I’m not done, I just don’t invest too much of my time into them , especially these days , Most people are selfish liars that only want what’s best for themselves , so i just go with the flow and have fun , until I meet a girl that actually proves to me she wants a relationship, I prefer FWB’s with girls’ with some strings attached , just to give her and I time to really Get to know each other before making the bid decision of being fully committed to each other , Mainly because it’s always infatuation in the beginning but in time that infatuation can disappear leaving you or the other heart broken , FWB’s with some strings attached pretty much eliminates that from happening of her and I are on the same page with things , it seems to be the best thing to do these days , because again there are a lot of selfish people, I blame social media for being a big part of that reason
I'm fine with dating, intimacy, or just hanging out socially. But I'm extremely gun shy about being tied down in a long term relationship. I'm enjoying my freedom to go where I want, do whatever I want, whenever I want, with whoever I want.
I was everyone's support mechanism for 30 years. Immediate family, extended family, friends, at work, etc. They all seemed to come to me for money, advice, problem solving, relationship woes, addictions, etc. It's just so fucking nice not carrying other people through life for a change.
It would take an exceptional woman to break me out of this relationship free zone.
I don't want anything anymore no sex, no dates, no hangouts... I'm totally fine with just girlfriends to hang with
At one point I was open to relationships - I realized they're too draining
I can see that point of view. Relationships can be exhausting. Go for it. You can always change your mind somewhere down the road. Or not. Buy some rechargeable toys and a bottle of lube. Done for the short term.
I'm not quite where you are. I still like women. I still like socializing. I'm just very selective these days.
No I'm done with dating , relationships, and men.. sorry.. I was done a decade ago
Honestly? Yeah, which when I say that I’m told “you’re young, you still have time”. Social media and porn have completely ruined dating. That’s why a lot of men are only interested in the intimacy part of the relationship, and why women don’t want to be in relationships.
Personally I don’t want a man who treats everything as a transaction for sex or watches porn, just like I don’t want a man who acts as if sex is a need and is 90% of the relationship. Which a man like that will be hard to find because well those types of men are at every single corner.
Yeah I’m young but thank god I didn’t find out in my 30’s what majority of men are actually like.
The majority of men want a morally good and fair woman, which is nearly impossible to find. The majority of American women are pro$t1tutes. They are only interested in what resources they can extract from men in exchange for sex. Most women have no interest in actually being a partner, they are only interested in using and abusing men.
I would like to agree with you expect for the “which is nearly impossible to find” many guys do come across a girl who is morally good and fair, the problem starts when they don’t look like a hot model.
As someone who won’t even have sex with a guy unless we are in a relationship, I will agree on the line regarding prost1tutes. For me I’m unable to find a guy who is morally good and fair, and also doesn’t fit into the sex craved section along with other guys. I won’t give sex unless I’m a relationship just like even when in a relationship and having sex the only thing I’d expect isn’t a resource that he is but more so cuddling lol. If guys actually took a chance with a girl who doesn’t look like a god damn model they’d find a girl who actually wants to be there partner
I want a morally good girl, and she only needs to be a 5 or above, but that means no tattoos, no nose rings, no short unnaturally colored hair, and not 50+ pounds overweight. So no, not a model, just not disgusting like so many are now. I am a morally good man and don't agree with having sex unless there is a strong emotional connection within an exclusive relationship, but many people disagree with that. I am against marriage though unless there is a prenuptial agreement first.
Whether in a blue or red state, MOST women are terrible options from what I have seen, especially from gen x and millennials. The immorality and promiscuity isn't a new thing either like many people think, they were like that back when I was in high school and continued to be that way their whole lives. And it was the majority, not the rare exception.
@HighValue i definitely understand, which with what you have about appearance i would not be the girl for you. I have a tattoo and my hair is dyed but goes past my shoulders.
My hair is dyed red because my grandmother always wanted to have the experience of dying someone’s hair and wanted to get a tattoo so I got it with her. My grandmother passed away a few months ago due to cancer, at some point I’ll dye my hair back natural but I’d like to keep what she has done for a while longer.
I wouldn't say I am done but I don't go out anywhere besides when I have to go out. I also don't use dating apps.. So it's highly unlikely I will ever get a boyfriend again lol.
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Well sometimes that's the best way to be. That when Mr right walker in to your life because you not looking or even paying attention
I am done with relationships and dating
Was done a decade ago
I wish you men the best in finding a partner - dating has changed and the dating pool is horrible
I think hook up sex did it
Ruined the dating market and value
I don't know it's terrible out here only God can rekindle things now
Yes , but God didn't put us here to suffer so many people need therapy not relationships because dating is ruining women and men..
I got rid of a toxic guy last week and my ex is toxic despite being married
I no longer have energy to give to random people.. my energy is very scarce
I definitely don’t think I’d enjoy dating should I find myself single any time soon , especially if the posts on here are anything to go by 😝. As a matter of fact before my present relationship started I was more or less decided that I would not be seeking a new relationship and then out of the blue whilst out having dinner with friends in a very social setting almost 14 years ago I struck up a conversation with a perfect stranger and things just fell into place and we have been together since starting with friendship.
