I dont know if its fair for me to end things over this. But two times now he made plans and didn't bother following up on it unless I questioned him?

[Anonymous]

And mind you we been in some unlabeled thing for 2 years because I never used to initiate stuff but now I have been and I asked him out and he said he'll tell me tomorrow and tomorrow comes and nothing... I just think after 2 years of this shit, he could have followed up yk. A simple yes or no.

no.

It makes me feel like im not a priority, and I blocked him many times and ghosted him because of this yet he always found a way to message me and come back because apparently he doesn't want to be with any other girl

But its frustrating because all he does is invite me to some house once a month not even on a date. I mean sure he texts me every single day and keeps the conversations going when I get dry or spam me whenever i ignore him... but thats about it 🙃🙃

[ohsheeT]

It is fair because what you're doing is teaching him how to be responsible.
And you're telling him what you need what you want from him over and over and he's not hearing you


So then you have to think okay. What is the reason? Does he not have a job? Is he not making money that could be one reason

Or is he just too lazy and would rather play video? Take you out and have fun with you.

I'm sure you have explained everything to him more than one time

And when you say he apparently doesn't want to go out with other girls. It's not that

It's he doesn't want you to go out with other guys

And he has you right now and you won't be able to get another girlfriend because he's too busy. Playing video games or he doesn't have any money to take them out either. So he's gonna keep telling you what you want to hear. Until he gets his shit together I guess

[Lliam]

Sounds like he takes you for granted and thinks only about himself. Maybe he's too cheep to take you to a restaurant or on an outing.
Do you have any shared interests? What does he do when he's not with you? I wonder why he wouldn't want to take you out to do something you would enjoy.

[Asker]

I don't know he just started working and its probably like 4 days a week. We do have lots of shared interests. He does complain about not having enough money... and I dont even care, like just take me to the park or just 3 hours of something, you know? 😭

[Deezy951]

Your wasting your time and he only has you around for his convenience from what it sounds like I'm saying this because I'm a guy and I've done this before and it's wrong life is too short to cut yourself short of having the full experience of being love by someone just as much as you love them

[Asker]

But he literally drunk called me weeks ago after I ghosted him thinking the same thing! And then asking to try and date again and then he doesn't wanna be with anyone else and stuff like that 😅

[Deezy951]

It's probably because you are the only one entertaining his nonsense.. stand your ground tell him what you want and if he can't fulfill your wishes move on

[Staximus]

The guy has no idea how to act like a boyfriend and both of you have the communication skills of a fucking tree. You accepted this bullshit relationship so that's what you get.

[Asker]

How do I have a communication of a tree when im literally telling him what's wrong? 😭

[slatyb]

Some unlabeled things? What do you want?

[Iron_Man]

Don’t end it teach him a lesson protest

[Asker]

Yeah i did. For the first time i actually called him out on his behavior 😅

[Iron_Man]

Good Job you did good