“Okay guys, spill the truth what’s that little thing your girlfriend does (maybe without realizing) that gets you burning with jealousy" Be honest?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

To be honest im single right now. But I have learnd through time and experiences that its not worth going there.. I think I have been through all of those moments

And for each moment what I have learned is
That's just who they are. Sometimes they know what there doing. Sometimes it just happens
But now matter what it is
Weather its for a reason
By accident
Or anything else. It happens

But what ever it is that happen. Or the reason behind it.
I can't control it I can't stop it. I can feel it..
When that happens I have to make a choice based on how much I like her
How deeply do I believe in her.. and am I really the right person for her

The bottom line is no matter what im with her and she with me at that moment. And no matter what she dose or she's doing the moment an emotion gets tied to it. That changes the direction of the relationship

So I know, I can't change anybody. I can't tell anybody what to do. Nor do I want to ever do that.
So I don't jealousy enter into my life. It is what it is
If it becomes an everyday thing, then I have to make a choice whether to allow it or whether to walk away.

When I'm dating.
I just don't go date random people. I date people that I know are have known because I want to know who they are.
Before I do anything.

And no matter what reality is, you both have a life apart from each other. If there's no trust to respect then you shouldn't be with each other

And sometimes in that life apart from each other. There's going to be communication contact with the opposite sex because of business or just whatever. And if you don't acknowledge that and understand that then there's always gonna be a problem and that's stupid so you have to understand that allow it because it's there. It's part of life. And you can't get jealous of you. Do you lose?

[Summeroflove]

Currently single. Things that provoke jealousy are things that need to be IMMEDIATELY addressed. Number one IS there a legitimate reason I am feeling jealous? That’s a really good question to ask because sometimes YES there is a reason why you’re feeling jealous.

Other times maybe it’s insecurities maybe if you have been cheated on in the past you are noticing things that may be completely innocent that before was red flags. Cheaters also feel very insecure because they’re projecting what they’re doing on their partners.

If you’re feeling insecure. Talk to them…. If they react too defensively when you didn’t come at them hostile maybe there is a problem you’re nothing or picking up on

[DishLady]

I was connecting a guy to two people I know a long time and he got jealous that I was just saying something kind or flattering about them by way of an intro. He got jealous I toasted another (much older) guy and got jealous a smiled and thanked our host for complimenting me. He got jealous I asked my colleague for a glass of water (bc the kid was closer to the water cooler).


I didn’t notice at first, but he ended up sitting close, watching like a hawk and cock blocking an older guy (the elder brother of our host, whose a big time actor, married, and laughably out of any woman’s league).


The older guy offered to drive me home and this guy stepped in, offering to walk me instead.


It’s all v silly bc there was no “risk” or temptation in these interactions but the guy was brimming with jealousy (even though he didn’t follow up by asking me out or anything at all).

[Anonymous]

Prepare for the insecure and the very bitter to appear on here.

[MrOracle]

I don't get jealous, I get single.

I can't control what other people do, I can only control who I choose to invest myself in. My girlfriend does not seek male validation from anyone but me, but she has very traditional values. But she also knows that if she showed me any blatant disrespect, she would be single, because I don't tolerate that from anyone.

The fact that we've been together a little over 2 years says that she gets it, and wants the same treatment in return.

I've had girlfriends in the past who didn't last long because they tried to play these games, and quickly found themselves single. I vet them better these days, and haven't had that problem in a long while.

[Finchie40]

I don’t get jealous anymore but when I was younger there were times when I got jealous over her talking to other guys’ that clearly wanted to bang her
And she was clueless thinking they were
Just being friendly lol

[JohnnyB123321]

My ex was nice and social and she was a social butterfly. If a guy would hit on her I was fine with that. And I was fine with her chatting for a couple mins. But when she drank she became chatty kathy. I honestly didn’t care or worry about them taking but people would look at me sometimes like, hey, your girlfriend gonna stop taking to some other dude? I totally trusted her but it just looked bad sometimes. It wast just like guys. Anyone said two words to her when she was durinkng and she thought they were long lost siblings or something.

[genericname85]

nothing. in a relationship i trust 100%. cause to me that's the only acceptable way to be in a relationship. if i can't trust her, i can't be with her.

[exitseven]

We were both engaged to other people before we met. She is still in touch with her ex.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, so I don't have to worry about that.

[roganlone]

Laughs at other guys joke

[glennos89]

When she likes getting attention from other dudes

[Anonymous]

What do u mean burning with jealousy

[Asker]

“By burning with jealousy I mean that intense little fire inside when your
girlfriend does something that makes you low-key possessive. Like you’re trying to stay cool on the outside but inside you’re boiling a bit, thinking ‘ugh that should only be mine.’ 😅🔥”

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but , why does he love u?

[Asker]

I don't know maybe the way we both connect or something , not something I can fully put into words

[Opinion Owner]

Does he find u pretty

[Asker]

I think he does of course.. He says so

[Opinion Owner]

How do u both look

[Asker]

Ur asking like ur writing a thesis on us😂

[Opinion Owner]

Just curious

[Asker]

Okay then any answer to my main question

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on how your guy sees u

[Dongie]

Checks a guys jewels!

[Bklynbadboy12]

I dont get jealous at all

[Anonymous]

She talks about her ex's penis