Should I be upset?

[Anonymous]

The other day I said to my boyfriend aw least your mate has met me now we have only been together a few months he turned round and said yeah I can say your from Thailand and had the op he try’s to joke but I made it known that comment was shitty and I feel cause he’s insecure in himself he tried to make me feel shit

[ohsheeT]

You are right, he has no confidence, no. Self-worth.
And he makes things up in his head. He is a total red flag because he does not believe in himself at all. And then he's going to try to blame things on you

Be careful.
That's the complete opposite of love

[Asker]

He defo has no confidence and yesterday we went for lunch and I sat on his knee for a picture when I got up he said thank god and I took that as he was saying I was heavy iv called him out and tbh he has been off al day cause iv called him out

[ohsheeT]

So do you want to be with a guy like that