Men: Why are you afraid and or intimidated by women?

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blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

Please please please for the love of God please quit using the phrase “intimidated” or “afraid” of women. That is such common bs modern feminist semantics. Like women are so grandiose and powerful nowadays that men are shaking in fear. Ah no. Not accurate in the slightly.

The vast majority of grown men are not “afraid” of modern women but many of them are frustrated, angry and jaded. This isn’t a figurative statement either because recent statistics show 63% of men under 30 are single.

Of all the articles I read about this the leftist journalists kept trying to blame it on porn, social media, low testosterone levels, post pandemic burnout, etc. While I do believe all those points do factor into this problem I also see nobody in the MSM has the balls to call out the number one culprit: modern feminism.

Men have to deal with the following nowadays:

Being exploited vía friendzone bs if they try to display chivalry and court a woman. Modern women see that as “boring nice guy” behavior and will take advantage of it.
Being cheated on and blamed for it. Most women I’ve seen who admit nowadays to cheating almost never take accountability for their actions. Their attitude about this behavior is actually much worse then the behavior itself. You don’t see men trying to justify cheating like women do.
Being #metoo’d if they dare approach a woman while she’s in a bad mood and/or she doesn’t find him attractive. Especially dangerous in the work place. Also his actual words/actions don’t matter but only her “feelings” about it is what matters.
Being ghosted with zero warning. It doesn’t matter if the guy has zero idea he did anything wrong. It doesn’t matter if the woman ghosted him over something absolutely ridiculous. Here is a recent example of this bs

All of this is because young women are being told that they are “strong and free” if they follow “their truth” as POS Oprah once put it. There is a lot of power in female sexuality and over privileged women are indulging it with reckless abandon.

However I now truly believe that nothing, not a word a man says about this and no matter how accurate it is will ever change anything. Reason being is men are expendable. Men are not special just for existing.

However being selfish and conceited never makes anyone truly happy and content. So it’s no surprise female depression rates are skyrocketing. So the only way this will ever change is when one day modern women wake up and come to a horrifying realization that most of their misery is actually self created.

That is the only way things will ever change for the better. Modern women will need to find out the hard way and it’s likely going to take decades. And as with any war men are first casualties. So men have to suffer first through of this bullshit. Because these women sure as hell don’t care about how pain they inflict on men.

But lots of men are just giving up now. That’s bad for both genders but modern feminism truly is the original sin for all these problems.

patrick994 · Accepted Answer

Nowadays, women have become more conceited, aggressive, arrogant, they think everything is owed to them, they have absurd demands on the standards they seek in a guy, if you try to court them even in a polite way, they will reject you even in an arrogant way, we have grown tired of this attitude and so in a way we have adapted by being much colder and more detached.

Booklover_90 · Accepted Answer

I don’t think men are afraid of women. Unfortunately, many women interpret everything as sexual harassment. Therefore, many men don’t even shoot their shot.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

They are scared of our power. Most men know women are extremely powerful and that's why they've spent 1000s of years trying to control us

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I am neither afraid or intimidated. Even if I’ve had female bosses they were usually one of two categories:

1/ The tokens included in promotions to satisfy the need for diversity and to placate political forces. They tended to rely on their authority for validation and I have a stubborn streak that absolutely prevents me from bending the knee to you - regardless of your position above me - unless you have competence.

2/ One of those amazing women who thrived and survived by being amazingly good to rise to that level in a male dominated field. They led with sheer skill and competence and they earned my absolute respect.

Neither of those create fear or intimidation. Perhaps as a young man, in my teens perhaps, I may have been intimidated by a woman’s beauty. Young men rationalize that a pretty woman has a greater value and therefore is ‘out of our league’. A decade and a half later I knew the truth which is that is not necessarily the case at all.

In any case, I’ve never been afraid or intimidated by any woman anymore than I’ve been afraid of any other human. I can think of a few men that intimidated me but it was strictly for their physical abilities and lethality. Not power, rank, or authority.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I'm not imtimidated by women, I just have largely lost interest in dating. I feel have come of the opinion that women place a lot of importance on the dating stage but they don't understand that men care way more about marriage than dating.

