Do you think it's bad that I've come to a point in life that I don't care if I'm single anymore or not?

[Seangreen]

I've dated a lot of people and I've had my heart broken I've broken some hearts. But I've come across so many toxic people and since I've learned to be happy on my own I really don't care if I ever date again I'm also in my early 40s and I just don't feel that I need to make myself emotionally vulnerable anymore because I'm just expecting to be let down again so my strategy is just let things come if they will and if they don't I probably won't even notice that I'm single. Is this a bad thing in your opinion? Should I still put effort into finding someone or is being passive about it a better option since I really don't care.

[Anonymous]

No. I think you're exactly where yo need to be. You know your worth. You have self respect. And you expect to be treated with it or you'd rather be alone.

What a magical place would be if EVERYONE were that way.

Keep you heart open but always be on your guard man. That's the right way to be. The right woman WILL understand. And if she doesn't, you're better off without her.👍

[AngryCarl2]

Thanks for joining the sane people. What took you so long?

[Vevv123]

I think it’s ok especially if you’ve encountered many toxic people. However, I don’t think you should give up with the idea that you’ll find someone. I think it’s good to be understanding in that everyone will have their flaws and no one’s perfect, as long as you can pick out the toxic ones.

[Anonymous]

No I think it is great that you've finally realised you're a shit human being who's not worthy of love and never has been.

No need to put in effort when you know you'll never be worthy, no matter how hard you try. Some people be like that. Unworthy no matter how much they try.

[Seangreen]

you know me so well, must be one of my exes

[Opinion Owner]

Thank fucking goodness I'm not.
I'd not touch one of your kind with a god damn pole. Even your parents couldn't love you. You don't even have the right to be loved by them. You be nothing which is why you're undatable and forever alone now.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm getting infected by your worthlessness just by exchanging words with you so I'm muting you.

"You must be mad"

No fucker, I just don't think you're entitled to shit so I treat you as the nothing you are. Bye mister unwanted by all. I

[Seangreen]

Lol, look how angry I got you. Ha ha

[Nikki1989]

That is your call. You can either be a winner or a loser.

Pick your lane, but don't whine about it.

[Seangreen]

well, if you understood words Im in a win win situation