Guys, my boyfriend keeps following random girls why?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend likes random girls pics too.. If liking a pic is ok.. Bc its a pic.. Then y follow a random girl on instagram.. Does it mean something n y does he keep doing this.. Is he looking for more? ... Hidden meanings? ..

[BiffWebster]

-_- are these girls instagram models?

Lots of women do the same thing. I mean hey he might just be looking to enjoy the view.

but that isn't nice. Its making you feel insecure... that sucks. Tell him to stop. Unless these women have some other talent besides being very attractive, having large assists -_- (which are shown off in every conceivable picture), and are somehow partying every hour of the day, then your "boyfriend" needs to stop. -_-

[Asker]

No models.. Just regular girls that look good.. He does as he pleases

[BiffWebster]

when if he has always done what he pleases, even before you met him -_- then trying to stop that behavior if it bothers you is not going to be that easy

[Asker]

True

[GreatnessPersonified]

I'm 31, and I have had facebook since it came out back in 2003, and have accounts on popular sites.
The thing is I have never taken internet things too seriously. Unless he's going to meet up with the girl, then it means nothing.

[Asker]

Lets hope he isn't

[Streamhopper]

Wouldn't be surprised if he's browsing. Can't explain why, just a feeling. How do you think your relationship is going?

[Asker]

I think its going gud.. 8 months but for him he wants to go with the flow.. He says he likes me n im a gud girl... But y do this

[Streamhopper]

Oh, there's all kinds of levels we play. He wouldn't tell you to your face, he knows it would start a fight. But have you asked him about it? What did he say?

[Asker]

I did ask him about the relationship... He says he does not feel emotionally connected.. there's bond... Between us.. He likes me n is satisfied with the relationship... He told me however when i asked.. If someone comes along who he feels emotionally connected he would diych me bc its happiness.. I asked him y r u wasting my time then.. He says he is not.. The fact hescoming to see me.. Yeah right.. Now that i think about its not the case bc... Every time we meet i give him stuff n i only get fingered n i told him u know i can do that too.. I hve hands.. Yeah it feels different wen another person does it.. But i think he is confused n duno what he wants.. His bro is getting matried.. i was nvr invited nor to his friends.. He doesn't commumicate.. Which he admitted bc of emotional connection.. He says love.. Hmm.. Bc he goes his bro nvr really felt love for hus girl until 5 years of dating... [ honestly.. Wanna slap him...

[Streamhopper]

I can possibly see the brother's wedding thing (it's a big stretch) if his brother didn't like you, but not meeting his friends? Nah, that doesn't make any sense. Sounds like it's time for a ticket to the single express for him. He's thinking of himself, not you, like he should be. The sad thing is he's probably going to do the same thing to someone else, if he isn't already. I do wish you good luck, though. I hope things work out well for you, you seem nice and deserve someone nice as well. =^.^=

"I'm a cat that jumps streams!" ~streamhopper, Scott

[Asker]

He says he is not ready to intro me to his family bc he's not sure how they might take it.. His bro n i went to the same high school.. We lost tpuch.. Im gping to ask him after his bro wedd.. Wen he wants to meet until then no texting him.. Ifhe really cares or misses me let him. come to me.. Right? I hve met a few of friends not his entire group.. Yet.. I think its bc emotionally connected.. But what did he mean by that.. Emotionally connected

[Asker]

I feel.. That.. He does like me bc he knows no girl will do things for him.. I gve him his first bj.. I cooked him meals every now n then.. Celebrated his bday in a hotel by gettingbhim. meals n drinks n i planned our valentines day... N he told me no girl has done this so y is he not emo connected sighhh

[Streamhopper]

Well, if that's the case, then there really isn't much excuse not to invite you. He'll come to you, but I've still got a feeling he's got something going on the side. You're seeing the very small tip of a very large iceberg. Your heart is the Titanic - don't hit the iceberg! Emotionally connected sounds like "I really like you and we get along great, but I'm not done playing the field and I won't commit to you exclusively." I could be wrong on that, but my spider sense is tingling here. I suspect if you did enough digging, you'd find some dirt on what's going on. I wouldn't have any problem introducing anyone to my family; if you're my girlfriend, they'd expect to meet you and would probably have been asking me about it. That's how normal people behave, at least.

