After reading the question and the answers I say, don't marry him. If you both were in agreement about not wanting to have kids I'd say you were golden. However, since he thinks you will change your mind this is going to be a recipe for for disaster. Yes people do change their minds but if you are adamant about not wanting any children then you two should not be getting married. No offense meant, but I do wonder how you even made it this far considering your different goals about children.
I'd talk to your fiance one last time and make your position clear about children. In the end it's your choice and no one else's if you want children or not. So don't put yourself in a position where what you want will be a sources of contention by others.
Depends. Have you made it clear to your fiance that you don't want children? If yes, then you're fine. He made that choice. If no, then it would be wrong and selfish to deny him the family you know he wants.
As for the opinions and expectations of everyone else? Fuck them. It's not their marriage. They can mind their own business.
marriage is about the couple.
Bit still, if he's going to want it too, you have to weigh up the pros and cons. Will he start harassing you for kids? have you even discussed the fact you don't want kids with him?
Ok so you should already have had "the talk" where you lay out what you both want out of the future. And as neither of you want kids that's OK. You should be able to have a happy life.
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The only question is, if you and your future husband have the same opinion on kids.
If both of you don't want kids its totally fine, get married and live happy just the two of you.
If he wants kids, this will or may lead to problems later on, and you have to discuss it and be open about it.
Whatever other people think and expect from you has no value, they have to respect whatever choices you make.
If your husband-to-be wants children and you do not, you guys should work that out BEFORE marriage.
It’s pretty unfair to marry a man who wants kids only to tell him after the wedding that’s it’s not going to happen. If he already knows your position, and you have made it clear to him you won’t change your mind, then he seriously needs to consider what is important to him in this life.
If he really want children, he needs to find a woman who wants children too.
If both of you had already discussed and agreed upon not having kids, its no one else's business.
But he also wants kids? Maybe you should sit down and have a talk. Cause it feels like you will get pressured in the future.
Marriage has nothing to do with children. Do what you want
It’s fine if your fiancé knows and agrees. No one gets a vote.
No, it's not wrong. There's no law that says you have to have kids.
Give him maybe one
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