How do I even handle this?

[Anonymous]

This girl and I have been going back and forth since just before summer. We did some things too.

But the one moment she is practically planning our wedding and naming our kids and I am the only guy in the world (we aren’t together).

And the other moment she says we should just see where this goes. But I think she is really into me, even more than I am into her and that’s why it confuses me.

Also every time we have a fight over this she chases me 10 times harder.

[NoDecision]

I can't see what you are complaining about. Half the guys on here would love to be in your shoes. 🤔

[Asker]

I don’t mean seeing where this goes positively. Didn’t really know how to put it, but she means. Both doing our own thing and see where that might eventually leave us.

Then I confront her and she goes back to how she always was, but this keeps going on.

I want her, and the moments where she acts like that too are great but the suddenly she pulls back hard.

[NoDecision]

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and is very indecisive. Can you live with that? If not it's time to move on.

[Asker]

I have no clue, might have to as it annoys me hard