AITA for blocking a guy for watching anime?

[bunbunbunny]

I am a 22 year old female and I've recently been talking to this one guy I met through Tinder. The first date went well, we went to a nice restaurant, and he paid for the both of us. We had a lot of similarities, We both like traditional roles, I want a man who provides, and he wants a housewife. Everything went well until I got to the second date. He mentioned something about anime and how he loves to watch "one piece" and “Baki”. I found it kind of off-putting. I find anime kind of feminine and childish? I’ve personally seen a few episodes of sailor moon when I was younger but I don’t watch it anymore now that I’m in college. I don’t really see a future with him and I feel that watching anime is kind of an ick to me. I blocked the guy and asked my close friend what she thought but she said i was being an asshole about the anime thing. I don’t really know what to think anymore, aita?

[blueonblack22]

And this ladies and gentlemen is exactly how future “incels” are made.

@bunbunbunny attraction isn’t a choice but respect is. You do not have to feel attracted or turned off towards any person for any reason. You want to reject an otherwise decent guy over an insanely fickle and ridiculous reason? Fine. Suit yourself.

But for the love of God at least respect this guy and tell him you rather not date anymore. But you are too much of selfish coward (which is worse than being an asshole by the way) to give the poor guy a heads up.

Why is it so hard for you to send him at least a text first saying you don’t want to date anymore and then blocking him? Instead you want to be a cowardly POS and leave him wondering wtf he did wrong.

This can potentially do more damage to his self esteem than you can ever possibly imagine. Sure it was only after 2 dates but still that was horrible. On top of that you said “he paid for the both of us” for an expensive dinner. You are real selfish piece of sh*t to accept that from him and then do what you did. Do you know that? Really you are. Do you think he is going to be motivated to treat other future out for nice dates when this could be a risk?

The biggest issue is that you are not alone in your horrible behavior. More young women are acting this ridiculous nowadays. They are being told to indulge “their feelings” with zero thought of the long term ramifications and damage they can cause.

If he gets rejected in the future by other women for fickle reasons he’s going to grow in deeper in resentment. You are probably hoping that you are an isolated incident and for his sake I hope you are. But you definitely added a huge checkmark in the misogyny column for that one.

Unblock him and send him a carefully written apology saying you handled everything wrong and he deserved a lot more respect than what you showed. Tell him he did absolutely nothing wrong and it’s a you problem not a him problem. Then block him right after you send it. At least give the poor guy a modicum of closure of though. It will make him slightly better to read that. You will feel better yourself after sending it. Trust me.

[strateguy632]

i love how you pointed out "who was the immature one".

[blueonblack22]

@strateguy632 the thing is she think she is “unique and special” to this incident but she’s not. She thinks she is going to be the only person who ever made this mistake with him but she most likely will not be. She is sadly not likely to be an isolated incident for this guys dating strugglers unless he meets “the one” on his next date which is highly unlikely. So if this guy gets kicked in the nuts again do you think he is going to stay motivated to remain a gentleman? She is contributing to this horrible trend:

https://youtu.be/Tmo8geBTARk?si=Ph9YbpWHkz-qWmFJ

Lots of young women (and even women in their 30s and 40s) are doing this bs nowadays. They are being told to “engage” whatever stupid thought that crosses their mind exactly in the moment with zero regard for the future.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Whoa... If 63% of the men under the age of 30 are single, it looks like a buildup for some serious MGTOW-style cRumbling. Some of them are probably unwillingly single, but even those can and will get frustrated. To be honest, living my daily life, I would be mostly indifferent to such a cRumbling, but I've met some truly exceptional People of Goodwill (including women) on GaG, and thus, I kind of want to prevent a total collapse of civilization.

[DextroShade]

Excellent post, women constantly reject men, disrespect them, and treat them like crap and then wonder why Andrew Tate gets such a massive following and there's a mass shooting every week. They tell men to "open up and be themselves" and then they do things like this when a guy opens up about something as simple as a hobby which has nothing to do with his quality as a partner.

[CalmUntilAbused]

@DextroShade

The fun thing is, it can sometimes have an impact, and a positive one, at that. Honestly, I feel more capable of meaningful relationships with women after "Yahari Ore no Seishun Love Comedy wa Machigatteiru." Like... I might have begun to think about a few aspects of such relationships in a slightly more responsible way. And man, do I want "something genuine" regarding these relationships...

