. Her younger son lives with her but is an adult and her older son is a meth-head who lives on the streets and she's had to have the police remove him when he comes over and tries to steal things or causes problems. I started to notice she was drinking all the time and only ever wanted me to come to her place for sex and rarely go out. It's whatever.

The whole time she was going on Tinder dates with other guys and sleeping with them too. I don't care and I get tested regularly and am still clean. Then she meets the tall, handsome guy and is gaga over him. She talks about him all the time like I'm her "bff girlfriend" but she still throws herself at me and has sex with me and she still tinder dates other guys. She gets all sad because the tall, handsome guy doesn't want to date her, just have sex. I wasn't going to jump into a relationship but I'd have considered dating her if she showed interest in me beyond just sex. Then Tall, handsome guy wants to bang her but she can't because her son is home so she tells me she wants to use my place to bang him. I blocked her and she got mad and now I don't talk to her.

Am I the asshole here?

[SueShe]

You are in the wrong here in the way that you reconnected with this hoe for the sole purpose of a quick and easy way to fornicate free of charge. That is your fault and now you are paying the consequences for your act.

If copulating would not have been that important to you, you would not even have given her the time of day, not to mention to reconnect with her, knowing she is a junkie.

What should have alerted you is the fact that she has children. She probably does not even know who the fathers of those kids are.

You were right in blocking her but you should not even have messaged her to start with.

[PeachyPie93]

Not the asshole.. She is unhinged and I think it's for the best you blocked her because even if you dated her someone that easy and falls for the hot guy she would defo cheat on you in the future.. Don't look back.

[OneViewpoint]

You're the idiot here. You should have bailed when you found out she is a fucking train wreck (literally). Why would you even fuck her if you know she's on Tinder hooking up constantly. Her kid is a meth addict. She feels perfectly comfortable asking to use your place to bang Chad. Where the hell did you lose your self respect? In what scenario does sound like someone you want to be around?

[Avicenna]

Get yourself away from this toxic person, who isn’t in her right mind (sounds bipolar)

[Asker]

She may be.

She even got fake number apps to text me "How have you been", "I'm sorry", "I miss you". I block them all. I haven't seen or spoken to her in 6 months.

[Anonymous]

This is not reddit.

Anyhow no, you aren't the asshole

[Asker]

Thanks.

Then what kind of questions am I supposed to ask on here?

[Opinion Owner]

Not AITA stuff that's for sure, you risks they remove them

[Rides_Big_Guys]

Wow just wow, such a dense dude 😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

Nice fake story.

[Asker]

Huh? Why do you think it's fake?

This actually happened. I even toned down some of it because those parts make it sound less believable. I'll tell you those parts if you want... but it's all true.

[Asker]

Also, she's not like 20-30 years older. She's 9 years older than me. But still... for being 50 and a divorcee she is falling apart spreading her legs for man after man after man. One of the reasons I walked away.