Is it obsession if you still think about the same guy every now and then? And try to date guys that look like him?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Yes in a way it is. Look everyday we go through things. And when we break up we think about it and we learn from it so the next it might not happen again
It's ok to like the things you liked about your ex. But you new guy can have the same type of qualities. Maybe the same features, but it's not gonna be that person's God. So look at your new boyfriend as your new boyfriend. And who he is and nobody else that way it might last

But I do know what you're talking about. Because I just went to a break up. And I see a lot of girls with the same look and that are even more beautiful. Are there features are more define, but I know there will be nobody like her. But I hear what you're saying

And that's even a little bit more Kinkyy. Because what you're wishing for is a new guide. They can do the same thing or better than the old guyou can't tell me you didn't think about that either

[RavVid]

No. You know what you like is what it means.

All the women I like have the same face. This is not just girls I want to get off with, but includes women I am just friendly with and are too young or too old for me to have sexual intentions towards.

I surely have a type/tribe.

[HollyK21]

Thinking about him every now and then isn’t obsessive, specifically choosing men who look like him is.

[OneViewpoint]

I think it's creepy and no favor to the lookalike guys you are stalking. Get some help.

[Saxvaxxx]

It’s not stalking. I don’t stalk him or harass him

[Asker]

I’m not stalking

[Ironic_Method]

Sounds like it. Someone had a crush on me once upon a time and proceeded to date three different guys that had the same name as myself... weird obsession.

[zagor]

Yeah I was obsessed with a girl for several years and it ruined my chance to have a decent relationship when I was in the perfect situation to find a good girl.

[Anonymous]

Yes. That last part is way weirder. I would want to avoid girls that remind of my obsession. It is fair for the new girl.

[Fireguy17]

ya, it might be a bit of a talking point to a good therapist.

[Ninania]

Yes, that doesn't sound healthy.

[In_Trance]

You might want to talk to somebody about that

[DannyUk2017]

Yup!

[jahaims]

Not healthy