[blueonblack22]

@CalmUntilAbused @DextroShade it can really knock out any naivety out of men about women. There are only so many blows men can take and we have breaking points.

However lots of men internalize the resentment and hatred and get very callous and for good reason. Also even though we aren’t actively publicly telling the world about our anger it will impact us subconsciously around people.

However society needs to ask a bigger question. Are WOMEN truly happy with themselves with this self absorption x10? Their depression levels are skyrocketing and it’s no wonder.

You can’t screw over men without eventually screwing over women. Mother Nature intended to bond men and women together for companionship and reproduction. When men fail then WOMEN fail. So maybe a more effective strategy is focus on how women are destroying themselves since they lack emotional self control and judgment.

The QA might have very well lost out on a very good opportunity with a good man because of her asinine judgment.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Oh... Anime and childish... Here we go again... If it was about the Western cartoons, I would agree. About anime... I'll try to compile a list of anime I would not allow my children to watch (unless I wanted to make them far more than ready for what this world has to offer, and also mentally broken in the process):

• Death Note - "This world is a rotten mess" is not exactly the first thing I would like my children to learn about the reality. I mean... It's true, but let the children have their childhood... At the age of about 16, I would definitely recommend it to them in order to set them ready for what they are about to encounter in their adult life, up to 6 years earlier if they shared my own fate of being bullied by their classmates, but at least 10 years of innocence is what every child deserves. And still, me introducing my children to the topic of death and killing as a method of keeping the world from being depraved at the age of 16 would probably be frowned upon.
• Code Geass - Let's keep children out of the dirty world of politics during their childhood. 16 years of age would be fine, 14 if they already became interested in how politics works (though I would try to discourage them until at least the age of 16 anyway, I don't want them getting paranoid).
• Attack on Titan - Oh yeah, buckets and buckets of blood and gore is definitely what every child needs... No. It is not. I pray unto God Almighty, if I get to have a wife and a family, they shall be kept safe from any immediate life-threatening danger until at least the age of 16 (for the children, of course). Though I guess I could hint to them that life-threatening danger exists at about the age of 14 (and still, most people would want to execute me in a brutal way for that).
• Jormungand - Arms dealing, violence, firearms, child soldiers... No, not until at least the age of 16, though given the somewhat criminal context of the story, I'd say the age of 18 would be much more suitable. There might be less actual blood than in Attack on Titan, but the story is far more realistic and possibly inspiring.
• Mirai Nikki - OK, this one is ambigous. If I had a son and a yandere-style girl got interested in Him, I would recommend the story to Him as soon as I learned about this predicament of His to allow Him to learn about the possible implications of getting involved with this type of girls (though I would show Him the Alternate Ending OVA as well). If I had a son and He never got to know a real-life Gasai Yuno, I wouldn't introduce Him into the topic of fate and changing that fate until at least the age of 15, and it would be the same if I had a daughter (some might claim it's still too soon, especially due to some... mostly implicit, but still lewd content - though if my children asked me what it means to "become one" with someone, I'd go for the biblical meaning of a lifelong commitment to Your loved one rather than the much more vulgar meaning of physical intimacy).
• Youjo Senki - Oh yeah, even more blood, gore and serious moral dilemmas... Potentially suitable for children older than 14, but I'd personallly fear my children would grow up to become psychopaths.

And that's only based on the anime I know, meaning I've actually watched them. There's a lot more, including the (in) famous "h-anime" (I'm not going to write the actual word for it, not even if You paid me - though if You ask really nicely, I might provide You with a way to pronounce it, based on two English words). Is the latter "childish"? Well... It's definitely somewhat immature (though I've heard it's still better than the Western take on this genre, and I've heard of a certain six-digit manga that might actually be kind of... moralizing, I guess...), but it's also definitely targeted at adults, pick Your choice.

Now, as far as I know, One Piece is Your regular, wholesome adventure anime. Probably with a little of rule-breaking, but nothing really serious. About "Baki"... I actually had to check it out, so Your Tinder date is definitely a bit of a connoisseur. Pretty high-end, to be honest. The anime itself is apparently about a martial arts champion, so... I guess it's going to be pretty complex.

