Guys, Why does my boyfriend keeps checking out other girls and is always unloyal?

[Anonymous]

I asked him this question and he told me because men are men but I think that if u love someone u would never be unloyal you would never make them feel this way. He keeps telling me he will be loyal but he never is.
Why is doing this?

[dreamstar72]

For some looking is being human, others it’s wishful thinking, a few it’s hurtful and hateful thinking

[Asker]

I just think that it's unloyal as you shoudnt be checking out somsone else what's the point of being in a relationship when u barely pay attention to that person but u pay attention to another woman

[dreamstar72]

True , but it was the way you asked the question. You really have no idea if he is looking, wishful thinking. Now if he tells you something like ‘she hot, damn look at her or etc’. Then he an a-h and distrustful.

[Anonymous]

Some people are just that way my girlfriend she does the same to me

[Asker]

Have you talked to her about it? I just dont understand why because I don't do that to him if I would do the same I woudnt be hurt but I dont

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she always says she won't do it again but then she does

[Asker]

I dont know what to do about this it ruins our relationship

[In_Trance]

All people look. Nothing wrong with it.

[Asker]

The thing is that he gets turned on by others too and imagines stuff with other women

[In_Trance]

Again... Human nature and perfectly normal. All people do this. It doesn't mean all people act on it

[jahaims]

Because you let him