My advice dont write a relationship off
I'm sorry I did this generation of dating is terrible
Well that’s up to you , I can certainly understand where you’re coming from. I’m very glad I never closed that door though.. just sayin
I'm no longer interested in dating or men anymore e
Anymore *
Ok then …
No sex , dating , etc.. I love being single without being drained by a man who adds no value to my life
Married.
The sexual revolution and the birth control pill turned women promiscuous. That changed everything, "free" sex with no commitment, no families, no kids. Just people fucking multiple partners for pleasure only.
Marriage and relationships were basically over once it just became a sexual free for all and marriage wasn't needed to have sex (which resulted in kids and families). No fault divorce, I can leave just because I feel like it didn't help either.
Yeah, the actions of the 70's kind of screwed it up.
And men are not fucking around? I have plenty of married men approaching me these men have wives and families , but they don't care
So this a two way street... men can be whores too.
Sure, that is true but women had always tamed the culture because they would get pregnant by screwing around and they made sure they were married.
'I'm not absolving men but things won't change unless women stop putting out as a whole and make guys marry them.
It is women's fault they are destroying the society by leading us into a demographic collapse by not doing their female role... having babies. Women are the ones choosing to just travel, drink, be promiscuous and not have kids.
Men are still doing their role. They build EVERYTHING on the planet, grow all the food, get all the energy, repair and sustain all the infrastructure, supply all the force and security and defense. Women cannot do that. Women have babies and keep the population going. Women are just choosing to implode the demographics because they do not want babies.
Abandoning the role nature gave you. Otherwise we'd all be men.
I've been single 15 years and I have a tally of men who are married looking to cheat on their wives
Men aren't doing shyt but ruining their families and hurting women - creating broken families
Married people are the reason why I stopped dating - you couldn't pay me to date or marry in this day or time
So... you're useless.
Here we go with you men calling women useless - you men are subzero you add no value to women other than money
How do you men benefit women?
Well, you are off on some unrelatrd tangent. The fact remains, the birth control pill, sexual revolution and women losing virtue and becoming promiscuous ruined society.
Men benefit women? Well, like I clearly stated men are STILL performing their masculine role to mankind. It is women who have abandoned their feminine role in the west.
Benefit? Do you live in a house? An apartment? Have you been in an office, a school, a hospital, a skyscraper? Who built where you live? Do the lights cone on when you flip the switch? How does that happen? Who discovered it, built it, maintains it? Does clean water come out of your tap? Does the toilet flush? Do you have A/C in the summer and heat in the winter? Is there fuel when you go to the gas station? Is the local store replete with food and drink of every kind? Who grew that? How did that get there? Does your car work? Who fixes it? Who invented cars? Who invented jets? Who builds bridges? Who invented computers, ipods, radio, television? Who keeps your homeland from the evil hoards who would roll in and take all your land and resources?
Who provides?
Who can have children and raise families and bring the next generation to keep mankind and our culture and society going? Women. Who would rather get office jobs and work 40 hours a week and not have kids and abort the kids they do get? Women. Why is the birthrate below replacement levels and the populations are collapsing in the west and South Korea?
Birth control and women choosing feminism and childlessness.
We all need each other. Men still provide everything, women are choosing extinction. Not living up to their role.
You men haven't created anything women did - we all pay taxes and function.. these days of women being promiscuous are over as women are opting out
Yeah, that is what I said..."opting out" choosing demographic suicide.
You exist to have children. You are so sick in your head and perverted ibyour heart that a family isn't viewed as the blessing it is but a burden and oppression.
Denying your true purpose.
No women are not here to just bare children and get married - my purpose is to live how I want to live and be happy
Not everyone wants a family or to get married
"Want"
LOL.
It is all about what I want.
You want extinction.
Great job western women.
No I'm no longer interested in dating - most people don't get tested , fornicate, and don't want anything meaningful
I'm sure there are women out here who want men , dating, etc I'm out 🏳️
More or less. I mean, I'm no quitter so you're never going to hear me say I quit. Buy let's just say I realize my odds of finding a like minded woman to devote my remaining years to is slim to none. Because even if by some miracle I find a woman who's not been corrupted by years of baggage, she's not likely to tolerate mine. So, bottom line I'm not going to torture myself about what didn't occur in this life. I'll just enjoy the remaining years of this one single and wait for the next life.👍
Yeah men are ruining women with their toxicity where the baggage is coming from... women giving men chances who are no good
Unfortunately but the time she realizes what type of man he is it's months down the road
By.. so no I no longer want a relationship again
The same thing can be said about women. The sheer amount of women predators today is staggering. And to make matters worse men are expected to do the approaching. So it's like signing on for his own execution.
People catching STDs and passing it around.. dating is scary it's best to be single
Agreed. But this is why I say I haven't quit. My attitude is I have the rest of my life. I'll wait as long as I need to. If she's not OK with that, she can move along. Yeah, it's frustrating because that's generally what she does. But my attitude is the RIGHT one will be patient and stay.
It only has to happen once.