So... Is anime feminine? Some of it is, some is not. I'd say My Dress-Up Darling gives off a bit of a feminine, cutesy vibe, but it's still fine to watch. There are also some shōjo manga (and anime), but none of what Your Tinder date likes fits this category.

Is anime childish, then? Again, some of it is, some is not. Most of the world-famous series are not. Some are suitable for children (though I guess it's usually going to be middle-school children upwards), but actually teach them how to be mature and responsible people (Yahari Ore no Seishun Love Comedy wa Machigatteiru., I'm looking at You - and yes, I had to copy-paste the title). It's not like the Western cartoons, it's not only for children (and those that are actually targeted for Japanese children are usually unknown in the West).

So... As long as He actually provides and You are a good housewife, I think it would work out for You. At this point, however, He might have moved on.

[Sirenboobzilla]

So, you find this guy. He vibes with you. You have matching qualities and similar interests. And the deal breaker was anime.

Imagine this situation:
Similar setting; second date and it's going well. You've been talking and just about everything is perfect. You mention something you saw on Real Housewives the other night (or whatever show you like) and he does what you did and once the date is over he blocks you. He tells you beforehand that he finds that show and people who like it a turn off. What's your initial reaction? Do you find him an asshole for it?

[strateguy632]

and if not tell, but block even worse. lol.

[Rei13]

To be fair it is pretty childish to block someone over such a silly reason, but yeah you’re the a******. You must not have actually liked him that much lol. There are a lot of adults that watch anime and if that is the worst thing about him then that’s actually not a bad thing

[Finchie40]

I take it you really didn’t like the guy , be wise blocking someone for liking Anime , is kind of childish as well , that to me is a silly reason not to like someone , that’s like blocking someone because you dont like the music they listen to. So if you are going to keep blocking someone because they like something that you don’t like , good luck trying to find a partner , your preferences are way to high

[blueonblack22]

@Finchie40 look at her profile pic and it literally explains everything we are dealing with. That thinks it’s okay to reject a man over liking anime

[DreamLife7]

@blueonblack22 it's a troll account they stole the model Londons picture

[blueonblack22]

@DreamLife7 honestly I really hope that’s true. Usually when women confess to doing horrible things they stay anon on here.

But I’ve been ghosted over incredulous reasons before and so have other guys. I used to be friends with a woman who told me she wanted to stand up a guy up on a date JUST because he called her “babe” twice in a text message.

I read their entire conversation and while the guy was flirty he never mentioned sex or anything creepy. But my former friend was so selfish/cowardly she couldn’t didn’t even have the common decency to at least give the guy a heads up via text message she couldn’t make it. I told her she should at the bare minimum just text the guy a heads up and then immediately block him if she was so terrified of his response. She was a grown ass 30 YEAR OLD woman doing this too.

Fortunately the guy texted her first saying he couldn’t make it. She was all “relieved” she didn’t have to have that “confrontation”. But I told her “look this guy let you know he couldn’t make but look at what YOU were planning to do”.

So stories like this are very believable when it comes to female behavior in the modern world. Lots of them really are that horrible.

[DreamLife7]

@blueonblack22 do u really think an onlyfans "model" would be here? Come on use your brain

[blueonblack22]

@DreamLife7 well I don’t follow onlyfans models because I DO use my brain. So I have no idea who London is until you told me. I’m sure as hell not following women like that on IG or worse OF.

[DreamLife7]

@blueonblack22 do u really think a normal woman of class would be posted up like this? Clearly an escort. Why would an escort be on a site that will not make her any money?

[DreamLife7]

@blueonblack22 just put the image in Google will pull the real person up. The poster is a retard

[blueonblack22]

@DreamLife7 not saying all women are like this. I know they are not. Also I don’t want to even save that image on my phone. But yes that image looked highly suspect.

But there are a growing number of young women like her. There really are. Just because you might be like that (and I don’t think you would do something that stupid) doesn’t mean other women might.

My issue is these young women are being told to be “true to themselves” and indulge whatever stupid thought that crosses their mind as “their truth”.

Fewer of them are taking a moment to think twice about the long term impacts of their decisions. It not only hurts young men but ultimately harms WOMEN. Men can get jaded when they experience this bs and sadly there is a high likelihood that guy she mistreated will get mistreated again by another selfish young woman. It might not be over anime but it will be for some other fickle bs.

