Ever admired someone from afar, but never wanted to get close to them?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, cuz I don't think their personality aligns with mine

Yeah, cuz we are in different social circles

Yeah, but no specific reason for it

Nah

[Anonymous]

Many times. Life has taught me that trying to date MOST women is a put up game.

I know this pisses women off. But men by large know most women today want NOTHING from men but thier attention. Then they want him to f*** off. I can find a woman attractive. But if I know to go up and talk to her will ONLY be an ego stroke for her then why would I give her that? I don't think most women today realize she is not the only baiting guys. That all her sisterhood is playing the same game. And that guys catch on to that.🤦‍♂️😆

[WonderingManII]

That happened at school a lot. I would see a beautiful woman, but she wasn't very kind so I didn't talk to her.

[Anonymous]

Yea and I approached, then I started talking to them and found out they suck. Then I go back and look at them as eye candy or avoid them if they try to get closer to me.
Sometimes I don't even get a chance to approach I'll just make a mental note.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

If you can be more specific, what is your idea of someone who sucks?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Also how did you find out? Did you ask other people and take their word for it?

[Opinion Owner]

Like if he boasts about coming to work late on purpose and not getting in trouble for it or the other example
a teacher assigns the same type of easy homework every Monday when we learn a new chapter, but the guy I'm attracted to won't do the homework. The teacher actually asked him why and he had no excuse. He actually tells the teacher he won't do any of the homework and it's 25% of our grade
I ain't saying crap he's handsome but stupid

[sage2021]

The reason I didn't want to get close to them was because they were married.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, if I admire them, I approach. Always have.