This guy keeps following random girls?

[Anonymous]

we’re not even dating but we’re really close and he said he really likes me, finds me attractive and everything. it pisses me off that he keeps following random women like that, and it makes me lose interest for him completely. i was catching feelings for him. am i in the wrong here?

[Summeroflove]

Well you’re not committed so what he does isn’t any of your business but I can understand it pissing you off that he’s wanting to be with you yet is lusting after other women.

It is like I don’t want to be with a woman who claims to really like me but is all over other men. It tells me someone’s more desperate for a relationship then they are desperate for you.

See I do like when someone genuinely shows me interest because they want me. But not when someone’s simply desperate for a relationship because that never ends well. Especially because those people will leave as soon as they find someone they perceive as better.

[ohsheeT]

Hey dont hate him for it. You need to thank him for it. ... because he is showing you how much he likes you. And how loyal he is. And that's not very far a on either. So look at it as truth. Not what you want it to be he just proved to you what kinda guy he is.. that's all he's done. So now the ball is in your court. You can say. Ok im ok with you liking me and ithervgirls at the same time. Or you can say no thank you I need someone that likes only me

[Anonymous]

They’re probably not random and he’s meeting them through online dating. That’s what my best friends brother does, meets them online then adds them through either insta or Snapchat. It usually never amounts to anything, he just wants to see what their life is like first.

[avery58]

No, if it's something that turns you off you don't have to force yourself to be okay with it. If I were you I'd start detaching before taking it further as well.

[Asker]

that’s what i thought. but it makes me sad because he seems like a fun and good guy

[avery58]

If he seems like an overall good guy then it might be worth asking him about it before completely deciding to part ways. The only problem is that since you're just getting to know each other it may com across as a premature question... So I'd just be honest with him and tell him that you like him but are wondering about that, if you decide to ask.

[Rides_Big_Guys]

Not worth it. If he gives you a headache now, imagine down the road. You’re just another one of his likes like the ones you see him clicking on.
Girl you blind

[Vevv123]

I think you know why. Run far far away from him. 😌🚩

[Alex-Snow]

are you two sexually involved?

[RedInnocent69]

Are they random, or are they hot?

[Asker]

random, he followed 2 girls today and they were average and post average content like selfies and stuff (they didn’t follow him back)

[RedInnocent69]

Does he get upset when you follow random guys?

[Anonymous]

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