For his sake I really hope that doesn’t happen but it is more likely nowadays. Also I hope this is just a troll. But I’ve seen several real life examples of this happening to young men nowadays.

If you see other young women doing this in real life please call them out on it. I know I call out other young men on stupid behavior.

[D3P0PowPow]

@DreamLife7 thanks lol

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're in a bit of a tough spot. When it comes to relationships, it's important to have compatibility in values, interests, and lifestyle choices. However, it's also crucial to remember that everyone has their unique hobbies and interests, which might not always align perfectly with ours.

In this case, the guy you were dating enjoys anime, which is a popular form of entertainment enjoyed by many people of various ages and backgrounds. While it's completely okay for you to not be interested in anime, it might be worth considering whether this difference in interests is a dealbreaker for you. If watching anime is something that he enjoys and it doesn't negatively impact his responsibilities or your relationship, it might be more of a personal preference rather than an inherent negative trait.

Blocking him without discussing your feelings might have been a bit abrupt, especially since the rest of the date went well and you both seemed to share similar values in other areas. Communication is key in any relationship, and it could have been helpful to express your thoughts about his interest in anime and see if there was room for understanding or compromise.

Your friend's perspective suggests that she might view this situation as a minor difference in interests rather than a major red flag. It's okay to have dealbreakers, but it's also important to consider whether those dealbreakers are based on essential values or personal preferences.

In the end, you're not an "asshole" for having preferences in a relationship. It's about finding a balance between what's crucial for you in a partner and being open to the individual differences each person brings to a relationship. If anime is a definite dealbreaker for you, that's your choice, but it might be worth reflecting on why it bothers you so much and if it's something that could be overlooked for the right person.

[aceleon]

feminine and childish? it is obvious you don't know what anime even is, most animes are far more adult content than actual movies you can be sure

their philosophies are much more deep

their erotic scenes are far more erotic

their bloody gore scenes are much more violent

their social messages and views on society is better

their display of humanly bonds are far more deeper and meaningfull.

you are the asshole and worse than that you are having negative opinions on something you didn't even see or watch or get an actual idea about it, sailor moon? i say sorry for it's fans but that is one of the worst examples for animes. there are 1000s better animes than sailor moon.

[Inbox]

Not only that, but dropping someone over a tv show is already bad enough, but then blocking them is next to world’s stupidest choices for the day.

[strateguy632]

@Inbox precisely like if i block a girl for watching chik fliks lol. that would be absurd. what is the perrson.

[etsylo]

you don't have to see a future with him or even like him enough to pursue a proper relationship.

but it was childish on your move to block him simply for watching and enjoying anime. if you were to sit down and actually watch the good ones out there, you'll see that it isn't just childish nor feminine. everything about him was aligning with what you seek but him mentioning his enjoyment for anime was literally the only thing that made you block him, which is actually sad.

sometimes it's good to have an open mind and understand each other. you could've asked him why he liked anime before blocking him.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I find it odd that you did that. It's not like he was watching it to ignore you on a date or anything (this would be a different story if he was). But you blocked him just for sharing something he liked? I'd say yes, yes you are. But as an anime fan myself, I can gurantee you that many animes are aimed at teens & adults and can have mature scenes. You've only watched one anime out of millions of popular animes there are out there. And One Piece is a great anime (I've only read a bit of the manga version, but haven't watched yet).

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's was somewhat stretch to so all that because of that reason, it's somewhat childish of you to throw a good connection you had with someone that matched most if not all your preferences just cause he watches cartoons, some people see cartoons as a therapy (myself included) I'd say as long as he isn't walking around dressed like the cartoon character or going out of his way of important roles in life to watch cartoons, I think you might have just thrown away someone you had good compability with, I'm sure then when you try finding someone else and struggle to do so, you'll complain on why you can't, it's for small things like this.

I understand maybe it's not something you are into but I can assure you that you aren't perfect either and will most likely have flaws the other person won't like but what would you want, for them to accept you and love you anyways, or throw you to the curb for having such flaws? I'm just keeping it real.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I'm into anime myself. And you have no clue what anime is about.
Anime is a medium. It's not only for kids or girls.

