If a woman never has slept with someone is she less of an adult?

[girlyisaskinh]

Eg being in 30s and beyond and never doing it. Is she considered less of an adult even if she has a buisness and education and job. Just curious about the way society thinks..

[HawkPerception]

That, to men is more respectable than a woman who sleeps around. The less a woman sleeps around, the more she's generally valued by men.

However, I will say if you haven't been physically intimate with someone before 30, that's a little bit of a red flag. It means you might be impossible to get with or have traits that repel men.

[girlyisaskinh]

Guys dont really approach or speak to me. I look 16

[HawkPerception]

Pretty sure if you put yourself in environments like bars, that will easily identify you as an adult.

Also, if you're interested in a guy, build up the courage to approach him as well. Don't let opportunities go just because you think it's a man's job to approach a woman. Otherwise nothing will ever happen. If you want love, then pursue it. Don't wait passively.

[girlyisaskinh]

Na i dont really want love no offence. So i see no point. But society seems to see it as a big deal. So it makes me feel odd. I care about other things way more than love. Also its not real.. im not stupid

[HawkPerception]

Then I don't understand the point of mentioning that guys don't approach or speak to you because you look 16

[girlyisaskinh]

Im replying to you claim that its a flag i must have personality isssues traits that repel men but im replying men dont even approach me get to know me , im saying it might be because i look young or it could be something else I don't know im just giessong. I've been to clubs and bars etc i have a job etc but nothing. My og question is if im less of an adult because i haven't had sex , remember?

[HawkPerception]

If you haven't experienced sex, then people will naturally think of you as less mature than themselves as sex is a major part of living. They'll see you as inexperienced in life and that you don't know what physical pleasure even is. Sex is one of life's great pleasures.

[girlyisaskinh]

I know what physical pleasure is.. probably more thna most women 🙃 most women can't cum from men. Its fact. Sorry to be crude. But yeah i know my body very well and know more pleasure than most haha

[HawkPerception]

If you say so 😂

[girlyisaskinh]

Thats what my friend told me.. they have never orgasmed not a sinngle one of them. They told me they just fake it. At least i can …. I dont know what ur finding funny?

[girlyisaskinh]

So why am i seen not as an adult then? How does it make sense?

[girlyisaskinh]

And so are 13 year olds that have sex more adults than me?

[girlyisaskinh]

Your not replying so im gonna assume you can't reply and ur an idiot.

[HawkPerception]

No I was just replying to other comments and doing other things with my time. I have a life of my own and don't have to respond to an online stranger asap. I was planning on responding to you when I can. The fact that you reacted as you did clearly shows you're immature and can't be considered an adult mentally.

[HawkPerception]

And no it doesn't make 13 year olds more of an adult than you just because they have more sex. All I was saying is that sex is a factor in how people perceive how much life experience you've had. It's like saying you haven't traveled to other countries in your life. The more experiences you have, the more people can say you've lived.

[HawkPerception]

Anyways, I'm done here. Not gonna bother responding to someone that responds so immaturely.

[Anonymous]

a woman's sexual history, or lack thereof, does not define her status as an adult. Adulthood is a complex social and cultural construct based on a variety of factors, including economic independence, education, career, and the ability to make mature, responsible decisions. While some traditional or conservative societal views may link sexual experience to a certain stage of maturity, these are often rooted in historical gender roles and beliefs about purity and a woman's value being tied to her sexual behavior. In many modern and progressive societies, these views are considered outdated and harmful. A woman who has a business, an education, and a job is, by all common measures of adulthood, an adult, and her sexual history is a private matter that is irrelevant to her maturity, worth, or standing in society.

[ohsheeT]

She is probably more of an adult. She's a leader, she is conscious. She is energy. She is probably beautiful from the inside out.
She has wisdom she has love

And when she is ready, she will be ready

[HighValue]

Her "education" is likely just indoctrination and debt, but her not being sexually experienced just means she hasn't found someone that she is actually emotionally attached to (loves) enough yet to go all the way with them. It also means that she wouldn't have kids by other people from her past. Neither of those things would make her less desirable, it would actually make her a better choice for a partner.

[Zionne]

No, she’s not less of an adult lol adulthood is about responsibility, independence, and maturity, not sexual experience. Society may judge, but being a virgin doesn’t erase achievements or growth.

[bowenw]

It is her personal choice and does not make her any less of an adult.

[MannMitAntworten]

Men’s perspective will largely be, not remotely. Beats me what women think on this anymore.

[Anonymous]

No. Society is far too oversexed. It puts far to much emphasis on who you're sleeping with and not sleeping with.

[girlyisaskinh]

Why does society do this?

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all. Wit for the right guy t the right time in your life! A guy would be lucky to have you!

[In_Trance]

It's definitely a red flag

[girlyisaskinh]

To whom? If she doesn't want a mate who is it a red flag to? How does it effect those people that its a red flag to? Why? Answer me this please if your able to

[girlyisaskinh]

Sex is about rubbing genitals as a response to primitive biological urges. Why is it a res flag if a woman doesn't want anything to do with that?

[In_Trance]

Clearly you have no idea what you're talking about... Which is another red flag

[girlyisaskinh]

Okay go fuck yourself you ugly ass fucker and stop commenting on my posts.. i swear i blcoked u

[Kinkyhubby]

No. She is still an adult

[MasterKS]

She is boring.

[girlyisaskinh]

To whom? What if she doesn't like men and doesn't care about them?

[MasterKS]

@girlyisaskinh if so then so must be keep quite and stay away from guys.

[girlyisaskinh]

Keep quiet? Lol okay mr tough guy. Shut your bitch ass up please. I will never be quiet i am richer than you will ever be bitch. You men can go fuck each other dumb ass ape

[MasterKS]

@girlyisaskinh Your words explain who you are... wasted bitch! LOL!

[Anonymous]

No of course dude