Why would a 29 year old guy want to date an inexperienced 19 year old girl?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a 10 year age gap. There are much bigger age gaps out there. As long as she's legal and there's mutual attraction and consent, then I see no issue.

This society is mostly a bunch of sheep, offended by everything. It's mostly bitter older women that hate on the concept of men dating younger.

There is a dominant submissive dynamic in relationships. It's why men generally prefer to date younger, smaller, shorter, and weaker women, and women generally prefer to date older, bigger, taller, and stronger men. It's a biological attraction and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Men will always want to date women who are youthful, feminine women of ideal ages to give birth.

Women love to label men as pedophiles nowadays every time they're not attracted to older women.

By the way, I'm not saying older women are unattractive. There are some real bombshells out there (they're more on the rare side though, because women tend to stop being physically active after their 20s where they don't have to move around as much as in college and high school and tend to let it go).

But younger women tend to be less jaded, have less experience sexually (which is very attractive to men), and are more adventurous and fun to be around (generally... not always).

contentious · Accepted Answer

Being that he's not a mind reader, I'm guessing he didn't know your exact age when he approached you. You looked attractive to him. He approached you and talked to you. You seemed OK, so he wanted to see where it went. Then he found out your age...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Very easy question and you will known when you get older that SOME older men like younger women because they're naive and won't detect red flags so easily, especially if they're inexperienced. Normally 3 years older or younger is acceptable, but a large age gap like this usually suggests that there's something wrong with him and the women his age don't want him.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Cause he's an inexperienced 29 year old, or because he has a thing for much younger women, or because he likes the younger woman's personality or all three. Only time will tell.

ohsheeT · Answer

Are you the 19 year old girl   Do you want to date him

HighValue · Answer

It is possible they have compatible morals, compatible interests, compatible long term life goals, he thinks since she is younger she is less likely to have been morally corrupted yet. There are many possibilities.

Obviously most of the women in the comments have no idea because so many are wrong. Just because those women only prioritize sex when looking for a partner, that doesn't mean most guys do.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

He may find her attractive on the outside and want to see if they vibe and can work together. That’s the optimistic answer.

He may also be shy or lack self esteem and feel someone that much younger he can “trick” in a sense to make her believe she can rely on him to be a leader. That’s the less optimistic answer

Anonymous · Answer

Because they want to control them, men like inexperienced women because they are able to control them and take away there innocence look at the only dude that’s replied comment. Notice how it was about her innocence?

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Sexual.. Nothing else for it lol  Same reason a 19 year old guy would want a 30 something.. purely sexual.. big age gaps happen because the guy is thinking with their dick and nothing else..

Asb_Samson · Answer

Because there’s something intoxicating about guiding a girl who’s still discovering her desires… watching her innocence slowly melt into raw passion under his touch. That mix of curiosity and hunger makes the connection explosive.

Bricealan · Answer

I did that at 29 and ONLY because she expressed an interest in going out with me. I did not go out of my way to ask her out. We worked in the same large company, and she did not conduct herself as inexperienced, she was a virgin.

RavVid · Answer

Perhaps he likes her? I don't see the inexperience is such a big deal and I don't thing we should all turn Pro in terms of sex. Surely there is still scope for Pro-Am events.

slatyb · Answer

Because he's immature and women his age won't date him.

Apple1996 · Answer

Because he can't impress a woman his own age so he has no other choice but to date younger women who dont know better

aceleon · Answer

maybe he likes it young? maybe he likes her and not her age? maybe experience means shit to him?

Berethor · Answer

A girl's inexperience is a good thing, who want a ho? also she is aleady an legal age girl.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Hopefully it is because he likes her. But it could also be that he wants sex with a younger girl or a virgin. What do you think?

Anonymous · Answer

for the same reason a gay dude wants to date other dudes there's nothing malicious about it

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

why not, it lies in our nature to be attracted mostly to 19-23 year old women since its their prime fertility time, its how we are made

Ironic_Method · Answer

They can be appreciative. Full of energy. Eager. Lots of reasons.

Anonymous · Answer

He just prefers robbing the cradle as the saying goes Power

Sal_Monella · Answer

Because he finds her sexually attractive. Fresh and new.

Wuai201 · Answer

He's a shark and it's Jaws week

exitseven · Answer

, maybe she is sweet and kind

Vegasrunner · Answer

Literally every man's dream.

Anonymous · Answer

answer is hidden in question; inexperienced;

Anonymous · Answer

User maybe I don't know

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