And yes, you're the asshole for blocking someone because of a huge prejudice you have of a hobby you know nothing about.

YTA

[19magic]

I wonder if you agree with me, see me personally always thought anime was always a more male dominated thing than female (hence why whenever you're scrolling through anime lists you always see girls with big knockers).

[Little_Bumblebee]

It might be more dominated by men. I don't really know the statistics.
But absolutely it seems dominated by male viewers- which also makes it weird OP mentioned it's girly or for kids..

And yes there's so much fanservice for guys in a lot of the anime, unnecessary fanservice as well. Though it has evened more out from what I've noticed.

But even Shonen anime, I have enjoyed so much and are some of my favorite genres actually. So don't need to be a guy to enjoy those for example.

And Attack on Titan for example is great. It's Shonen (to my knowledge), doesn't sexualize the women, and they're badass as hell.
And it's definitely not for kids.

[19magic]

Yeah there's definitely a mix of both genders in anime, I've watched a mix of both. Weirdly enough lately I've been into the more romancy ones lol but I've watched horror ones as well as action ones

[Anonymous]

You're not an asshole but anime isn't feminine or childish. There are quite a few adult like anime out there that is far from feminine. Psycho-Pass is one of those that I would say is mature and adult like. You shouldn't have ridden him off based off that alone. There is probably way more to him than anime. You probably have something about you that might be off-putting and you would feel like crap if a guy rid you off because of it. Again not saying you're an asshole for blocking him but you are really judgmental.

[dragoblack]

Anime and animation is just a medium for talling a story, nothing feminine or childish about it. I know plenty of anime that qualifies as fucked-up horror with people getting gored and dismembered in great detail. Corpse party, higurashi: where the cicadas cry, parasyte, ajin, another, berserk, devilman, and elven lied, are a few examples.
Those that don't watch anime tend to not know the vast variety of stories, that are not for children and directed to adults, while only go off the usual one's only shown on tv that are pg13 for young adults.
Its best not to judge but try to understand the interest of those you are romantically interested in.(unless they are illegal... obviously)

[etsylo]

i love parasyte and ajin, so glad those were mentioned

[pickles77]

I mean if you like the guy otherwise blocking him is kind of childish. anime doesn’t really say anything about his character or who he is and you shouldn’t assume that he is a certain way because of it. He just enjoys the content and That’s okay. Maby there are things you enjoy that are dumb to someone else. I for one can’t understand why anyone would like celebrity gossip but some like it. It doesn’t mean they are a bad person they just get caught up in whatever the drama is. Same with any t. v show really. If they can’t keep our attention they can’t make money from it. That’s just the way it is. I wouldn’t blame him for finding something he likes

[Screenwriter]

I love cartoons. Not particularly anime, but anime is the same as gaming. It's a thing some people like. I don't know that I'd write someone off so quickly over cartoon preference.

I don't think you're an asshole, but awfully quick to the draw over something I'd consider minor. He's not watching porn.

[_no_one_]

Yes you very much are.

1. You judged his whole personality based of one of his interests (which in my opinion everyone should respect others interests unless its harming them)

2. You blocked him with no explaination now he'd wonder wtf went wrong. You feel watching anime is childish but yourself dont wanna deal with situations like these like a grown up. Grown ups talk about off putting things.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

YTA - I want my girl to show interest in something outside of the relationship. Hobbies, like watching anime, is that something - you dont have to make their hobby your hobby, but to cut off a relationship strictly because of a mundane hobby is wild

[strateguy632]

anime is not childish. many animated stuff for kids just mean "they are clean, no erotic," not childish. they have plot stories and can be interesting with suspense surprises and comedy and are made to grab a kids interest so more interesting than adult drama.

[Tapeworm]

YTM (You're the MILF). Instead of saying "TLDR" I'd rather tag @d_bone_steak and talk about how I intuitively know what your question is about without even reading it. I should try closing my eyes and doing automatic typing. Let the holy ghost of the Orgasmosphere pour the coowisdom. You're an asshole because you didn't say "you're an immature piece of fuck for watching kiddy cartoons as an adult" before blocking him.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I actually passed through this question... thought to myself that she's just excluding herself from something that could possibly make her happy. She's judging this guy as if she, a female, needs to share all interests with a partner, that is a male. So I'm guessing she's bi which allows her to accept that men even find her attractive for some sexy time.