Any man that I date has to be covid 19 free none of those shots
No fornicating etc.. most men are neither I'm good
Absolutely I am I've been in relationships I've been in situationships and I'm at the point in my life now where I'm done with it I'm happy being alone females to me are just friends now nothing more nothing less and that's how I want it
I no longer have an interest or desire to date anymore
Im done with it. Its too much stress and pain. Plus everyone these days seems to be holding out for their dream person. That person doesn't exist. No I'll will towards women it's just I'm tired of the pain.
Yep I don't have time to keep starting over with relationships and people are playing games these days
I am for a while being 44 father of 1 been married for 17 together for 25 going through my first ever break up if we don't work it out it's gonna hurt and be such a non norm I don't want to be in a serious relationship til iam ready for that go out and make some friends talk to old friends I haven't seen in a while get back to a more independent me we give each other enough space just more roommates then that passionate partners long relationships that lots of work that you should want to do
It is more that it is extremely costly now to marry or be in a relationship. In general I am happy to up to the point it becomes a financial liability.
An ex-wife was never worth her cost..
Nope, I have been with my wonderful husband for over 16 years, and before that, I enjoyed every part of my dating years; it was so much fun.
The majority of women are so morally disgusting, it is difficult to have any interest in a relationship. It isn't a new thing like some people think though, it has been that way for over 30 years.
It seems like most guys are only into it for one thing. They only want a quick hookup & casual sex.
I still date.. like go out and eat or something, even a sleepover on occasion, but it stops there. I'm not interested in taking care of females or their problems.
Get off of stupid Instagram and watch your life improve. l
I'm not on IG
I don't use social media
I don't date - and I meet men in my groups
Social media groups for like minded people like Facebook groups
No. I’m happy in mine. But I had a couple bad ones before this one.
People with this attitude aren't desirable to mature people so they get stuck with only immature people. Instead of being introspective you blame it on everyone else.
Whose blaming someone?
People are tired of the bs out here called dating
I'm not obligated to give up my peace to date someone whose toxic
NO THANK YOU
I realized dating is more exhausting than it's worth and it should be exhausting
It should not be exhausting
Not having had one before 27 made me tired of being single. I, in no way, thought I would hit the jackpot on my first try. I mean, I didn't with Powerball or Mega Millions. However, I did with my relationship and now I'm engaged.
Done, because the "devices" have Brainwashed everyobdy in to just "doing it" Virtually! 🤦♂️🤷♂️
Men are big life projects and if your not willing to wipe the dripping sperm off your thighs then its peace out.
Yes why I opted out I'm good
nice... it worked for my mom for over 3 decades
Me and your mom would be good friends
i was done with them before i even had one so i never had one.
Just learn how to pick better men and don't get into a relationship until you know the guy isn't crazy, an idiot, or a shit bag
I'm good- choosing better means staying single
I'm not giving up my peace again
I was married , divorced, had my kids and not going through that again - my happiness is not reliant on a man - I am done when it comes to dating
I don't want to live or deal with another man - I love my peace , freedom, space, and quiet time in my house
You guys are too late to ask me that i've been done since 1994
Yes I have friends with benefits which works for me. I like the freedom not having to deal with the BS.
Hmmmm... Not done, just on chill mode. Focusing on myself, enjoying life, and open to something real if it comes along.
Nope. I might be less than perfect at romances, but I enjoy dating too much to give it up.
Yes everything goes superficial nobody is willing to put efforts or have patience. 😂
I’d like to have someone, but can’t for complicated reasons. Though I don’t have to have someone, it certainly gets lonely.
Men like the intimacy part , but Al lot don’t like the marrying part
A^ typo
Yeah want easy sex without commitment - why I don't sleep with men
It’s not a problem if you’re not religious
I am religious
Then find a religious man and it won’t be an issue cuz they’ll have the same values
No I am just not interested in dating period... it's not about finding a religious men...
Dating has exhausted me to the point of no return
That’s kinda sad tbh
Well men ruin women and dating.. truthfully I'm repulsed by them as they turn me off
The manipulation, lies, etc I want nothing else to do with a man
Yeah and you can’t be a lesbian and be religious so I guess you’ll be a loner. Sorry to hear that
No I won't be a lesbian - I can be single and content
I have been 15 years so far
You don’t want kids eventually?
I have kids and if I didn't have kids I wouldn't want any kids any man I'd probably adopt
My children are teens , but not having more kids
Oh okay well that’s good
Done, they never started because I'm too ugly
Kind of. Im just absolutely convinced girls want nothing to do with me.
I'm exhausted of interacting with people itself
I’ve been done since 2018. 🤷🏻♂️
Yes, but I'm old. I'm also socially phobic.
I actually never had a relationship :(
Same nothing lasting or long term... nowadays it's all about sex
I never had sex either...
Celibate here, but people make dating about sex and nothing else
Well, I never had any kind of date.
I understand your stance , but these types of people ruin dating... women like me are just out the dating market all together
I get it, you had some bad experiences with certain type of men.
They may be done with me !!!
Never even got started. I'm definitely behind.
No. I have not.
Agreed
Yeah cuz I found one
Dating is dead now.
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