[Asker]

But he told me he is not fishing around n if he was.. He would def not b with me.. He says we are dating n he says lets go with the flow... But i feel why everytime its got to b physical... Emotionally connected i think is i love u n wanna b woth u forever.. Right... The favt he says they r open minded but he prefers a girl of his race... If they r open minded n im a nice girl ur fmly will accept me n he goes oh i nvr tot like that!!!

[FrenzyP0W3R]

@Asker I just feel for you in what kind of situation you are and it looks like from your opinions that you do most of the work in the relationship, to me it seems like he's not bothered to put too much effort in this relationship which is because:

1) He's lazy as fuck to do anything because you are more dominant in the relationship and do all the work
2) He has someone else on his another side

In this point I predict that you will be on the single train like @Streamhopper says (sorry to steal ya style :P). by the way I just wonder how old both of you are?

[Streamhopper]

Me? I'm prehistoric at 43. We feared dinosaurs when I was growing up. Lol.

Nah, I'm kidding. Well, I am 43, but I still feel like I'm 28. And I've taken care of myself, so I don't look bad for my age. I'm not trying to recapture my childhood, I just never let it escape. :)

No worries on the borrow, though.

[Asker]

Yes thats exctly how i feel im doing all the work n im giving my best n he does nothing. It sucks and it hurts and i did voice this to him n he says i understand and will do better.. Lets see oh by the way that was on sun n today is tues n wow guess what no message from him until i msgd him ugh i hate it!!!

[Streamhopper]

Awww,...*pats* I don't know what's up with guys today. I'd never have done anything so foolish, even when I was young. Even my more adventurous friends wouldn't have done that. The times they are a 'changin, I guess. I do feel for you, though. I know it's tough.

[Keyspirits]

Why dont u stalk him more and keep a close eye on him? Chk his phone and if he refuses, sumthings going on in their 👌🏼
In relationship, honesty and trust is the utmost importance.

[Asker]

I think i will hve to do that wen i meet him nect.. Ty for the tip.. How will i kno if he is seeing someone else

[Keyspirits]

The only way to truly find out is through his phone where he kept all his secrets. Most people find their significant cheating when they left their phone sumwhere and forgot to take it with them. Best is to look through his phone

[FrenzyP0W3R]

@Keyspirits it's not always the case of leaving the phone unattended tho.
@Asker I have better idea of doing it and it's doesn't require access to his phone, just download some pack of busty photos of the same girl from the internet, make a fake Instagram account with them, put the same city where you live and name etc in about me and follow him and see what will he do, if week or two passes and he doesn't do anything at this stage you can easily check if he's faithful to you by messaging him, flirting with him and trying to meet up with him for "something more" if you know what I mean. If he does it and successfully tell you where to meat and at which place simply before he goes out confront him about it and tell him the truth, the look on his face will be priceless 😂 😂 😂 😂

Good Luck.

[Keyspirits]

@frenzypow3r most of the rumours that i heard over ans over again comes from this case of scenario but thats a smart idea. Create a fake acc ans test his might 😂 see if u will awaken his mortal kombat 😘

[Keyspirits]

@frenzyp0w3er 💋

[Keyspirits]

@frenzyp0w3r fack! I give up 😒

[FrenzyP0W3R]

@Asker Don't worry, people all the time can't type my username so it became quiet normal for me now 😂 😂
Tho can you keep us updated what came out of this?

[Asker]

Ty for that tip.. I did create an acct n lets see what happens n its weird he makes time for social media n not me..

[TwistedLogic]

I thought he chases them down the streets.

[Asker]

I wudnt b surprised but he told me... He minds fuck them

[TwistedLogic]

That's fucked up. I mean I have sex with multiple girls regularly and I am not in a formal relationship with any of them, yet I still avoid mentioning other girls in front of the girl I am with. It is just false behavior. You have every right not to put up with this, since you guys are in a relationship.

[Asker]

[ agree ty

[I_am_repulsive]

Maybe he wants a random follow back?

[Asker]

Thats stupid.. Yes he hss a huge ego

[Anonymous]

He's looking for hot pics to jack off too later.

[Asker]

there's porn... Can u save pics on instagram.. Why fantasize with instagram girls n not porn

[FrenzyP0W3R]

@Asker because they are not porn stars and sometimes you can have a fling with them?

[Asker]

Why would he want a fling wen im his gurl

[Anonymous]

it's really creepy

[Asker]

I know