Imagine if we (men) were like her. She wears makeup and most of us have no interest in wearing makeup. How would she feel, being rejected on the basis that her makeup is gay? Maybe she looks too much like a clown. She has those hips and titts which saves the interest beyond her clown makeup, which makes her face look like it's a hawt woman of color has decided to wear "White Face" in a hilarious fashion with very clown like features drawn on. Wonder how she would feel being judged like that, the way she judges others.

It's just a thought experiment... but I had to just pass this question before simply because I had nothing nice to say... so I said nothing at all.

It's sad though... She was getting along with the guy and just rejected him on something so fickle. I suppose only guys who fantasize about murdering people through gangsta rap is more acceptable to her. She's still going to find quirky guys, except the quirks won't be something as simple as enjoying Japanese art... She is denying herself that privilege.

[Tapeworm]

@D_Bone_Steak you're probably right. These questions are so worthless I don't bother reading them. I wasn't sure whether what I said (I don't remember what I said even) was meant to be serious or sarcastic. I just think, women who are into horse riding can be hot (not just fuckable, but also fun to be around, useful). But if they do it 100% of their waking time they don't even go take a bath, do the laundry or cook, just horses 16 hours a day without a break and sleep in a barn. That'll be no. What's worse is digital horses. She can be taking it with her and ogling horse dicks while she eats her lunch.. I wouldn't bang her no matter what her body looks like.. that type of scenario anime is something to reject for, no doubt. As to whether just 30 minutes of anime per day, I don't know, I recently only found out what the word anime means. If she's fuckable I don't care that she's into anime. But too much of it will make anyone infuckable.

[D_Bone_Steak]

She was getting along with the guy... rejected him because of his anime interests. So he enjoys some anime... the likes of Baki where it's just a muscled out dude that fights and bangs a girl to satisfy his needs... sexual needs. She doesn't know this as well because she hasn't watched it (obviously). I'm thinking like me, it's just a passing interest. I mean I play guitar... but I don't make it like all I am about day to day.

On a off note... I feel you are correct about horse chicks. They seem a little bit obsessed and tend to be obese. There is only so many profiles I can go through and see the horse obsession and... I think they just want horse dick. Anyways...

I myself sort of have a hatred spot for anime nerds... I learned Japanese from fucking whores and drinking with Yakuza all night, every night. Beer break was just what I did in between fucking a different girl. I chose Japanese classes in college simply because it was an easy A for me. Basically, an easy way to get the elective classes out of the way... but then those goddamn anime nerds would come in there and I was just left asking myself "Why the fuck do you want to learn this language? Because you like cartoons?" They don't make it that far up in classes just like the dumb football guys in math... but I sort of get why she would be annoyed by it.

At the same time... she was finding happiness with a anime nerd... instead of embracing happiness... she chooses what else? I would like to see the choices if she leaves herself any, who gets to bang? Gangsta rapper wannabes or other types of nerds that make her happy? I would like to observe.

[AutumnSerenity]

I get your concern. Guys who like anime come off as immature and/or possibly perverted. There was one anime that a friend recommended that finally helped me understand the anime craze - it was “Attack on Titans”. The storyline was so good that it could’ve been done with actual (human) actors. I’d say that if he has a job, goals and ambitions, & no apparent psychological issues/criminal record then there’s no reason to not continue the relationship.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, I go to the gym all the time, lift heavy, and look pretty muscular.. If you ever saw me, you would think I was manly.. And I like being manly... And I also like Anime.. This is why people have a hard time finding good SOs.. Any little thing they don't like and they're onto the next one.. That was an a-hole move.. The guys probably wondering what he did to deserve being blocked..

[DarkWinterNights]

I had a girl block me because I mentioned I played video games. It is what it is. They aren’t a very big part of my life these days, but I’d rather keep them than a woman who can’t stand the idea I don’t conform to her idea of what a man should and shouldn’t be interested in.

[HawkPerception]

He dodged a bullet. I understand anime might not be your cup of tea, but the fact you say it's feminine and childish means you're the childish one and you have no clue what anime is.

