How do you feel after your date night and you wake up and he’s gone?

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Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I always expected it most of the time. Men are users for the most part.

Brandi555 · Accepted Answer

Never happened

Finchie40 · Answer

, I would feel used and feel she was just using me to get off on , I’d feel like I was just another guy added to her list of Dicks to be honest. It’s happened to me a a bunch of times with lying selfish girls’ and when I found out the truth as to why she did it? , it was mainly because she was married or already in a relationship with someone else , that she didn’t disclose to me prior to jumping into bed with me . We live in a society with selfish people that lie to get what they want , that will blow smoke up your ass to get what they want as well , or what they are after to begin with. It sadly happens more than we think it does. It’s happened to me over a handful of times to the point I no longer really care, why I have a hard time trusting people , so if she wants to be a lying selfish whore , that uses people , I feel her time will come , when it catches up to her and smacks her right on the face , because it more than likely will , and when it does smack her in the face , I hope it changes her to stop being a selfish person. We aren’t mind readers , we can only give hoping to receive the same in return , but unfortunately it doesn’t always go that way. So just know you were used and if you are wise , you shouldn’t allow that motherfucker back into your life whatsoever, he just liked the convenience of you , just to get laid , everything he told you prior , was all bullshit , because someone that actually has dignity and respect wouldn’t disappear on someone they just had sex with period. He got what he wanted and disappeared , probably back to his wife or girlfriend. I had my fair share of married women and taken girls’ that got me into bed and we had amazing sex , so I just look at it as sex and nothing more if info do it she was lying to me the whole time , basically thanks for a good time but not a long time period

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I’m married now, so it’s never going to happen. When i was single and dating, if i spent the night, i was interested and i didn’t conveniently disappear!

HawkPerception · Answer

Luckily, I've never experienced this, but I'm a pretty light sleeper and if someone gets up from bed, it's more than likely I'd wake up and notice.

AviatorTom · Answer

Never happened. I stayed for breakfast before heading off to work.

Anonymous · Answer

I was 20, he was in his mid 30s. My manager at the time introduced me to his brother who found a liking in me. He asked me out on a date. That was a Monday. On Saturday we went on the date. After the date I invited him in for a coffee. It was not supposed to be anything more than a coffee. When I said coffee, I MEANT COFFEE. Bad timing kicked in and I got an Epileptic Seizure. When I became conscious again, he was on top of me having sex with me. I asked him to stop but he didn't. The next morning I woke up and he was gone. I didn't get any message from him either. On Monday I went to worked and ask my boss how his brother is. My boss informed me that his brother went to Dubai for business and won't be back for a while. I didn't tell my boss anything. But I did resigned shortly after. So I felt violated, betrayed, used and raped.

fantasticass · Answer

Well, unfortunately this can happens when a guy is married, or lives with a girl. Stop dating him, you are worth more than a fuck. And don't have sex for a least 90 days into a new relationship. If the guy gives you excuses, then he's the wrong guy for you. Give yourself some personal boundaries and standards, and I'm sure this will never happen again. Good luck ✌️

bobalife · Answer

I’m sorry that is disappointing and hurtful, but honestly you dodge a bullet. Just know that isn’t the right person if they’re going to be a jerk and did not communicate in any way before/after leaving.

Natasha1995 · Answer

That never happened to me. But I'd feel terrible, like he didn't care about me at all.

Paige90 · Answer

That he didn't like me or the sex. Or... he may be married!

Zionne · Answer

You’d likely feel confused, hurt, and a bit used, waking up alone after a date feels like being left hanging. Ask him calmly what happened and iff his answer isn’t honest or it keeps happening, rethink the relationship.

Sunrising · Answer

When I've slept with someone they have always been there the next morning, and life is wonderful for a short period of time. But unfortunately there's always been a reason for splitting up.

DJB72 · Answer

There's nothing worse than waking up to find the girl, your wallet and phone have gone except finding all of them in the trunk of your car...

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I have yet to sneak out. On that same token, I have yet to have someone sneak out on me.

SphynxUK · Answer

Never happened to me, but if it did, I’d feel relief 😅

serious · Answer

Never experienced this because I have never dated

exitseven · Answer

I cannot imagine ever doing this to somebody. I guess this is why I never had one night stands.

Bricealan · Answer

@jennz6 From my POV, an absolutely unforgivable thing to do

x-anastasiaa-x · Answer

Why are you leaving, my love? 🫤 No no. I'm staying strong.

bowenw · Answer

That has never happened to me and I'd never do it to someone.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

No sex before marriage, which means i'll always wake up finding her on my side...

Wiredone · Answer

I've never done that to anyone and never had it done to me

nawtee_me · Answer

Without a word? It would be the last time….

Likes2drive · Answer

Well that’s never happened to me with a woman and I’ve never did that to a woman

Anonymous · Answer

I've done that to a guy but I left him a text message

dougeats · Answer

If its my ex girlfriend that I smash now and then... relieved lol

FenixG45 · Answer

I feel the same as you after my date night and I wake up and she’s gone.

Fashionista7 · Answer

It be weird be back at he’s place. I’d would of been gone.

molonski2 · Answer

Don't think I could ever sleep that deeply.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Some times it's a good thing 😂

Neallyaa · Answer

I rarely date

Kinkyhubby · Answer

Never happen to men not have i ever left

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Does. Not. Happen. Sorry 🤗🤗

qwerty2469 · Answer

Lol. That pussy was trash

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Who does that i wake up wanting more

CubaPirate · Answer

Relieved I'd guess

Anonymous · Answer

Never happened to me thankfully.

Anonymous · Answer

He who? I would be with a girl.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Hasn't happened...

FreyaRed · Answer

Decent.

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

I would think how the fuck did I end up with a guy

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