Why do I ALWAYS attract older or shorter men?

[Anonymous]

I am 5’9” and even though it isn’t very tall, it’s tall for a woman. I always look massive around my shorter friends because my girl pals are 5’5-4’9. They always get cute guys or any guy’s attention, especially tall men over 5’10”. I always get older men hurting on me or shorter men. What is it about tall women that some tiny petite men like? I mean nothing wrong with that but still.

[Avcfhcic]

Maybe a part of it is that shorter men are more submissive and into taller women who are possibly more dominant due to being taller than a lot of other women?

I'm not sure, I like dominant women but I crush on women smaller than me (5' 10")

[Asker]

Makes sense I wouldn’t be crushabler at 5’9

[Avcfhcic]

Only to taller men!

[Clear_Skies10]

Maybe they figure that you don't want a tall guy because if you breed with another tall person, you guys are just gonna make even more giant people, and even bigger women.

[Asker]

That’s so stupid

[Clear_Skies10]

That's what can happen when tall people make a baby. She could be a good basketball or volleyball player.

[Asker]

So I should just date short men then? The average height women and short women. I DO want a tall guy! Sheesh

[Clear_Skies10]

You should date whoever you're most attracted to, but the height of your offspring will most likely reflect the physical attributes of the parents. When you have a baby with someone taller you do have a chance of having a daughter who's even taller than you. If that's no problem, then it's all good.

[Asker]

I don’t have a problem with that. I do like tall guys (my height or taller 5’9-6’5), but not very tall like over 6’6+.

[Guylovesgirl]

Shorter men are often drawn to tall women because they stand out and carry a confident presence. It can feel exciting and different for them, which is why they notice you even if taller men usually get more attention.

[Anonymous]

because its usually older men who are more desperate. Shorter guys are more common than taller guys. Plus taller guys are less likely to need to hit on or approach women

[HighValue]

I'm just over 6", but I like a variety of heights on women from 4' 8" up to 5' 10". It seems like most people have a smaller range of heights they will accept in a partner though. I don't quite know why though.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason most guys attract fat or ugly women. They're simply in more plentiful supply.

As far as the guys you want choosing your friends. You're friends are simply the better option. Your friends are putting forth more effort than you.

[Berethor]

Tiny males are desperate, so they would even go for a masculine looking woman.

[Anonymous]

I'm 6'3" and have a more muscular build. I don't really have any height parameters, but I always seem to gravitate towards taller girls. My biggest crush was about your height.

[fivebyfour]

Perhaps because you are drawn to older/shorter men and don't notice attention from younger/taller men?,,,

[Anonymous]

Fuck if I know, I am 192cm and I always find short women smh

[zagor]

Who do you WANT to attract?

[Asker]

Men 5’9-6’5)

[zagor]

That should be a pretty big pool.