[DextroShade]

YTA

A lot of people are getting into anime and manga because unlike Western shows and comics they care more about making quality art than pushing an agenda. Sailor Moon is an anime that is for girls, there are plenty more animes for guys. I remember hanging with some masculine and not at all nerdy black dudes 20 years ago and they were watching Dragon Ball Z.

[LiamJHayden]

I own two houses, a business, and more than a dozen rental units. The only debt I have is the mortgage on some of the rental units, and that will be paid off by 2030. I also enjoy some anime. So do what you want, but your assumptions are not necessarily true.

[HiveBee]

Imagine being so "traditional" that all you want is a man slave who is not allowed to engage in entertainment of any kind.

"A guy who doesn't work 24/7 and rakes a break? Ew!"

[Crankor]

There's a lot of anime that's fat better than any current movie. The ones you mentioned though in my opinion are nor really good examples of that. There are more types that you could really think of. I just say that in regards to you thinking it's childish. Sailormoon though is Def for children

[Anonymous]

You may or may not have done the right thing but your gut told you to forget him and just block him. I feel many times in breaking it off with a guy I'd been with for a long time that at first in getting accidentally a nude pix of a Veryyyy young girl in a forest getting he had found online in pix I found out he was downloading even years ago with another X, I should never have gone any further. You are no A-hole for doing what I feel is sensible nowadays.

[beebella]

Anime is probably more popular than ever right now, especially among teens and young adults. If it's that big of an issue for you, then maybe you'd have better luck with older men who don't even know what anime is. 🤷‍♀️

[Yannae]

I side with the friend, because of the not seeing a future with him. I don't see why a hobby you don't want to partake would make him a bad boyfriend, a bad father, a bad man. If it's a dealbreaker for you, it is what it is.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I'm sorry, he's the childish one? Not the person who ghosted someone else for their interests? Come on 💀

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Blocking may be eccessive, but I too don't like anime and see it as a sign of immaturity.

Same for videogames and superheroes and girls stuff.

[aceleon]

in short liking things is a sign of immaturity for you and you think maturity is about having a boring life with no real colour, let me guess you are into soccer and cars?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@aceleon I don't like soccer although I'm the honorary president of a local team - it's just a formality.
Cars, only if they are expensive.

[aceleon]

my opinion of you didn't change. and i don't talk about liking cars i'm talking about having them as a limited hobby, like they are one of the only things you have something to talk about.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@aceleon I won't be sleeping tonight because you have an opinion of me.
What shall I do now?

[aceleon]

well firstly stopping acting like a smartass when you are just a judgmental average joe who thinks he is smart?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@aceleon perhaps.
Or perhaps I'll keep acting like a smartass.
Let me think about it.

[aceleon]

i doubt you have the ability.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@aceleon how could I, when I'm discussing with someone I don't even know, on the thread opened by someone who has the picture of a whore?

It's a dilemma, should I pick sides with the slut, or with the random nobody?

[aceleon]

nobody? is this the way you talk with your father?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@aceleon no, because my father, bless his soul, at least commanded some respect.
Not as much as my grandfather, but he still amounted to something.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Yaaas! Qweeen! Show dat nerd where he belongs! You did the right thing. He can go home and cry about it while faping to his anime waifus🤣🤣🤣

[aceleon]

you sound like a sissy faggot. just drop it you are not sounding masculine or anything of the sort you are sounding insecure and lonely.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

@aceleon I am gay and don't cry otaku boi. females of your specimen can still be found in wild.

[sirderpsalot123]

You didn’t notice it before, he liked anime then, he still was manly to you. And I don't think excessive violence, sexuality, and other things of that sort are for children, but hey.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Tinder is trash, only sluts and players use it.
Anime is awesome.
Women who don't like anime and video games are boring people.
Your friend sounds nice.
Yes you were being an asshole.

[shortster]

You probably shouldn't judge an entire genre on a few episodes of Sailor Moon. And you definitely shouldn't judge a guy for enjoying a genre that you don't like. The important thing in a relationship is not shared interests, but shared values.

[Anonymous]

Chances are you didn't like the guy, cause watching anime is a petty stupid idiotic reason to block someone. He dodged a bullet, and should thank his lucky stars you blocked him.. you're not mature enough for an adult relationship.

[Anonymous]

I think perhaps just blocking him yes. Its a bit childish and that. It would have been better to at least talk to him and say you didn't see it working out.