For example, younger me, would have done just about anything to get laid but even then, I knew there was a difference between a woman I was just trying to have sex with and a woman I was considering spending the rest of my life with.

Women don't seem to have the ability to separate those things and it makes me see them all as... Well hoe's kinda 😂

A woman to marry is a very rare and special thing. I feel like woman have it backwards.

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve never been intimate with any woman… like another living, breathing, fully aware being, that could take an interaction and if anything goes wrong, flip it against me and ruin my reputation. You know?

Even just going in for the kiss. The thought of it is terrifying. Now if people were just… different… well intentioned, genuine and just all around good-willed, and showed real interest in who I was as a person, and weren’t so defensive all the time themselves, maybe I would feel different.

It’s also very difficult to find a girl that seems to be at all worth the risk anymore, so I just keep to myself. I really do crave conversation and a good vibe. It’s annoying to me when a woman can’t match my energy or contribute to the conversation. So I just feel better keeping quiet and alone.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Afraid of False accusations because there’s nothing we men can do about it if we are falsely accused.

Afraid of being used for our money because our money is all women seem to care about.

Afraid of getting married and divorced which results in losing half if not the majority of our resources, kids if any are involved, even our homes, ext.

JacobJordan · Answer

No man is afraid of or intimidated by women. Men just realize the reality of current society puts them in unnecessary bullshit if they interact with a modern woman so why bother... modern women have made themselves impossible to date without risking our financial, mental, emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual etc well being. There are zero benefits to dating, conversing, helping, acknowledging, marrying a modern woman. If a man wants those things he can just go overseas where women are infinitely better.

Billlewis · Answer

Mostly because I want to be intimidated by them. It's very good for me.

systemsareyo · Answer

Nowadays, a woman has the upper hand. If a woman cries wolf, there goes a man's reputation, job, employability, and so much more. It's no wonder I don't believe in marriage anymore, lol. The house always wins ahahaha lol may as well change the casino to a woman. A woman always wins nowadays, so I don't partake. I don't partake in dating or marriage, and applause to women, they've won out , I hold nothing against feminism or women. I applaud that women have won out 👍😃😋

Tomisworthless · Answer

If she’s hot she will be rude, and use insults to tell me I’m not hot and attractive enough for her.

I remember one time I wasn’t even trying to flirt with this woman I was delivering packages to while working at UPS I was playing with her little pups in the front yard and she goes “you’re not hot”

Im not objectively good looking where women flirt with me, start conversations with or engage with my opinions on Gag simply based on my appearance but I would be lying if I said in my early 20s there weren’t a handful of beautiful women that showed interest in me or tried to seduce me. I’m older now and haven’t worked around women for about 3yrs and I don’t go out much nor to social settings to where i see and meet women.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

I'm not intimidated by women at all but are turned off by the so-called arrogant boss babies "I don't need no man, I'm Miss Independent!" types. This type of rhetoric bullshit introduced by feminists have turned men away from wanting to converse with women and now it's backfiring on your gender.

There's no sympathy coming from me.

Jessikaah91 · Answer

Some of you have a lot to say about women, you know not all women are the same right? You get good and bad in both sex whether male or female. I've had my fair share of idiots..

JTPeterson · Answer

My personal reason is because I lack confidence in myself and I feel like I will always get rejected that I’m always chasing out of my league

Nikki1989 · Answer

Some men are weak and insecure. You will find some on this very post.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Because women have the potential to ruin our lives, especially in the current legal, political, social, and even economic situations as they are now. Of course "Not All Women Are Like That"; in fact, I dare say most are not like that. However, in the current world, all women *can be* like that.

MrOracle · Answer

I've never been either. I've never had any problems interacting with women. Most men don't either. There are exceptions, sure, and there are also men who just don't think dealing with women is worth the hassle, but not many men are intimidated by women. That's largely Feminist cope.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I don't think they're afraid or intimidated at all. It's the wrong choice of words. The only ones who this applies to are men who lack general self confidence. And that's is probably going to be a minority.

