Me and my girlfriend fell in love in distance. We are still in a long distance relationship. We're together for seven years now. We are going to get married soon and i'll move to Finland so we could start our together life.
Yes I have. It caused me to feel lonely and cold at night every day and it did not make lot of sense because I've never had a bed partner but just thinking about unrequited love would keep my body cold and lonely every night at around bed time. I asked about it online and somebody said nature makes you feel that way because you are genetically programmed to look for a mate.
Yes. My girlfriend lives in another state. We're doing whatever we can to be together but it's hard in the mean time. I think the effort we're making to be together is representative of our feelings for one another. Neither of us would try this hard for a superficial romance, and I think it also shows that we're both able and willing to work to make our relationship last. Unless she's hiding something devastating from me I want to marry her at some point down the line, and I think she feels the same way. I think distance can be extremely beneficial to a relationship if it's meant to be a lasting one. People say it's hard and it definitely is, but relationships are hard in general. If you want something easy then go find a whore and a hotel room. Figuratively speaking you could describe a healthy relationship as "Continuously minimizing the distance between two people without repelling each other", so I'd say it's possible to love from a distance as long as the distance continues to shrink.
Yeaaano. Closely enough though. You have to be determined to make it happen though, long distance relationships is a massive lie on your own selves. That's why you have to take it to a committed level to figure someone out and make the plunge to meet eachother before finally finding a place to live. I'm not interested in it taking several years though, and that's what it'd take. At least, at least within the first year or so you figure out eachother so so much. A single day of typing or voice chat is like a week or month of real life stuff because you get the benefit of constant flowing communication.
I’m curious how do you garner love actually from silence afar? Even if it means only looking but seldom communicating or it becomes awkward as usual if it’s attempted? Does that imply what?
For me, it started out as him helping with some questions about travel (didnt know anything about one another) and developed into getting to know each other through letters etc. It may not have been love then but I knew that this man was perfect for me, and I for him. But we were so far, I didn't think we'd ever be able to be together.
Sorry for my late reply, but that sounds magical. I’m not so lucky, I thoughtvhis deep gazes and still staring listlessly at me meant something. I have rarely spoken to him though I come across him daily , yet he and I have nothing to talk about.
I’m creative and end up occupying my mind but when I sit and think, it saddens me that it’s only this much.
He does in not direct proposal but in me complimenting him as handsome, charming and or saying his sweater looks amazing on him.
Yes he stares n stares at me I love that game it’s intoxicating. But I know he’s got his own ideas.
I saw him once randomly walking with a girl , with a long paisley skirt, so super thin and ok I felt ok good at least he’s not closed off permanently. Like so what if it’s not me but I know why he Checks my assets out ( yes I like that attention too because I’m very sensual more than him too) Bad I know but I love it 🥰
@StingRayxoxo My longest distance relationship was about 3 miles away from me, I think the fact I'm still singles suggest I need to spread my relationship net lol
@StingRayxoxo Well he possibly may have an agenda with that opinion and fair play to him lol, I'm definitely going to follow advise and extend my net to at least a 10 mile radius lol
LDR rn. About to change after almost 3 years. It's a good experience actually and I would say we have an even stronger bond than most couples I know. I mean, you wouldn't really pay so much money and travel for 5h to meet someone you didn't love. It can be hard sometimes but I feel even more empowered to keep trying when I realize how amazing it is that we love each so much
Oh wow this literally describes the situation between me and this girl I've been talking to we've literally said that we are in love we care about each other but we live so far apart we can't be together and we aren't fans if long distance relationship so we agreed to provide each other with the emotional comfort that a bf/gf would provide until we get a GF/BF of our own
She was my "HS Sweetheart." I was the dumb one. After dating in HS for 2 years & long distance for 3, I let her go. I felt we were to perfect together. Perfect in so many ways even to the point we looked to much alike. I even began thinking she could pass for my sister. Why these feelings surfaced after 5 years, I don't know. I often wander how we would have been married. If we would have had any fights. She was so compatible & so easy to get along with.
My wife now is awesome. She truly loves me. I like to say I couldn't do much better. But we are not near as compatible. Just maybe what makes us work is we complement each other.😀
Of course, I meant break-up. There's a bit of sadness because her family moved and she appearantly doesn't do fb. Last I knew she was in an abusive relationship. I feel I'll never know how life was for her.
All my crushes have been at a distance, I find it difficult to read intent towards me and fear hurting the object or ruining our friendship too much to say anything.
No one at the moment though so no need to tell me what I already know :)
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