Everyone has things to them that they don't want in a partner and so if his animie watching is sucba a big deal it wouldn't have worked out so not continuing was probably in both your best interests.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Not really but you are uneducated and don't know what anime is about.

[PeachyPie93]

It was kind of mean not gonna lie but you most likely wouldn't of suited each other.

[Curmudgeon]

there are mountains and there are molehills. Liking Japanese cartoons? Definitely the latter.

[Anonymous]

Blocking and ghosting is shit. You're the asshole.

[Billlewis]

He may be an awesome guy, but I suspect he'll have his work cut out for him to make you happy;)

[Billlewis]

I'm still hoping you'll follow me, Goddess ❤️

[Unit1]

Yes.

You are the reason I ask to split the bill on the first date.

[Slim57]

Lol. He's the childish one, yet you're gonna not go out with someone over a hobby that would never even affect you in the slightest. Classic childish online woman.

[Truthatanycost]

The real reason why you blocked him has nothing to do with anime but your own fear.

[zagor]

If he was stupid enough to take you to a nice restaurant and pay for both of you, that should be your reason for blocking him.

[Nikki1989]

Only the very immature watch Anime, and I have met many of them.

[strateguy632]

but this guy wasn't immature! she didn't notice anything... proof mature, except that he sees anime proof that mature guy sees it. lol.

[Staximus]

I'm not into anime but some of it is definitely not for kids. You shouldn't block a guy who is willing to marry a freeloading bum

[Thestupidusername]

Tbh yeah.. i mean who cares. It has nothing to do with his charachter.

[syncheart]

I don't watch anime, nor do I like anime. However people have different ideas of what is fun to watch.

[Anonymous]

I mean it's your choice to date someone who likes anime or not. I think it's nice to communicate with him and say that you don't think you are compatible instead of blocking him out of nowhere.

[Jackblue]

Some anime is for kids but other anime is very adult and covers dark themes (although it is always a bit cheesy).

[OfDeath]

You did the right thing. Anime watchers are subhuman.

[SongBirrd]

I think lots of people enjoy anime
of all ages, genders, races etc

[D3P0PowPow]

block is excessive, how would you like it if you best friend blocked you? Have some bravery and actually tell him. Your treating him like shit.

[Papabubbles]

God forbid someone does something that makes them happy. Yes you're the A$$hole

[spartan55]

YTA, but you obviously weren't into him anyway.

[dudeinohio]

Petty reason to block someone

[BoopBoopBeep]

You did him such a huge favor.

[HelpfulWoman]

- the dude has dodged a bullet.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Buy a dog , Die alone.

[DreamLife7]

Girl why u using someone else picture smh

[etsylo]

SHE IS?

[DreamLife7]

@etsylo are u seriously this dense?

[etsylo]

@DreamLife7 are u seriously this rude? i was asking a question, no need for sarcasm or hostility damn

[bunbunbunny]

Not my fault you assume every woman is as fucking ugly as you. Fucking fatass bitch. Maybe focus on losing a few fucking pounds before talking slit whore

[DreamLife7]

@bunbunbunny you're ugly that's why you're stealing profile pictures 🤣😭 . I found the girls instagram and told her. I'm going to post here

[bunbunbunny]

What ahoeobed to girls supporting girls…..

[wiltingrosepetal]

@bunbunbunny ARE YOU KIDDING? After spouting the most hateful rhetoric to other human being you say 'what happened to girls supporting girls'.
Such a troll 😭

[wiltingrosepetal]

@etsylo help this thread is terrible i feel for you 💀

[etsylo]

@wiltingrosepetal fr!! i was just asking a question 😭 i didn't know that wasn't allowed 😔

[DreamLife7]

@wiltingroseptal it's definitely a troll account. They've been frozen several times, duplicate accounts deleted and removed for stealing people's pictures and post. Just report their comment so gag can remove them completely otherwise they'll be stealing and hacking ur stuff too

[DreamLife7]

@bunbunbunny how insecure and unattractive do u have to be that u have to steal pictures? Get therapy ur weird. London aka the person pic u stole is literally in Google.

[DreamLife7]

Ur probably a man

[Luckycharms12]

Don't know why block him just say it's turn Off.