Is it bad I never want to move in with someone, get married or have kids?

Question

I've just never wanted any of these, what are your thoughts?

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Nobody cares. My first thought is that you must have main character complex because you expect other people to give a shit.

That thought leads me to other thoughts though. "Why would the asker expect other people to care?"

Oh... I get it.

See I used to never want any of that shit either, but I didn't advertised it... I just liked my freedom and fucking tons of random chicks instead of getting being bitched at for drinking beers and playing video games on a week night or tied down with just one chick. My secret life plan was just to develop a passive income and once phased out of being sexually viable... just enjoy drugs, booze, and video games all I want and not have to work. Maybe you're the female version of what I once was... that's cool. But that brings me to my question, "Why would the asker expect other people to care?"

Oh.. I get it.

You're just a libtard. Am I right? This is your "Identity" and all that? Strong independent woman and all that? You're hoping this will enrage some religious person because you're not getting married and having babies and all that?

Don't get me wrong, I hope I am 100% incorrect about you being a Libtard/communist/terrorist and you're just like I was when I was young... you just want to enjoy life and not be a part of society. That these choices has nothing to do with retarded political ideologies that's been spoon fed to you so that you'll be anti-family, working/tax paying, and do what your overlords demand of you so that they can hold onto their money while they slowly erode your quality of life because you're a mere pleb...

Anyways that's my thoughts. As for the question... I only think it's bad if you're doing it for the sake of the cult or to virtue signal to the cult. If you're just doing it for yourself then I think it's fine... it's just your own personal life choice and you're not making those choices because you hate more than you love anything.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You have that right and I understand the reasons behind it

Im and empath and I love my quiet time.

I stopped watching TV 5 1/2 years ago

My brother needed a place to stay for about a week at night I could hear his TV. If I was in my room he would come in and just start talking his non since talk ( you have to know him to understand )

With the world headed to where we are headed. We don't know
Well you only want to be responsible for your self so I understand the kid s mine our grown .. but I understand.

Some of us are deep in thought trying to figure all the lies we have been told. Out. We look for truth

Ninania · Accepted Answer

Nope, better to know what you want than waste your time trying to fit into other people's expectations.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some people like digging that lonely grave for themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

That is completely up to you. I wonder why though. But I won’t question it. For me being someone is a part of my life. To share all the special memories w, to build that life together. Through all the ups and downs, to be there for one another. I work in the hospital, always saddens me when people show up alone then receive a bad diagnosis. I think having a family is a great thing. I get these days it’s harder w all the crazy stuff going on in this world. But yes leaving behind a legacy to me is great. To see your grandkids. To reminisce on all the things you two have been through in life. The trips, birthdays and so on.

Nik1hil · Answer

No it isn't!.. It isn't your fault..

Our Previous Generation didn't Gave a world that was Good or Safe enough to raise a Happy Family.

Imagine raising a Family worried about Pedophiles and Rapists in neighbourhood, Baby Murder Clinics in Hospitals, a Civilization glowing with Crime. Where Kings are the Biggest Sinners is not a Garden, but a Hellhole where any sane human being wouldn't want to bring their Kids into!..

DrPepper12 · Answer

That you choose you. Don't apologize for what you desire!!! Ever!!

RHK36 · Answer

Does it matter? Like if the answer was yes are you gonna change. If it's no does it improve your feelings on the matter. Just live your life.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Whatevr floats your boat, it's your life

jahaims · Answer

Sounds trauma based

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