It's all about the instant vibe. Even the most beautiful person cannot attract all.
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10 moSlightly. But I'll take a good personality over looks.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Looks are important but not everything, chemistry and connection is most important
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10 moInitial interest (and attraction) almost always involves looks. On dating apps and sites, try to post your most flattering pictures.
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Anonymous(30-35)10 moWomen will go based strictly on his looks and how tall he is. The majority of women or girls who read this know this is not a lie. However, as a guy, I can't speak on behalf of all guys/men. But I am not that superficial because 1) I don't know what she looks like without makeup, 2) I don't know how much she weighs, 3) I don't know her history of her past relationships. Women and girls are far more judgmental. I deleted dating apps because they gave me anxiety and depression with how rude, immature and idiotic some girls are. I firmly believe whatever goes around comes around. If you hurt someone, eventually you're going to pay the price. I will be blunt, we are in a stage where women and girls use dating apps finding Mr. Perfect tall prince or just using it for attention/validation and ego. I think more guys and men (not all) who use dating apps to get married one day. Any guy with good morals and ethics and believes in God who has been through such a rough stretch in life dealing with awful girls knows that finding that one loyal girl he finds pretty and he can lean on so she helps him and he helps her is not something to be wasted.
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10 moI don't think most people will match with someone they feel unattracted too looks-wise. It's complicated though. Because you have the absolutely gorgeous people like celebrities and models on one side of the spectrum, then you have the Quasimodo's on the other side. Almost all of us fall somewhere in the middle. Most guys and gals look fine. You can always improve your appearance, and if you are willing too, you can get surgeries, work with a personal trainer and a stylist, most people could become gorgeous.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)10 moLooks matter at every age. How much depends on the person. Take heart in the fact that there are very few completely ugly people.
The thing with online dating you have to understand is most women on dating sites are just there to window shop. They're not really interested in dating ANY guy. Maybe that rare unicorn, but probably not even him. So don't take women rejecting you personal. She's not rejecting you, she rejecting the male species in general.😆
Also if might make a suggestion. Never message ANY woman first. It's been my experience on dating apps that if a woman is interested she WILL message you.
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10 moAbsolutely, especially if you're a guy. Young women and some women overall are brutal when assessing dating app photos.
Men on the other hand (as long as they aren't delulu) usually have a fairly reasonable smash/pass litmus test. If they're over estimating themselves, natural selections will take it's due course with no matches and his mates will begin to tell him how it is when he starts complaining.00 Reply - 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
10 moYes looks are the main thing that people go on in a dating app especially because weight and height are filterable.. Dating apps are complete shallow shit holes full of shitty people, whores, and undesirable leftovers lol
10 Reply 785 opinions shared on Dating topic. Looks matter in as much that you need to see something you like, combined with a nice bio in order to ‘swipe’. Once you’ve chatted and bit on text you’ll know if you want to meet. I’m never going to swipe on someone who I don’t find attractive in some way, whether it’s a smile, nice eyes or a good dress sense.
00 ReplyWell since that's all you really have of the person you know anybody can write anything on their profile it kind of is all about looks unless you you know you can leave a video maybe on some of them but if you're a narcissist or something it's all fake anyway like you don't really know somebody hell I'd even go as far to say if you never really know somebody no matter how long you've known
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10 moWomen looking to hookup- Yes
Women looking for a long term relationship- Absolutely
Women in general- Of courseMen looking to hookup- No
Men looking for a long term relationship- Somewhat
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10 moIt does, the white man wins on the dating sites, color matters too and it’s BS when they say color don’t matter. There’s many cultures where they views white skin as superior. Latin and Asian. Indian, everywhere. The white man are spreader anti blackness
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10 moYes, looks matter. It's not the only thing that matters as having a nice personality is non-negotiable.
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Social media has made looks the only thing that matters. You don't get to the vibe because you fail the looks test.
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10 moOn dating apps looks matter the most as people can't interact with you personally to get an idea of how you are as person.
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10 moPretty much all that matters, at least initially.
10 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. lol Yes, and no fakes. lol!!! xxxxxxxxxooooooooooo
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10 moI wouldn't waste my time with dating apps if I were you. There are two types of people who use dating apps: Scammers and the Scammed.
00 Reply8.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, most people put up fake pix of themselves anyway.
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10 moLooks matter period. Accept that basic truth.
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10 moYes. You need to present yourself in the best possible way in under 5 seconds. Those 5 seconds might make the difference as to whether you get a swipe left or right.
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10 moLol. Are you actually asking whether evolutionary design works?
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10 moMore than in person for sure… you can have the slickest profile but if you look like a creep… good luck
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Anonymous(36-45)10 moEverything is about looks when dating somebody.
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Anonymous(36-45)10 moFor women no, an ugly babe will get literally 1000s of matches. For men, a good looking guy will get a few here and there.
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10 moH**L to the YES !!!(I'd shave were I on one.)
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Anonymous(36-45)10 moLooks always matters when it comes to dating.
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10 moAs a woman u always get matched no matter how u look
00 Reply984 opinions shared on Dating topic. It's practically on what matters
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10 moAre u sure you're 39?
01 ReplyA guy has to be a 9-10
A girl has to be a 5-1000 ReplyOn dating apps probably 90%
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10 moOfcourse
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10 moYes!
00 Reply475 opinions shared on Dating topic. To me, yes!
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Anonymous(25-29)10 moIt sure helps
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