Is it save able or no?

Clif notes. So I been seeing this guy for a month and we been doing well. Talk everyday and he's so open and honest its crazy new to me. We connect on so many different levels its wild. In a small amount of time he has treated me better than anyone has ever treated me. he's a safe place and secure. I have fallen for this man, Deeply. I felt so safe i put myselfout there to have sex and when he saw i was tight he pulled away and told me he's not ready and doesn't want to hurt me. Becausehow long its been. Yesterday he told me he had dinner with his ex who came by un announced and when he was making dinner. I know nothing happened. I told him how I felt proud of him for letting me know right away and communicated with me. He brings up this. I haven't had sex with him yet and we been out like 7 times doing long dates. Connecting in all the right ways. Today he came out to see me when I was clearing my head with my own drama. He had me open up about things. Him being there for me when he didn't have to be made me happy. I loved it. I told him how much more I care for him doing so. Because I never had a person around I didn't have to be tip toeing around for. It scares me to lose that. He got annoyed and drove off. But before he did he said he was frustrated with me and said i feel like im tip toeing around him... he keeps taking my calls and let me talk. He told me he loves me but this is a lot and he's frustrated and his head hurts. I told him how I been sexually frustrated and I think thats what all this is. He told me he feels the same. But I wouldn't do it. But we are trying to plan a time to be together. Im a big time over thinker and how we talk and how he called me back and talked to me and answered the phone to my calls. Before that frustrated part was said he told me he couldnt see me for a while. Im not sure if this is a good or bad thing. Help a girl out.

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He isn't messaging me but is ❤️ my stories on ig...
Is it save able or no?
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