Do you guess thing my long distance relationship with my boyfriend from Texas will last?

[RyBug]

Updates

1 y

We broke up

[Zack-Bann]

Is it long distance for a few months or until graduation?


The unfortunate situation here is that both you and your boyfriend are good looking people.
Meaning you will both be met with interest from other people


And while you can turn it all down and remain faithful on a random Tuesday it takes just one fight, one argument, one drunken party for one of you to “make a mistake”


LDRs are a low success rate endeavor that is a well established fact


You might be able to beat the odds
But it’s not where my money goes

[Hardon-Collider]

It's not about fate, it's about choices. You're asking the wrong question. It won't 'last' or 'not last' like the weather. It will be what you make it. Every time you choose to make the call, every time you make the effort to understand his world, every time you consciously decide to build something, that's what makes it real. It's not about a future outcome. It's about the conscious, active choices you and he make, right now, to build a bridge across the miles. That's what will determine if it lasts.

[RyBug]

Thank you

[WhitneySnow]

It might last a while, but probably not forever. Very few people meet their forever love at 14, whether or not he’s in Texas. But there’s always a chance you’ll reconnect with him later in life when you’re both more mature.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m sorry. That really sucks.

[RyBug]

It's ok

[RyBug]

It was my call

[WhitneySnow]

Then I’m glad you did the right thing for you. Like I said, this person probably wouldn’t have been your forever love anyway. I don’t even talk to any of the guys I dated when I was fourteen.

[RyBug]

Really?

[WhitneySnow]

Really

[RyBug]

Yea, it was for my best interest

[WhitneySnow]

Then I’m defo glad you did it

[RyBug]

Thanks

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome

[DishLady]

Clock it and find out.

[HawkPerception]

Not likely, but it's possible. Long distance relationships usually don't workout unless they make an active effort to see each other or move to the other's area, which is not an easy choice to make at all.

[RHK36]

Definitely not, but learning experience nonetheless

[Anonymous]

A long-distance relationship is not a real relationship.

[zombiewoof]

Online dating is not really a thing, you cannot touch

[RyBug]

Me and him broke up

[zombiewoof]

Better to be with someone you can touch

[RyBug]

Yea, I'm trying to find one again

[zombiewoof]

Hope you do

[RyBug]

Thank you

[zombiewoof]

Welcome

[LiamS95]

I didn't think it would last, sorry

[RyBug]

It's ok

[campbpey]

tbh not really cause he's in TEXAS

[RyBug]

Shut up

[RyBug]

Peyton

[campbpey]

okay bro

[seeyounexttuesday]

It will not

[RyBug]

Why do you answer so fast?

[dudeinohio]

Doubtful