Gone on a few dates but she's unavailable?

[Paul1366]

I've been talking with a girl for about a month. She's doing her masters and I work full time but we've met up a couple of times for drinks and stuff. We went out yesterday afternoon and she text me today saying she's really busy with her work placement for the next 12 weeks and she doesn't think it's fair on me.

I feel like we had a real connection and I'd like to see where it could go. Is it worth me telling her this or just move on

[Genie23]

I'm sorry to hear that 🙁 I think if she's really focused on her career and doesn't seem like she has much time for other things or someone in life then it's better to just let her go and move on because the way I see it- if someone wants to be with you, they'll be with you, they'll also include you in the list of priorities but if you have to ask them to make time for you and consider you, then what's the point?

[Anonymous]

The subtle approach does not work on girls. Text her late one night asking if she wants to suck your cock. Chances are she'll say yes. Busy girls crave sex without any strings, and they like guys to take charge.

If she says no, tell her you just wanted to ask because it's hard to get time away from your wife. If she says no to both of those, then she's not interested on any level, and never was, so you haven't lost anything, but it's likely one of those options will turn her on, a lot.

Then don't put any pressure on her, just use her as a sex toy while she's busy with her work. If there's a relationship there it will find it's way over time.

[Miristheiss]

She is a feminist who is making her CAREER number one in her life. To wait until she is 25 or 26 means she's sleeping around a lot. Probably lost her V at 16 to 18 and has been getting a rotating source of dick ever since.

She is NOT a good long term fit. She has chosen a career and promiscuity. Didn't you have a good strong, wise father to teach you the difference between a good woman and bad one? What qualities make a good long term mate?

This isn't it. Feminist career women aren't it.

Run dude. Run.

[HollyK21]

It’s probably best to just let her go. I know it sucks because you felt a connection but if her schedule just doesn’t allow for that then you’ve got to understand.

[dwreborn]

The chance for happiness with someone is never worth not trying for go for it

[Alex-Snow]

You can try but it sounds complicated and she may be trying to move on with the next chapter of her life

[Nikki1989]

If it is not happening, it is not happening. It might be best to just move on.

[Anonymous]

I’d say just move on. It’s very unlikely you’ll be able to convince a girl who says this to change her mind. “Unfair to you” really means “unduly burdensome to me.”

[Anonymous]

If she is currently busy, you should be very patient. Maybe when she finishes her masters.