I'm very afraid of being scary to women.
One time, in a dark night, I was coming home when I noticed a girl walking, I think she was some 30 meters away from me, we were alone at the street, strangely (or not), she starts walking very fast, at some point she even started running, she did look back a few times.
This experience kinda terrified me, I don't know if I'm being paranoid or not, but I had the impression of being perceived as a threat to her, I even started walking slowly and looking at the ground, in order for her to think that I didn't notice her. It made me feel like shit but that's perfectly understandable, I also react similarly because of the fear of being robbed.
But I need to give her a break because being alone at night in the street is usually scary for most people, so let's turn to a less extreme situation, are you scared of approaching or being approached by guys in a normal social setting?
One time, in a dark night, I was coming home when I noticed a girl walking, I think she was some 30 meters away from me, we were alone at the street, strangely (or not), she starts walking very fast, at some point she even started running, she did look back a few times.
This experience kinda terrified me, I don't know if I'm being paranoid or not, but I had the impression of being perceived as a threat to her, I even started walking slowly and looking at the ground, in order for her to think that I didn't notice her. It made me feel like shit but that's perfectly understandable, I also react similarly because of the fear of being robbed.
But I need to give her a break because being alone at night in the street is usually scary for most people, so let's turn to a less extreme situation, are you scared of approaching or being approached by guys in a normal social setting?
