Why do you need more partner's?

[incubuskatz]

Do not give me this reason. Biological response to spread your seed far and wide that is just a cop out excuse from taking accountability gone are the days men hide behind this nonsense as women can make up the same excuse and even feel the desire to flirt and sleep with other hot guys yet she doesn’t. It’s not gender specific it’s not in God natural order or plan for people to ever operate like this it goes against all principals and the body… What is the real reason you men fail to stay true and loyal to one girl is it boredom? Is it cause you are insecure and are afraid she will leave one day so you need a backup plan? Is it cause you need the constant dopamine hits of stroking your ego from other chicks and validation? What is your reason for losing self control?

[Orion84]

Why does anyone cheat, male or female?

The excuses may vary by gender, as in the example you gave, but those are just excuses. As a guy that's never even been tempted to cheat, but has been cheated on, all I can assume is that the cheater is just a shitty, selfish person.

I can't think of a single, justifiable reason for cheating, but as I said; I've never done it. If you're bored, or unhappy, then either don't even attempt to enter an exclusive relationship, or do the adult thing, and break up with your partner.

Most cheaters that I've known have rationalized their actions, but every single excuse I've heard has been bullshit. They're just trying to make themselves sound better, rather than admitting they're a piece of shit who's incapable of remaining loyal.

[Anonymous]

Another female telling men how we’re supposed to be, how we’re supposed to act but isn’t a man herself. Amazing! You think, ok why is it men are pretty much all the same? Maybe cause we’re created that way. Amazing how a man in Korea thinks the same thing when he sees a hot, naked female as a man would if he saw her in the US. Just the same as women all over the world seem to be emotional, maybe because you’re created this way.

[Nikki1989]

If you don't want cop out excuses from men, you are on the wrong website. They will either throw one of those excuses at you OR turn the topic right around to women and avoid the question all together. (see the blue anon garbage).

[OneViewpoint]

I keep looking or at least maintain an open mind because I've never found love. It seems appealing but either elusive or a fantasy humans cling to. It's not about the body count. It's about sifting through the sand looking for a nugget of gold.

[incubuskatz]

Yeah. That’s cause love is everywhere. It’s in the atoms, animals, nature. Etc in the stillness, in the wind you cannot see. Love is a choice in action not a feeling steadfast and the western society way of thinking will tell you it’s “feelings” yet that is temporary, ever changing and unreliable not true pure love.

[Grond21]

Men don't need more partners.

Here is the dirty secret those who push polyamory don't want you to know. When you use someone instead of love them, they ALWAYS bore you. They do feel like they need more partners, they are bored and want their ego stroked, but it all stems from usury. But if you truly love someone they are more than enough

[incubuskatz]

Makes sense he doesn’t love me. Thanks for letting me know. Cannot wait someday for someone who is actually
Crazy about me and has eyes for only me I’m gonna make him one happy man.

[Grond21]

You are welcome. I was told a mantra when I was younger that has been powerful in my life. "I will not use you, and you will not use me."

I hope you find him soon. You sound like you are ready to really love him

[RHK36]

Women chest just as much if not more. Ask your besties why they cheat, I imagine it's going to be for similarly lame excuses. Bottom line is most people are selfish and don't care about consequences until the moment of having to face them. If cheating is all you've ever experienced then take a look at why you keep choosing the wrong person. It's not bad luck, it's poor selection and judgment.

[DryGermanGuy]

Is there a reason you only seem to address guys with this question? Because I know actually more female than male cheaters.

[incubuskatz]

I am not trying to make a personal attacks or assumptions and I don’t doubt women cheat but because I’ve only ever experienced being cheated on for the last 35 years… not sure if it’s something I am doing wrong?