Anonymous · Answer

If it's a woman I'm into or dating then of course I used to be afraid whether what I'm saying or doing will turn out to be a turn off for her.. basically a fear of whether I am good enough
Now.. no I am not intimidated by my wife or any random woman

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because modern women are like toddlers with a loaded.357 magnum, and a legal system that hands them ammunition.

JHAYES317 · Answer

I’m not…I just think there’s no point in trying to cold approach women unless you are at least average height and have a big dick.

Sonorous · Answer

Uhh that doesn't happen to me. We all human.

Anonymous · Answer

They are not afraid or intimidated, vast majority doesn't know what they want, or is not honest with what they want, or they want chidlish things. Lack of emotional maturity. basically. They figured that romance, manipulation and lovebombing gets them pussy, so that's what they do. If anything, they are intimidated by other men who are competing for the same thing. Gross.

aceleon · Answer

because i hate beating around the bush and don't want to go to jai.

AmeerX · Answer

I am not afraid of women except that if a person is bad and not the gender of the person. 😒 I think women are afraid of commitment nowadays

Anonymous · Answer

You are mischaracterizing us. Most men are not afraid of or intimidated by women. We are put off by many though.

msc545 · Answer

Metoo, ALimony, child support, false allegations. Women have too much power to ruin men.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I wish at least some men I met were intimidated :D

jshm2 · Answer

We aren't.  You're confusing inexperience with "intimidation" in most cases.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I'm not really.. I'll talk to them like I talk to everybody else..

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Cause they have more rights than men, at least the courts are biased in their favor here.

loveslongnails · Answer

The women I know and hang around with are all wonderful people. I'm neither afraid nor intimidated by women at all.

DextroShade · Answer

I am not afraid or intimidated by any woman. This is just womanese for "Why don't men want to get in relationships with women who are fat/"strong and independent"/feminists/whores/bitchy/obnoxious/any combination thereof?"

dolemite58 · Answer

Men aren’t intimidated by women, women have this tendency to act obnoxious or bitchy which turns guys off. Then they misconstrue it as oh guys are just intimidated or just can’t handle me. 🤣

McKellar · Answer

There are those kind of ladies that look like Webcam/OnlyFans/Instagram high class models, and what the hell do guys have which they can offer them to stay with them?

Anonymous · Answer

Intimidated? No. Post #metoo being afraid of women is justified when a simple baseless accusation can land a man in prison.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Let's clear this up: If a woman isn't a man's boss or threatening to rake him over the coals using the force of the State, men are NEVER intimidated by women.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Being turned off by certain things isn’t being intimidated. It’s just not being interested.

Djaay · Answer

Intimidated or just plain not interested in BS women... there's a huge difference here. Most all men are steering away from malicious women.

Unit1 · Answer

Intimidated? I love women! Give me nice and sweet women!

Anonymous · Answer

I have no experience with them. I swung too hard the attractiveness scale.

Blacksnake285 · Answer

I’m not afraid to talk to them but I’m afraid sometimes to take it to the next level. A lot of women think they’re entitled to a guy who makes 6 figures or better

Anonymous · Answer

I'm more just cautious around women I don't know well. They can ruin your life with one false accusation.  But most women I have met have all been very pleasant to be around.

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

Some women can make me lose my erection because they're powerful

InspireGlow678 · Answer

Like being intimidated by them. It's powerful and sexy and it makes me hard.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

We aren’t. What is intimidating about children with breasts?

Fireguy17 · Answer

I'm not, what's to be afraid of?

Jennz6 · Answer

What’s up with you guys?

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Women are mean

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why women are afraid and or intimidated by men

DreamLife7 · Answer

I don't think successful men are afraid of women

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'm afraid of polar bears, not women.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Because they don't trust them duh 🙄

NathanDavis · Answer

I am not.

The_Sexpert · Answer

Sounds delusional

AliceM611 · Answer

Obese women only.

Jackblue · Answer

Well I am afraid of aiming above my league.

Slapmynuts · Answer

Because they have us by the man berries!🤪

The-Sexpert · Answer

We don't it's generally the opposite

maj1nall · Answer

because they are sneaky

RebelinSteel · Answer

I’m not.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Says who?

eagle1951 · Answer

yeah right

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