Are y'all equally attracted to and afraid of men?

[Anonymous]

I'm attracted to men, but I've had at least 30 different bad experiences with males that I can remember clear as day. I try to avoid them and enjoy them at a distance. I mostly do online sexting in which things get deleted after a day.
I don't know how I carry myself that makes me look like prey, but majority of the time I give men the benefit of the doubt, they switch up too fast and I end up ghosting and avoiding. In the end, I just feel awkward about men.
Side note: Male uber drivers can kick rock, I think that's their new way to get women.
Persuade women to date for the majority of the trip and then, in the last few minutes, ask for the girl's number, a date, be friends, or use them as their personal driver. I mean, I'm average, but man!
You don't have to tell me if you weren't in a situationship right now, you would ask for my number and hope that we'll see each other after you sort everything out.

[ohsheeT]

30 bad experiences. You need to stick to on line guys until you figure out what's going on no girl has had 30 bad experiences. Do you role play i am so curious what you're doing to have thirty bad experiences

You need to be careful.
If this is true because one day it's gonna be a really bad if you can't see that. And change what ever your doing it's just a matter of time

But you need to figure this before you go on any date with any guy

That is thirty warning s that you have had. You have to know and understand that

[Asker]

G&G put my topic as dating. I haven't dated or went out with 30 bad guys, most of these are just strangers or force proximity interactions.
I meant in general I do online because I don't actively look for relationships with men.

[HighValue]

With how many terrible, immoral women there are, how much they have harmed men for generations, and how much support and encouragement they get from other women to continue the bad behavior, I have no sympathy for women.

[Asker]

How have women harmed men other than some Bad women crying wolf and having OTHER MEN believe it and hurt those men
Who's on the opposite end, putting up with the bad behavior?

[jahaims]

You are just stupid. Instead of realizing you are choosing bad men you are blaming men. Stupid people get taken advantage of often.

[Asker]

y'all first response is I'm choosing them I'm hanging with them
No, I'm interacting with them
As soon as they walk up to me
The interaction starts.
The majority of the men I'm talking about are strangers or were in forced proximity (school, job, transit)
"Well you could have done this or that,"
That only applies if I have a secondary interaction with them. I'm talking about one time occurrences.
I'm no psychic. I can't react if no act has taken place. When it's done, the experience is lived through, you can't take it back.
Don't be upset when women treat you like a predator and won't give you a chance when you call women stupid for giving you a chance. Again, most of these aren't based on giving a guy a chance. It's me just existing in this world with a random man 😒😒😒

[LiamS95]

I'm sorry to hear about your bad experiences with men. I had a bad experience with a woman I was once engaged to and have also found sexting a safe and satisfying way to release sexual tension

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you just hang around bad men.

[Asker]

That's the problem, I don't hang around bad men. They approach me, and I don't know they're bad men until they give me a sign
By then it's too late. I'm already having a bad experience

[LazerBean]

No. Please get therapy

[Anonymous]

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