Should I be upset?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend of 8 years so called baby mother says that he's still messing around with her. the whole time I'm like no he's not. And here she comes with receipts. She sent me text messages of him asking her could he sleep with her. He told her he doesn't even talk to me nor sleeping with me lol. I'm so ready to leave him alone. I'm thinking he's not even taking care of their baby and she sent me a text of him asking her what does the baby need. 🤣When he got her pregnant, they didn't even know each other. She told me herself she didn't. I don't care what she thinks. I'm not letting her get my man. 🥱she's a known slut who sleeps with his family members.

[sawno]

Ok so your message is very conflicted. You think she's after your boyfriend but simultaneously he may be cheating on you?

There is a real ability to spoof text messages, so the question becomes how likely is this ex of his going to know how to do that? And which platform were the texts on? Was it on a platform where this isn't spoofable like whatsapp? Or was it over regular text message and a real back and forth?

Because if she replied to him back and forth its probably real if you were shown inside the real app as he'd have gotten those messages. If its one way and she ignored them all that can be because she used a number spoofing site to text herself.

[tempirl2012]

It's definitely real.

[bowenw]

If you are exclusive with him you should be upset if he's sleeping with her. If he is, it is time for you to move on.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[RxR0954]

You should be upset absolutely, it would be strange if you’re not upset your man is cheating on you with his ex. Why are you keeping the trash though? And what if he gets with her after you dump him? She’s doing you a favor by taking your trash out for you, let her keep it, you could do better.

[tempirl2012]

It's not his ex. They weren't even together. Smh

[RxR0954]

Ok? She’s his babymama then, doesn’t change the fact that is his child and not financially supporting his child counts as deadbeat dad behavior

[tempirl2012]

Well I was pregnant by him too. I just didn't keep it. I know he wasn't really taken care of his previous kids already.

[DishLady]

Why are you allowing her to communicate with you? I don’t get it.

[Purpleronnie]

I think it would be perfectly normal to be upset by that

[Zionne]

uhm? not just upset. I'd be maaadddd. If she's showing you receipts then your man also has a problem. Run.

[RHK36]

You're toxic so sure. Be upset that your loser boyfriend is cheating and his ex is telling you about it.

[Staximus]

It sounds like you're saying "this is my piece of shit". Good luck with that. Have some self respect and get rid of that shit bag.

[WellBye]

what the fk did I just read.

[queenofcardio]

Upsetting situation

[Anonymous]

You're still on about this guy?